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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My two friends are so mean! How do I put a stop to this behavior?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5932 days ago

23 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - basically i'm starting to dislike how my best friends act. one of them is a girl, lets call her stacy. and the other is a boy, lets call him ryan. (but he's gay.. so he's like a girl). anyways ryan is a mean person in general, loves to criticize people. (especially me) and it ... (208 words)

When we're alone it's quiet. How can I liven up the conversation with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5930 days ago

23 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i hate how it's silent with me and him. we've been going out for 2 days. we've known each other since middle school. when we're alone it's quiet. we're both not shy, but when we're together we just are! and when we're around people its usually like me talking to other people ... (112 words)

Are his emails to his ex empty flirtation or leading to a fling?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5932 days ago

23 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing my boyfriend for over a year, and I am besotted by him. However, he is a very passionate and attractive man and had a number of romantic flings while with his long-term ex gf of 15 yrs (girl A - who he says he was with for the children. He says he adores me ... (359 words)

Had unprotected sex and now...my period is late!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5931 days ago

23 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - im seriously confused. ive been havin unprotected sex with my boyfriend and my period is over a week late. im not always regular but im fairly close to the same date most of the time. my mothers keeps on pressuring me because she thinks i might be pregnant, but ive been having ... (86 words)

I think he likes me, but he won't show affection in front of others. What's happening?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5933 days ago

23 September 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Hey Tonight ive had a great time. i was out with my friends and the guy i like called me , he decided to come out, and so he did, he walked me home and we sat down on the pavement . cuddled up . we then stood up and he hugged me from behind we stood together for ages cheek to... (130 words)

Dated him a year and always felt like he was cheating..I just found out he was married!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5933 days ago

23 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I was going with a guy and we just celebrated our 1 year anniversary on the 11th of September 08. I always thought that he was cheating on me because of the lack of time spent together with me and lack if any phone calls from him. I would tell him and ask him was he cheating on ... (153 words)

My boyfriend never sees the best in me, but expects me to see the best in him! Why is this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5933 days ago

23 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - why does my boyfriend never see the best in me,yet im always expected to see the best in him, why do boys behave in this pathetic way? ... (27 words)

Why do guys only like skinny, slutty girls and why don't they like overweight girls, who are great people on the inside? Any insights?

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 4632 days ago

23 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i want to know why guys are so mean and picky that they only like skinny girls that are slutty and why they don't like overweight girls. It really hurts my feelings that they judge me based on the way that i look and not whats on the inside, I learned that you can't judge a ... (104 words)

I'm frustrated! Why won't he talk about marriage?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5933 days ago

23 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Ive been with my boyfriend for 5 years and have lived together for two. When we first agreed to move in together I said that I would not move in if there wasnt a mutual agreement about marriage as Ive lived with 1 other person before and just want to be married this caused me ... (143 words)

Does my husband have a porn addiction?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5888 days ago

23 September 2008 (F)

age - I have just discovered my husbands porn addiction. We have been married for 27 years. I have always known that he looks, but accepted it. Recently I was off work with a broken bone for 6 weeks, and he kept disappearing to the computer room. When I got close all I heard was ... (189 words)

This guy at work... is he into me because I'm crazy about him and what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5930 days ago

23 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I met him about 2 weeks ago at work, and ive only ever seen him for 30 mins, ever since hes been calling me every night and we've been on the phone for 4 or so hours every night, he says hes going to take me out and give me massages. We flirt alot and we have loads of sexual ... (132 words)

At what age does a penis stop growing? My friend keep on taking the piss, saying my one is small because of what a girl said!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

23 September 2008 (M) - dear cupid im 17 years old, turning 18 in march, i would like to know at what age does the penis stop growing, and is their any way of making it bigger? As i think my one is small, and the fact that my friend keep on taking the piss saying my one is small because of what ... (67 words)

Is their any way of overcoming this shyness and if - how? Can you tell me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5933 days ago

23 September 2008 (M) - Hello agony aunts, I seem to have problems talking to girls. is their any advice you can give me into asking girls out ? I see my friends talking and getting numbers off girls on the streets, but i am unable to do it as something keeps on holding me back, saying that i will ... (114 words)

18 years of age and seem to be paranoid about my body. Please help?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5933 days ago

23 September 2008 (M) - dear cupid i am 18 years of age and seem to be paranoid about my body. firstly i would like to know is having your lower left abdomen bigger than your right normal or abnormal, as my lower left abdomen seems to be bigger than my right. this happened after losing weight, and ... (159 words)

I really don't want to break up with my boyfriend but I'd love a shot with this other guy.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5933 days ago

23 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Right, i'm 14, and really, really confused. i have this amazing boyfriend who lives in the town next to me, he's 15. i see him on weekends, but recently i've developed a loving for a boy at my school, and i love them the same amount. i really dont want to break up with my boyf... (94 words)

She did upset me for a bit, but it made me question myself and my penis...Any thoughts?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5932 days ago

23 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I just had a random conversation with my ex and the topic of sex with her new guy haphazardly came up, and she said that he annoys her all the time and if it wasn't for how big his penis was, he would've been gone a long time ago. She also said that sex with him is the "best ... (227 words)

I'm over him but I'm simply hurt at his lost of morals, and that there is hope for my current relationship - but I can't be sure. What do you think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5930 days ago

23 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a sophomore in college and am currently dating a new guy. We have been together for about two months now but I'm not sure if I still have feelings for my ex. My ex boyfriend and I had a very emotional connection. He was like my best friend and was always there for me when... (272 words)

Can a marriage survive if you're more like brother and sister?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5933 days ago

23 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am married to a lovely, caring man. The problem is I just don't love him anymore. I spend my time thinking I want to get divorced and I just can't shake the feeling we're wrong. When we have sex, I cry - it just feels wrong. We're good friends and I can't bear the pros... (101 words)

How can I feel I have purpose on the planet?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5933 days ago

23 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - How can I feel I have purpose on the planet? When I was in high school, I was a big dreamer. Oh, how I was going to change the world!! I didn't have many friends, didn't party, and didn't date. I didn't really have opportunities to date and was just waiting to take the worl... (332 words)

My friended created an online profile of me on a dating site, I was contacted by a guy, we're in love and planning to meet but my profile lies about my age. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5933 days ago

23 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, i hope someone can help, my friend was mucking about on my laptop one night and made this fake profile for me on a dating site, she made my age to be 25, i didnt realise she did, then i checked it out one nite, and this guy had sent me an email....so i replied, then th... (156 words)

Does anybody have any advice or tips of how friends of the opposite sex can live together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5933 days ago

23 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Next summer I will be moving in to an apartment with my best guy friend. We will both be 18. We have known each other for a little over 4 years and get along really well most of the time. I lost my virginity to him, and we have never been together as a couple. I'm alittle unea... (122 words)

I don't know if he's going to hurt me again. Is he just using me now for a booty call?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5933 days ago

23 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey guys im 17 , a junior. I had a boyfriend for a full year we were in love , with eachother 24/7 . i was so comfortable with him. this sumer i went off to camp and that runied everything. when i got back things just were not the same. we drifted apart and mutualy ended ... (415 words)

Bigger does feel better but is it SAFE? My husband and I have experimented with large sex toys.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5931 days ago

23 September 2008 (F)

age - Dear Cupid, My husband and I have been happily married for 30 years. We are both in our early fifties and enjoy sex tremendously. Over the past year my husband decided it was time for me to experience the feeling of being penetrated both vaginally and anally by a much... (397 words)

My husband seems distant since the news of my pregancy, it will be our third child and we are keeping it. What can I do about his attitude?

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23 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for a year we have 2 babies under 2 years old. I might be pregnant again. My husband seems distant lately and he doesn't talk to me like he usually does. Or text me when he is at work, etc. He was happy about the 1st 2 pergnancies, but this one he seems like ... (163 words)

Pushed into ending our relationship - by his wife - is friendship possible?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5933 days ago

23 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm a married woman (almost 3 years). I've become pretty close with a man I used to commute to work with. He lives with his longtime girlfriend and their 3 kids. Over time, we got to know each other pretty well - so much so that we began to out for lunch together -- once, twice ... (445 words)

How I can explain to my girlfriend better that my porn watching does NOT mean I don't love her! I do!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5751 days ago

23 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I recently found out that my girlfriend has a huge problem with me watching porn. I'm not addicted or anything, i only watch it maybe once a week.I tried to explain to her that its just a normal thing that guys do and it doesn't mean i love her or am attracted to her any less ... (80 words)

There's boy 1 and boy 2...I like them both and I really want a boyfriend. Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5920 days ago

23 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Theres two boys, Boy 1: I snogged him at a party, and then afterwards he said he liked me but then ended up getting a girlfriend. (He said he knew her longer thats all) But i was well upset. So he met up with me a few days later as a friend. The converstation was a little d... (291 words)

He came out of a bad marriage and told me from the get go that he is not able to commit, but I fell in love with him. Should I continue being with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

23 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating this guy that I grew up with since April of this year. Things are going good or at leaast i feel they are. He came out of a bad marriage and told me from the get go that he is not able to commit. We spend our free time together and I have come to love his ... (166 words)

How do I break up with him in a way that won't end with us both hating each other? Is that even possible?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5933 days ago

23 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been drifting apart for nearly a month, and today I found out that he has been flirting with a girl who is actually a friend of mine. I know for a fact that he used to fancy this girl before going out with me, and today she told me the sorts of things ... (175 words)

I'm desperate to know if he's simply enjoying a discreet flirtation or if he wants a more involving relationship. We are both married.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

23 September 2008 (F)

age - A man who I met 3-4 years ago (in a work-related context) has been consistently flirtatious and very friendly towards me. He texts me several times each week and calls me from time to time to have a chat. At first our conversations would always begin with work topics and then... (288 words)

One lad in my group has started to turn my friends against me. Please help, what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5933 days ago

23 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hi i have a problem with my friends, see ive hung around with three other lads for the past three yrs, and i am strating to feel distant from my friends, because one lad in my group has started to turn my friends against me by making comments about me. see he always comm... (220 words)

I'm 14 and when I masturbate I never cum, why is this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5933 days ago

23 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, i know this is a stupid question but i am really starting to worry about it. im 14 and when i masturbate i never cum. i have never cummed before and dont ask how i know that my 12 yrs old brother has cummed but i just do. is there something wrong with me or what ... (66 words)

My husband's family is driving me insane and his mother has managed to turn him into a perpetual baby so he doesn't support me in this!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5770 days ago

23 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey every one i just need to talk to some one who understans, i have been married to my husband for 9 months and i love him dearly but his family is driving me insane we still live with them and they think its their right to intrude into every thing i say and do not a day goes ... (185 words)

I walked in on my best friend masturbating, now all I can think about is us having sex! help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5912 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) age 30-35 - My next door neighbor and i are really close - you could even say we're best friends. We're really close, but our relationship is completely platonic. Well, at least on his part... he has a girlfriend he has been with for almost 8 months, which is quite long because he's 15 ... (399 words)

We married after knowing each other for a month, now he lies to me, neglects me and we have sex once in a month. What to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5933 days ago

23 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hi.. i m shilpa...i am married now for 8 months... he is is 26 yrs holdand i am 34 yrs we liked each other n got married after knowing each other for a month and he is aware of my age ... my parents know we got registered marriage but his parents are not aware of it... he... (183 words)

We want different things so we should part ways. But how do I end it with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5933 days ago

23 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I really love my boyfriend but he doesn't want the same as me. I want a house but he doesnt i want kids he doesnt and eventually i want to get married but again he doesnt. If we both want different things then i shouldnt be with him. I just dont know how to end it with him. Can ... (67 words)

My lesbian partner has no sex drive, what can I do??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5737 days ago

23 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a 32 yr old lesbian, and i've been living with my partner for 4 yrs. We are 12 yrs apart, she is older. My question is; my partner has no sex drive, what can i do??... (39 words)

Do I risk our relationship and hurt his feelings or do I keep this to myself?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5933 days ago

23 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my bf for a number of years and we are childhood sweethearts. we're at the stage where we're both ready to get engaged and i don't think it will be long before he asks me to marry him. all sounds good but..... about 2 years ago, while abroad, i cheated on him -... (347 words)

Could I have conceived on December 15th?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5933 days ago

23 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - If my last period was on November 20-29th(not sure the exact day) and i gave birth on August 19th to twin girls both weighing 6pds, could i have conceived on December 15th? my due date was Aug 27th.I know i need to get a DNA test between 2 men. I was with one guy for the first ... (76 words)

Can I talk to a lawyer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5933 days ago

23 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My sons mother just started dating this guy whom i just had a physical fight with about 3 months ago. He has made several threats toward me and i have told her that i dont feel like my son is safe around him because he still has a grudge against me from the fight, and i feel ... (147 words)

How should I go about getting close to this girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

23 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I know this is the age old question and i feel quite childish asking it but i am 24 and am a virgin. I have met a girl that i have never felt this way about before and i think we are getting quite close. But i feel like i have all the anxieties and worries that a young teenager ... (205 words)

Is this a nice way of saying "I'm just not into you in that way"....?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5933 days ago

23 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am just wondering. If a guy says he does not want to tempt the friendship (but he has fancied and kissed you before) is this a nice way of saying "im just not into you in that way"....but what about if he is very touchy feely and tries to hold my hand/kiss me on the ... (72 words)

How do I break it to her, without seeming like an a*****le ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5933 days ago

23 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi guys, okay this question isn't as emotionally charged as some of the ones you normally receive but its important to me. About a year ago, I planned to go travelling with this female friend of mine for 6 months around the world. She suggested it and on a whim i said yes. 6 m... (258 words)

What does he want to do with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5933 days ago

23 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Six months ago I argued with my love , I was so tired of everything . He asked me '' don't you want me to call you anymore '' , I answered it will be better not to talk for a while. I was angry to him when I told that.After that we just talked on msn .One month later I told him ... (435 words)

Would it turn you off if your new guy was in a serious relationship with one of your close friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5933 days ago

23 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - me and my ex girlfriend (lets say "Jen") were together for 4yrs, and engaged for 1yr during that period but ended up breaking up. Its been 8months since we broke up and we have stayed very close friends. I asked Jen about one of her friends ("Erica"), and jen said she was... (161 words)

I've been through an awful divorce and am now in a trouble relationship with an alcoholic. I feel like I need to run away and start anew. What is best for me and my kids?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5933 days ago

23 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I was in an abusive rationship of almost 12 years. I dont have the best relationship with my mother or my family. My brother commited suicide a few months before my husband left me for another woman. Since then I struggled with an evil ex-husband who made my life impossible ... (297 words)

What should I do next?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5933 days ago

23 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a major stressful problem. I have been with my bf for 7 years now and we decided a few months ago that in september we would try to have a baby, in the meantime I was unhappy with the relationship but was unsure what to do, anyway, I ended up having sex with someone ... (202 words)

Did I 'blow it'?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5928 days ago

23 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I think I blew this date. Can I get some feedback? I met him briefly when I was hanging out with a bunch of other people. He later found me on facebook and we exchanged fun messages until he asked me on a date. We went and seemed like it was going well, dinner then movi... (344 words)

I never miss my ex but when I see him my knees become shaky and I lose myself, I used to be in love with him but not anymore, so why this reaction?

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23 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I have been in a relationship for 7 months now and Im very much in like with my boyfriend... I love him. This is bassically the story, before my current boyfriend there was this boy that I was TOTTALLY CRAZYABOUT, I was with him for 4 months but I ha... (314 words)

I really want to buy the right costume for my hubbys birthday surprise. So guys, what really turns you on??

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5932 days ago

23 September 2008 (F)

age - Hi, This one is just a bit of fun really but it was something i was thinking about as i really want to buy the right costume for my hubbys birthday surprise. Ok, guys, what turns you on the most? 1.Sexy nurse 2.French Maid 3.Police Woman 4.Bunny Girl 5.School Girl ... (65 words)

I'm 17 and I live with a 44 year old, but my family don't know!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5687 days ago

23 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - im 17, with a 44 year old. i love him to bits and he's going through a divorce. he's got 2 kids - one just 3 weeks younger than me. im currently living with him, but my parents and freinds think im staying with a few mates i met at work. we have not told any one cause of age ... (88 words)

I've wanted to always run over to him, blurt out how much I love him, and hope that he says the same in return, but I know that's just a fantasy. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5933 days ago

23 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, Just wondeing, what's the best way to get a boy's attention or get him to notice you? I've just wanted to always run over to him blurt out how much i love him, and hope that he says the same in return. But i know that's just a fantasy. But I have SO much trouble talking ... (167 words)

Any advice on how to get rid of this jealousy and paranoia would be much appreciated.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5933 days ago

23 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years now, he's a fantastic guy and we should be really happy. But my trust issues and paranoia are destroying any chance of happiness we may have. Our relationship is a long-distance one, which I guess doesn't help, but when we are ... (275 words)

My friends talk non-stop and I hardly ever get to even open my mouth!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5932 days ago

23 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have a group of friends (all girls) and we always hang out together. I have no other friends. My friends talk non-stop and I hardly ever get to even open my mouth. I never thought much about it, but recently I invited them all to dinner, and my husband made this observat... (112 words)

What is love? How do you know when you're in love? {not lust}

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5933 days ago

23 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this sounds stupid but... What is love? how do you know when ur in love not lust? ok, so im only 15, but im just wondering, is the butterfly in the stomuch thing true? can u love someone who lives far away? anything would be helpfull ;) J_M ... (54 words)

We were 'wife swapping', then jealousy started, insecurity started and we ended up having so many fights. But we still love them.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5933 days ago

23 September 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - We were friends, best friends with a couple and their two kids. We turned like family, always hanging out together. Over two years ago, we mutually decided to experiment sexually with each other' partners. It started with simple massage sessions, we vowed it would only be stuff... (165 words)

How do I pick my future boyfriend out of these two guys I have a crush on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5933 days ago

23 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid.. I have a crush on two guys and I don't know what should do I??? the first one is friend from one of my class, he is named Mathew, and i really like him and he is all the time flirting with me, otherwise the second one is named andrew, and we aren't friends.... (201 words)

He has a girlfriend, but he also wants to be my f*** buddy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5933 days ago

23 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok well im in love with this guy lets call him joe, and we only lasted a week after that. We have become friends , or more or less f**k buddies, but i dont want that, i want to be with him, but he loves someone else, im confused. what do you think i should do ?... (58 words)

He has made no effort to try and reconcile our relationship. Is he just taking the cowards way out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5933 days ago

23 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I just split from my boyfriend last week. We didn't live together but he spent most of his time at mine. Recently I've been feeling like he takes me for granted. He doesn't earn a lot of money so whenever we did anything it was on me. He didn't really help me in the house too ... (178 words)

Is this is a good idea, or am I going to get my heart broken?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5930 days ago

23 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, Ok this is maybe gonna be a long one so here goes! When I was 16 (now 24) I met this guy, hit it off straight away and fell for him. He is 4 years older than me so nothing could really come of it and besides, he had a girlfriend at the time ( I know - alarm bells ringing ... (599 words)

I guess I've always been suspicious there was something more. Is he 'in to' me? What do you think?

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23 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Needing some advice as to what is going on with a guy I kinda have liked for a fair bit but which I have kinda supressed due to complications which are now gone. We shall call him William. For the last month William has been acting very oddly. There have been a lot of mome... (662 words)

Can you catch an STD if you use someone else's vibrator?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5933 days ago

23 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi. i swear this is not about me, just wondering... if you use the same vibrator as another women, can u get an STD from it? this is not about me, and i know about sex and all that, just my family dont talk about stuff like that and i doubt my friends would know. ... (74 words)

My parents found out I was pregnant - they told me I had two choices only, 'have an abortion or leave'.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5904 days ago

23 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i am a 16 year old pregnant female. after my parents found out that i was pregnant they told me that i had two choices only, either to have an abortion or to leave. i spoke to my bf and his family - as i really didnt want to have an abortion, and they said it was fine and that... (356 words)

She cheated on me and got pregnant! So can I ever trust her to not cheat again??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5931 days ago

23 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - This maybe abit long but it explains the whole situation, sorry for it being so long: Ok so I had been having a long distance relationship with my now fiance, we have known eachother for 13 years now, this October it will be 14 years. I am 20 years old, she is 22. Now I had li... (1623 words)

If he wants a 'friendship' then why does he kiss me on the lips? Is he playing mind games?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5870 days ago

23 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - my best guy mate recently told me he fancied me in the past but now he "doesn't want to tempt the friendship as he loves me too much"-it took me months to tell him how I feel.. The day after i told him how I felt he kissed an older woman (I was standing right beside him-she ... (321 words)

I can't even remember the last time I wore matching underwear. What does that tell you?

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23 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 3.5 years, i cant say we have ever had an amazing sex life....hes not very confident etc and we have sex like once a week. The problem is i think about sex all the time. I would love it everyday but when i dont have it with my boyfriend. I dont... (111 words)

Did my hymen break? Because the day after, my period also started.

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23 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm 19years old. i dont know about sex and hymen breaking. my bf wants to see my pussy and want to do fingerring in my hole of pussy but i dont want to do this. and when we meet l only he try to put finger in my pussy but not enter in it, and he throws very hardly his penis on ... (95 words)

I have a boyfriend, but I'm also in love with a guy I can't have. Your opinions please?

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23 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - This might be long, but I'll try to make it as short as possible. Here goes... Basically, I'm in love with a guy that I can't have! (We'll call him Chris) And I have a boyfriend who we'll call Jay. I met Jay almost 3 years ago, and Chris about 4-5 months after that. Jay want... (1412 words)

He's been asked to travel again for his work, for 3 months this time, he said he wouldn't go again but now he wants to - for the money. I want to break up over this, what do you think?

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23 September 2008 (F)

- Hi I hope you can help me. I have been with my partner for over 3 years now. We've had our differences but we love each other very much. His job involves alot of travel, but its normally in the same country so he is normally home at weekends. A couple of months ago he was sent... (172 words)

He lives in another country, he's 10 years older than me, I'm 13 and beginning to get a crush on him.

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23 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - [What is a frienemy??] Latley i've been talking to this guy who lives in another contry. He's my frienemy and he makes me happy with his jokes and his all around prsonality. He is ten years older than me, and i'm 13! but i feel like i'm beginning to get a crush on him . . . wh... (84 words)

What exactly happens when a guy reaches orgasm or ejaculates? Can you describe this please?

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23 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've never felt it when my bf ejaculates but i know that he does. He never makes any noises or anything. I would sometimes feel him hold me tight and goes deeper inside during sex. But i'm not really sure if is that the time when he is ejaculating. When i asked him what he does ... (102 words)

How do you tell your girlfriend they're bad at giving oral sex?

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23 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - How do you tell your girlfriend they're bad at giving oral sex? I've tried talking to her about it but she kinda got really upset and slapped me a few times and then walked away.... (35 words)

My best friend is not talking to me much since she has a boyfriend, it seems that he prefers him more than me!

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23 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my friend have been best friends since last year, we are like sisters or so i thought. it all started like 3 weeks ago wen she got a bf. i kno that they need time and blah blah. we used to talk everyday on the phone(most of the time i was the 1 calling her. not no more... (205 words)

Would I be able to satisfy two girls in parallel? Can it be done at all, or is it an urban legend?

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23 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My chiropractor is in love with me though I look a bit like her brother. She is very hot and I would love to get it going with her. my girlfriend is the only obstacle between me and ultimate happiness. Don't want to lose her, but want to taste some of this fresh and exciting ... (85 words)

I know he's just playing with me, but I don't know how to get over him.

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23 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - a year ago i was with this guy,that i really loved but he started changing day after day..and finaly we broke up.it was the hardest thing i could ever do and it still hurts(wrote about it over here and everyone said that i will get over him but that never happened).it took me a ... (358 words)

If you were unsatisifed with your sex life, would you speak up? Or would you just get it elsewhere?

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23 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for 4.5 years and we've been having sex for the last four years (we waited a few months). Usually we have a very active, very experimental, very fun sex life. We both enjoy trying new things, and there have been stretches of time when we have had sex ... (299 words)

He almost called me his ex-wife's name... Help!

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23 September 2008 (F)

age - In a long distance relationship for 5 months with a male who has been divorced a little over a year. Felt uncomfortable to visit him as she spends time visiting their cats at his home twice a week. I am told they have an amicable relationship since the divorce and that the ... (162 words)

I don't want to lose my girlfriend, but I'd like to see other people before I commit to her.

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23 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I love her, but she's my first girlfriend and I want to see other people before I commit to her for life. She lives in Europe (I'm from the US) but I plan on going to college in Europe. I'm in an open relationship with her, and I have a different girlfriend that she knows ... (105 words)

My gay friend's boyfriend doesn't like me... What do I do?

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23 September 2008 (?) age 30-35 - My gay friend's boyfriend hates me. He thinks im going take him from him (im not gay) (not true we're just friends.) We dont get along at all. I lip off to him a lot (he so annoying.) It bugs my friend a lot (I dont blame him.) If we're in the same (which isn't likely) he would ... (108 words)

Me, my girlfriend, and her husband... How do I sort this out?

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23 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Im in love with a girl whos married, we all live in the same house. She has 5 kids with her husband, and she is pregnant with my child, the baby is due in late may 09. At first we all was happy but then my g/f and her h/b split up becuz h/b sed he cudnt stand to see me with h... (360 words)

The 7 year itch... Is this just a phase?

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23 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm almost 25 and I think I'm going through a quarter life crisis. I feel like I got married to early, and now I'm really starting to have doubts about things. I've been married for almost 5 years, which brings to total years with my husband to 7. I'm starting to freak out. ... (215 words)

My ex is pregnant with another man's baby, I have a child on the way to another woman, and now my ex wants me back.

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23 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello all, Hmm, where do i start I am 34 years old and my ex partner is 24, my partner and i seperated this year in February. We were together for 4 years and had a 2 year old son. We broke up because she says that she has lost the love and feelings she once had for me. Ye... (681 words)

How do I get her to date me and leave her boyfriend?

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23 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, heres the story. I've been flirting with this girl from my bowling league for weeks. Well now she's been flirting back as far as I can tell. She drew hearts all over my paper then tried getting on my moms good side and is always trying to smile and giving me hugs. But I ... (122 words)

My wife doesn't like sex as often and we fight a lot over this issue. Any advice?

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23 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been married 2 1/2 years and my wife doesnt like having sex all that often....maybe once a week or so... We are both 23 years old and she has offered to let me have my way with her whenever I want, but I dont want to just cum and done kinda thing. I dont know wha... (82 words)

Lost my virginity while my bf was away! Will he know I'm not a virgin?

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23 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend has gone away to study. When he left i was a virgin but now I'm not. Will he know that I'm not a virgin? I dont want to tell him the truth bcause i know what will happen. ... (41 words)

How do I cope with my bf and his loser friend... getting wasted and playing video games, all the time!

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23 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - so this may sound really dumb and petty but I live with my boyfriend and I work days, I get up at 4:00 am and I get off at two then I have school until 10:00 at night. My boyfriend works from 1:00 pm until maybe 7 or 8. He makes good money and pays the bills but that's the ... (194 words)

How can I stop this need to pleasure myself whilst at work?

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23 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - hi, everyday whilst at work i have very strong sexual desires and find it hard to go an hour without pleasuring myself. often my boss questions me as to why i need to use the bathroom so often and i dont know what to say. how can i stop the need to please mysekf whilst at work? ... (79 words)

If I was to carry out my feelings for my married neighbor would it be considered wrong?

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23 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - If I was to carry out my feelings for my married neighbor would it be considered wrong? (If you straight off read that, you're going to say YES! So keep reading, maybe you'll understand better) They have been having marriage problems for a couple of years. So they recentl... (112 words)

Feeling insecure because she's a lot taller than me...what should I do?

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23 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Well im a 13 year old guy with a girl friend. I love my girlfriend and i know that heigth shouldn't matter but honestly im feeling insecure. i havent made any big scenes. i just am wondering how should i treat this issue? im 5'4 she is about 5'7-5'8. i have to go up to kiss he... (67 words)

I want to get together with him but he always changes his mind. What's going on with this guy?

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23 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hello i have a question.this guy that i'm talkin to is cool and we get along even though he can be irritating sometimes. I met him online and i knew him through one of his family members. we started off talkin on the phone and textin each other. i brought up the situation about ... (193 words)

I've been with a girl for five months, but I'm deploying to Iraq soon. Do we give the serious relationship a go, or do we break it off?

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23 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey all. I’m in a dilemma. I have been dating my girlfriend for about five months now. I feel like our relationship is doing well—that we are making progress, etc. But, it has only been 5 months. Right now, I can’t bring myself to say ‘love’ yet. And she hasn’t, either. ... (568 words)

I don't want to have to compete with these other girls.

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23 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i've got all that i've wanted. i got the boy that i wanted so bad and it was my goal. and now i have him. but now i feel like it's a competition. i have to work so hard with him because i don't want him to go with another girl. he asked me out yesterday but he talks to a lot of ... (116 words)

What can we do to improve sex?

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23 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My gf says she doesnt feel much sensation during sex. i have tried different positions and many more things what shouldwe do as a couple to improve her sex?... (29 words)

How can I show my husband that I truly do love him?

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23 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, My husband I have been married for 10 years and have two children. My husband asked me to leave 4 months ago because he said that he didn't feel like I loved him anymore or respected him as a husband. I love him very much and I want him back in our lives. I kno... (146 words)

My man is trying to fulfil my fantasy of sex with two men, but I'm unsure. Suggestions?

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23 September 2008 (?) age 51-59 - My man recently asked if I had ever fantasized about having sex with two men, and I honestly answered yes. Now he's really trying to make this happen. I'm not sure that I would like the idea of me, him and another guy. In my fantasy, it was me and two complete strangers! Do ... (101 words)

Was he really excited about the good news or was he flirting with me?

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23 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I was hanging around a friend of mine and we both got some good news and wes very excited about it. So then we start discussing other things and then he said to me let me check yo out and he looked at me up and down back to front and then he gave me a hug and picked me up off ... (89 words)

Is it normal for my boyfriend to hang out with someone that he has been in a relationship with in the past?

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23 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it normal for my boyfriend to hang out with someone that he has been in a relationship with in the past? Also, I know than people can be friends after breaking up, but while we were on a "break" he slept with her......I dont get this. I dont hang out with the guys I've slept ... (74 words)

I really like this girl, but she doesn't seem very interested. Do I try and talk to her or let it be?

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23 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - So, There was this girl that was on one of my friend's myspace tops. So, she looked very beautiful and i added her. Well, she added me and i got ot lookin' at her pics and i started to really like her. This past friday our football team had an away ball game that i went to ... (368 words)

I feel like I still love my ex... but I don't like having sex with him.

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23 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - loving a person means you enjoy sex, or you can still love somebody but not liking the sex you have. This is what happens between me and my ex bf, we are trying to go back together, but I do not like to have sex with him. I dated another guy a few months ago and I think I want ... (86 words)

Does the way a boyfriend acts reflect the kind of husband he will be?

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23 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My question is related to the way a boyfriend's behavior reflects what the situation will be in a marriage. I have 8 months with my bf, and I have gone through difficult times economically speaking, he has never given me a penny, I talked about the bad times I have, and he ... (148 words)

I found a butt plug in my boyfriend's drawer, and found out he has been responding to gay personals. But he says he's not gay... What's going on?

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23 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating my guy for almost a year and I recently found a butt plug in one of his drawers (used). I know it's his because of the receipt. Other than the butt plug, I also found out that he has responded to ads on CL to J/O with other guys (with not touching). I don't ... (101 words)

She wants to move in, but I'm happy the ways things are. I feel like she is being selfish. Do I stay or do I go?

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23 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I don't know whether to stay in a relationship or to tell her I give up? We are both lesbian. She wants me to move in with her--has wanted this since 2 months after we met. I am not used to moving this fast. Apparently this is common with lesbians, which I didn't know, be... (338 words)

He acts like my boyfriend, but he doesn't want to be in a relationship. Is he serious about us at all?

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23 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been dating the guy for over a month, we acted like in the relationship, so I throw the question a few weeks ago about what stage we were in, I was upset seeing him not willing to see it as relationship,so he said we were gf and bf. but he never told any of his colleages ... (118 words)

He's too big, or I'm too tight... Either way, sex is difficult. Help!

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23 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - this is embarrasing but i have to ask. Me and my boyfriend have been together along time. he is about 6'3 and i am 4'9... We tried having sex b4 but he was too big or i was to tight...either way it didnt work. so he tried fingering me with more than just teh normal 2 he u... (130 words)

I don't mind that he catches up with his mates, but he does it ALL THE TIME. What do I do?

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23 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - need desparate help ive been with my partner for 1 year now and ive moved inwith him. at the begining we were always togther,his ex stoped him talking to his mates and now with me hes got them back he constantly chatts to them on the internet and i dont get alook in, he say... (105 words)

I don't know how to handle this open relationship anymore. I feel defeated.

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23 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Thanks in advance. I am a 43 yr old women. I am currently in a relationship(7 yrs now)... I feel stuck and depressed. We(He and I) have been through our ups and downs. I have given way too much to this relationship. I know this is my fault. I was promised a committe... (265 words)

My boyfriend can't sem to have sex with me. Is he not attracted to me?

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23 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, My boyfriend and I just got back together after 2 years. We have worked everything out about our past emotionally, but the physical part has not caught up. He did most of the damage in our past that makes him have more guilt than me. I was hurt more than he was, but yet ... (314 words)