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If my parents find out, that my bf and I are having sex, they may not let me see him! Advice?

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6 September 2008 (F age 30-35 - I gave up my virginity to my boyfriend and I don't regret it. We are always safe when we have sex and we love each other so much that we are hoping to spend the rest of our lives together. I'm just not sure what to do about my parents. They were 20 when they had me and they ... (148 words

I am so humiliated by my ex boyfriend's friend! After a year, I find out he's married....

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6 September 2008 (F age 41-50 - I feel so humiliated by my ex boyfriends friend. We are together for almost a year when i finally discover that he was married. Im slowly moving on from that heartache and then his friend sends me a message that He would love to be the guy i will choose if i want to make ... (119 words

I consider him the villain but I know she's not innocent! How can I forgive her and move past this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5918 days ago

6 September 2008 (M age 36-40 - Hi, I met a girl a couple of weeks ago, and we've been seeing eachother regularly. Our usual evening plan is to go to her apartment, eat some food, watch a film, have sex, and go to sleep. They've really been wonderful evenings. When this started, we both knew that whenev... (619 words

I don't want to feel ugly every time I run into porn, any practical solutions for me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5878 days ago

6 September 2008 (F age 36-40 - I hate porn. Or the entire sex industry really. And I'm not gonna lie and be all "it's degrading to women". No, I hate it because the women are so perfect. They all have big tits and tiny waists, with a round butt. They have gorgeous faces (ok, some of them are really ugly, but ... (207 words

Is the fact I'm bisexual causing all the arguments and sexual tension in our marriage?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

6 September 2008 (F age 51-59 - Being a bisexual female, I choses to be with a heterosexual (straight) male and am happy and content that way. Do you think it may cause conflict with subconscious feelings and emotions? My husband knows that I'm bisexual and he likes it when I nudge him in the ribs when a ... (279 words

Have been taking the pill on schedule but since last night I sleep a lot. Wake up wanting to eat and then I just don't feel good. Is it stress... or pregnancy?

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6 September 2008 (F age 30-35 - ok. Today is saturday. I went over my boyfriend house monday and wednesday of the week. He nutted in me both times but im on the pill. Ive been taking the pill everyday on schedule but ever since last night i havent been feeling like myself. After i eat my stomach may hurt but ... (95 words

Is what ever happens for the best or do I need to choose?

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6 September 2008 (F age 30-35 - right, im extremly confused at the moment. ive known this guy `stu` for nearly 3 years, and from about the 2nd day of knowing him i have fancied the pants off him, and over time learnt to love him. 1 year into knowing him he gets a girlfriend as a rebound of me. me and `stu` ar... (181 words

What would you say his intentions are?

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6 September 2008 (F age 36-40 - I have been aquaintances with this guy for like 6 years or so though mutual friends, etc. I just moved about 7 hours south of home and found out he had done the same so I contaced him because I have NO friends down here. I never really looked at him as someone I would date ... (173 words

He dumped me because "I liked him too much." So how can I be a good girlfriend?

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6 September 2008 (F age 30-35 - Boys are sometimes very hard to understand, especially my last bf. I am usually a pretty good reader of people but i could never read him. For instance, i couldn't tell if he was flirting or not, or if he was nervous. But the thing is, some months into our relationship, he ... (129 words

One woman likes the idea of a relationship of three, the other wants a monogamous deal with maybe the occasional fun. Who do I pick?

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6 September 2008 (M age 36-40 - I have a problem that i was hoping you could help me with. I am a man of 20 who has had a girlfriend 'Hannah' for the last 4 months. We agreed in the beginning that it was an open relationship and we have both dated other people throughout the duration of the time we've been ... (402 words

I'm struggling to understand why after a short relationship ending I'm still feeling so sad.

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6 September 2008 (F age 51-59 - Hi im struggling too understand why after a short relationship ending im still feeling so sad and thinking about the person all the time. I loved him then and it seems i still do now. Trouble is im not sure how he feels we used to chat online but since he moved due to his job ... (121 words

I can't come from penetration with my boyfriend and I don't like to masturbate during sex - please advise about using a sex toy during sex.

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6 September 2008 (F age 36-40 - I can't come from penetration with my boyfriend and I don't like having to masturbate during sex so I was wondering if I should get a sex toy to help me out. Does anyone on here have advice on using a toy dunring penetrative sex? What type is best and how would you use it? I ... (89 words

There is agirl who lies about her baby being my boyfriend's and kisses him at work., how to make her stop?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5911 days ago

6 September 2008 (F age 41-50 - I been with my boyfriend J for 2 yrs we live together; the only problem is this girl keeps telling him that her baby is his. But i get a diffrent story from my bestfriend Emily who's her sister Kept telling me the baby belongs to her new Boyfriend whose in the Army serving ... (87 words

What can I do to help my friend in case she is pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5919 days ago

6 September 2008 (F age 30-35 - my best friend thinks she is pregnant how can I help her out?? she says that her stomach hurts alot and that when she had sex the condom might have broken. If she is then i will be there for her the whole time. but how can i help her buy a pregnancy test and if it's positiv... (75 words

For the last two weeks or my brother's behaviour's become a bit weird, he fears ghosts, etc.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5918 days ago

6 September 2008 (F age 36-40 - I'm 24, and my younger brother's 19. For the last two weeks or so his behaviour's become a bit weird, far more than the usual teenage behaviour. He's began speaking in rhyme, only wanting to eat breakfast cereal for every meal, and claiming that ghosts are out to get him w... (104 words

Am I shallow because I found him physically unattractive?

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6 September 2008 (F age 51-59 - Am I being shallow? I have just met a guy for the first time on a dating site. We got on famously and really gelled with personality. The problem is, I actually thought he was physically very unattractive to me and didn't fancy him at all. He wants to meet again and I will ... (113 words

Any suggestions on how to approach her outside facebook?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5919 days ago

6 September 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hello, Regarding the girl I started talking to on facebook, started flirting with, came up with an instrumental piece of music for (who thought it was really sweet when I told her and she liked the piece as well) and am meeting Fresher's week in two weeks time. We had ... (239 words

Would I be wrong to take my wife's ex friend sexual opportunity?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5919 days ago

6 September 2008 (M age - Long story short, my wife has cheated a few times. She put her best friend in the middle as an excuse as to where she was. Her friend had no idea she was being used. So her best friend decides she is no longer friends with my wife. I called this woman last week to see how she's ... (213 words

Anybody have any advice on what I should do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5919 days ago

6 September 2008 (M age 36-40 - I'm beginning... Actually, I already think I am. I'm 25, never had a gf, never even kissed a girl, and still live with my parents. I don't think i'm ugly, in fact, most people tell me i'm cute. And it's not like I don't try to ask people out, I just get rejected every single ... (295 words

How can we have sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5919 days ago

6 September 2008 (M age 41-50 - I have always been a big man however recently my wife has gained a lot of weight making us both big people and we just can't seem to have sex because our bellys get in the way.... (37 words

Is she hiding an affair?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5919 days ago

6 September 2008 (M age - My wife started cheating on me 6 years ago. Although she claims it was a 1 time thing, I think she will cheat when she has the right opportunity. I was again suspicious of her behavior and saw her cell phone unattended so I went thru all the numbers and text messages and found ... (170 words

How soon is it to say I love you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5919 days ago

6 September 2008 (F age 30-35 - how soon is it to say i love you - if you do love someone and you feel ready to say it, how do you say it without totally freaking them out or know that they'll say it back? i think he's gone to say it a few times then changed his mind. is this cos hes scared i wont say it back ... (83 words

Which one's the daddy?

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6 September 2008 (F age 41-50 - first day of my last period was july 16th 2008 i messed with another man on the 22 the 23 and 24th of july i got back with my babydaddy on the 27th of july and stayed with him they my due date is april 23 2009 i am pregnant with twins i need to know who is fathering my kids ... (83 words

Should I have sex with my best friend's boyfriend?

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6 September 2008 (F age 30-35 - I've known "Mark" for about 4 years and "Hannah" for 11 years, they are my best friends and I feel very close to them both. I've had feelings for Mark for a number of years now but they are not reciprocated - he told me last year that he just wanted to remain friends and I've ... (343 words

Do I have an infection in my big toe? What made it go green?

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6 September 2008 (F age 30-35 - right what does it mean when a aprt of your big toe has gone green? Is it just an infection? and is it easily sorted? its just down the side bit, not on the nail but on that area and then the bit of skin that goes down the right hand side of that and near the nail part(im ... (143 words

I have no feeling in the head of my penis, this makes sex impossible! Any suggestions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5918 days ago

6 September 2008 (M age 36-40 - My penis especially the head has little or no feeling at the best of times. I can masturbate successfully with my hands on shaft , but never really touch the head, as it has no real positive sensation. If I am receiving oral or attempting vaginal sex within a minute or so my ... (129 words

I married too young but is it too late to get out?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5918 days ago

6 September 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hello, I'm 20 years old and I got married when I was 18. I have never been on my own and I've always had to depend on my husband. Now after just two years of marriage, we don't talk any more because if we do we argue. He always talks about how he needs his space and I'm sm... (238 words

He says the chemistry just isn't there. Will this change in the future?

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6 September 2008 (F age - I dated this man, age 50, who was never married, for 3 months.We were very passionate and attracted to one another. We never had sex as he wanted it to be a "spiritual experience." However,when I asked him what direction our "friendship" was headed, he stated," The physical ... (110 words

I have to get a DNA test but can anyone help me narrow down the conception date?

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6 September 2008 (F age 41-50 - If my last period was on November 20-29th(not sure the exact day) and i gave birth on August 19th to twin girls both weighing 6pds, could i have conceived on December 15th? I know i need to get a DNA test between 2 men. I was with one guy for the first 2 weekends in the month ... (70 words

I need help dressing slutty for my husband!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5919 days ago

6 September 2008 (F age 41-50 - Any advice for me to dress slutty for my husband? I do not have the "body" I would consider to look good in slutty clothes. I'm 5'1, 142 pounds.......... (31 words

My sister makes my life hell! Why is she doing this to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5919 days ago

6 September 2008 (F age 30-35 - I highly doubt I could explain years of a corrupted relationship with my sister in a few short paragraphs but ill give it a shot! I am 17 years old and I have a 19 year old sister who makes it her living goal to attempt to make my life hell. Many people would start to read th... (660 words

My boyfriend joined the army and I want to go with him!

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6 September 2008 (F age 30-35 - hiya, ive been with my boyfriend for two years, and hes just joined the army, hes been in there for 5 months now, and i cant cope, im worried and scared and hurt that he will eventually be going to athganistan, im hurting so much you have no idea, im only 17 and we both just ... (201 words

My guy says he's not falling in love with me.

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6 September 2008 (F age 41-50 - Ok, I'm not sure exactly what I'm looking for as far as "answers" but here goes. After dating a great guy for 3 months 3 days ago he told me he couldn't figure out why, but he wasn't falling in love with me. It's just so confusing because we would spend time together 3-4 days ... (440 words

Since I'm on the pill and we no longer use condoms, he finishes too quickly to give me pleasure.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5919 days ago

6 September 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi, im 17 and have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now... I have recently gone on the pill and it seems to have ruined our sex life! Since we no longer use a condom it takes him a matter of literally 30 seconds to come during sex. This means that I get little ... (121 words

How can I stop loving a guy who is "just a friend"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5919 days ago

6 September 2008 (? age 30-35 - i've fallen for a male friend who i have know for many years..i don't want to ruin our friendship as we are quite close. how can i stop myself from loving him?? i have done so for 2 years and it hurts me...because i see him going out with other girls and wish i could be them ... (74 words

How can I lose weight?

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6 September 2008 (? age 30-35 - i really want to lose weight!! i am quite fat 10 stone at age 14 5ft2 or something like that. i really want to lose a couple of pounds. any ideas.. thanks :)... (36 words

Are there any ways to comfirm that he likes me a lot?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5919 days ago

6 September 2008 (F age 30-35 - I am a girl of the age of 16, wanting to go out with a boy of 25. We have flirted a bit, but i know if he likes me enough, will ask me out. The thing is, before we get too close to each other ( getting into a relationship), i want to know if it would be wrong for us to see each ... (119 words

Shall I go round with some flowers and talk or what?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5919 days ago

6 September 2008 (M age 30-35 - Ok i'm gunna cut a long story short. Me and my gf have been together for over 3 years, i thought everything was going fine, i took her to orlando, florida in april and suprised her with swimming with dolphins which was her life dream, we have spoken about moving in together ... (347 words

Would the test result be positive even if you weren't pregnant?

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6 September 2008 (F age 30-35 - I was just wondering because I was a little confused and curious; If you are taking the contraceptive pill, it tricks your body into thinking that youre pregnant by the changes in hormones. What would happen if you were to take a pregnancy test if you believed you had beco... (68 words

Is alcoholism hereditary?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5919 days ago

6 September 2008 (F - last year i sent a question in about my dad being sick, well he died. im going through a stage of being terrified im going to turn out like him. he was an alcoholic. iv looked it up and it says that it is genetic. am i going to turn out like him? i like going out ha... (125 words

I bleed when I use the toilet. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5919 days ago

6 September 2008 (M age 41-50 - I am having a problem, anytime i go to the toilet bloods comes out, it just started for one week and 3 days now, someone should please refare drug to use and how to go about it.... (37 words

How can I tell if this guy is interested in me... when I'm also a guy...?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5883 days ago

6 September 2008 (M age 51-59 - Life is so strange for me... I am married with kids, and outwardly everything looks great - good job, nice house, loads of friends, a few cars, reasonable social life... A lifestyle others would kill for. But, I've fallen for someone else...and it's a guy. I don'... (133 words

He held my hand? What can this mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5920 days ago

6 September 2008 (F age 30-35 - i need ur help... there's this guy i like very much, and i THINK he likes me back, since he recently started playing with my hair as a bunch of us were over a friend's house... and another time as we were giving a girl a ride home, me and 2 other guys, me and him sit at the ... (123 words

I can't stop thinking about my height after a comment by this girl?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5898 days ago

6 September 2008 (M age 30-35 - I went on a few dates with a girl but nothing really picked up. A friend of mine ran into the girl randomly at a party and asked her what she thought of me. She said that I was a good person and a lot of fun but not what she was looking for. My friend asked her what made her ... (149 words

How can I separate my eldest son and his aunty?

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6 September 2008 (F age 41-50 - I am the mother of three teenaged boys and also have a recently divorced sister with two teenaged girls. There has always been frequent contact between our families, and my boys have always been regular visitors to my sister. A while ago, my two younger sons informed me that ... (176 words

I'm going through the mental stage of pregnancy - how can I control it before I drive my boyfriend away?

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6 September 2008 (F - I'm 28 weeks pregnant and I'm starting to feel the side effects of pregnancy. Lately I've been a witch to my loving boyfriend of almost 2 years who I've just been horrible to. He takes it well, often by agreeing with everything I say (he never did this before) and has nothing ... (299 words

My mother in-law came onto me and I accepted. Now I don't know what to do!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5892 days ago

6 September 2008 (M age 41-50 - About three months ago I was visiting my wife's parents for her uncle's 45th birthday celebration. The party was a great time, and we were all taking advantage of the open bar. I don't want to go into too much detail, but what basically happened was after quite a few drin... (239 words

How do I tell my mom that I'm gay?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5910 days ago

6 September 2008 (F age 30-35 - well im almost 14 in like 2 months nd im gay im scared to tell my mom because everyone in my family thinks im trying to be like my sister and my sisters gay to and my dad is very religous and he told me not to tell him if i was ever gay but im afraid my mom will tell him im gay ... (87 words

Is it possible to fix a broken marriage and bring its magic back?

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6 September 2008 (M age - Ok my wife and separated. She rents one house and I rent the Other. She has the kids. Before this our marriage was like room mate. What if your always seen as an unfit husband by your wife. How do fix a broken marriage and how do you put back the magic or is it hopeless... (75 words

My pomeranian wont stop peeing on our couch!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5919 days ago

6 September 2008 (F age 36-40 - We got out male pomeranian when he was 8 weeks old. He is now 2 years. We crate trained him when he was a baby and he has always let us know when he needs to go to the bathroom. For this whole week, he just stopped letting us know and went right on the kitchen floor and also ... (170 words

What was your first instinct when a girl wants/wanted you to "finger" her?

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6 September 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi preferably I'd like it if JUST THE MEN answer?.. What is/was your first instinct to do when a girl wants/wanted you to "finger" her?... (28 words

How do you get your man to love you again, without giving up who you are?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5920 days ago

6 September 2008 (F age 36-40 - I have been having trouble with my boyfriend for a while now. We have been together for 3 years and it seems like everyday our communication and trust is decreasing. I have done somethings to show him how I feel about him but sometimes I feel they get looked over. I know that ... (184 words

Is it normal to be virgin at 18?

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6 September 2008 (M age 30-35 - I'm a male, 18, and still a virgin but all of my friends aren't. I'm afraid that i will be made fun of for being a virgin if they ever find out. Is it normal to be a virgin at 18?... (43 words

If he said that I was ugly, then why does he keep on staring at me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5919 days ago

6 September 2008 (F age 30-35 - There is this guy in my class. He keeps on looking at me. Last week I heard him call me ugly to his friends. I was right there and heard him. When they look at me in class, I saw that they laughed and smile at each other. I don't even know or associate with this guy. However ... (94 words

My boyfriend is emotionally detached. I was raised in a loving home and I'm not used to this. What do I do?

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6 September 2008 (F age 51-59 - Hello..my name is lisa..i am 40 yrs of age...i have been withmy partner for 8 years...the relationship has not been an easy one...in the beginning, he had a problem with jealousy (and of course it was me who paid), he also had a problem with alcohol and used to leave me alone ... (517 words

Why would he said I was stalking him when he was the one who called me?

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6 September 2008 (? age 30-35 - at the end of the school year last year my friends told this one guy i liked him. i was pretty sure he liked me too. so in the middle of the summer he called me. which means he must like me, right?. every time he called he was with his friends and they would always be really ... (175 words

My girlfriend got sick after we had anal sex. What can I do to help her?

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6 September 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hey everybody recently me and my girlfriend had anal and vaginal sex and she has been sick for 2 days straight and she says she feels as if her asshole ripped and her vagina is ripped also and when we were doing anal she was bleeding... She got a fever right after that and i wa... (66 words

Is it wrong to have fallen for my (dead) best friend's girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5919 days ago

6 September 2008 (M age 41-50 - Just to start things off, my best friend went out with a girl for 2 years before coming to university. They broke it off in the first week of university. He then started going out with another girl, and they were going off and on for a year before tragedy struck. My best friend ... (210 words

I think my teacher quit because of me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5902 days ago

6 September 2008 (F age 26-29 - my tecaher quit and i feel like it's my fault becuase i talked back to her and never did my work but everyone says she wanted a full time job, i feel so guilty it's already almost my third week of school! My whole class was so upset when they found out she quit. i feel really ... (67 words

I like this girl but I think she doesn't like me back! What do I do?

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6 September 2008 (M age 30-35 - Im asking people this because i need help. ok, i really like this girl. but she doesnt like me. i mean i guess she likes me as a friend cause we talk but only during our last school periods. anyway she is really popular. i really like her, i think i might like her too much ... (123 words

Is this love, lust, or infatuation?

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6 September 2008 (F age 36-40 - ok, iv been dating a guy for just over a month, we get on great, known each other for a while, i feel as though i love him , can this happen so soon? ive told him i love him to bits , and he has replied with the same answer, we can sit just gazing in to each others ... (356 words

Is my irregular period normal?

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6 September 2008 (F age 30-35 - Period question here... hi im 14 and i have had my period for about 10 months or soo they still arent ragular is that normal? also lastsunday i got my period but it was gone by monday but just a few minutes ago i relized its back is this normal? help thanxs i... (68 words

Should I worry if I'm the one who usually calls first?

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6 September 2008 (F age 30-35 - I have a boyfriend that I have been with for almost a month and called him on Tuesday wanting to talk to him since I started school the next day, I called while he was eating so I said "How about you call me when you're done?" he said "ok" and that was at 7. I waited till ... (112 words

What does it mean when a woman makes the motion to touch you but then stops?

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6 September 2008 (M age - I have a question about this female friend that I am attracted to, although I am already in a relationship with another woman. When she is talking to me, she sometimes goes out to touch me but then stops just before. In one conversation, this happend 3-4 times in the span of a ... (91 words

What did she mean when she said this! I'm so confused!

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6 September 2008 (F age 30-35 - Ok im confused as to what she was saying by this. Basically i liked this lad for ages n he had this friend whos a girl that suddenly started talking to me after something very suspicious happened(as if she found out soemthing about us) and then we started talking and stuff an... (374 words

My parents don't aprove of my boyfriend because he's a few years older than me. What do I do?

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6 September 2008 (F age 26-29 - Okay, so I went to this camp, Habitat for Humanity, and I met the greatest guy. He's sweet, caring, and we have ALOT in common. He really likes me, and he is dealing with my emotional baggage and all my other problems and faults. The only problem is, while im 13, he's 16. He... (138 words

Ever since my two best friends became friends I've felt left out!

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6 September 2008 (F age 30-35 - So here's the thing, I have these two best friends *Karissa* and *Jason*. I've known both of them since Kindergarten. The three of us drifted apart. Then, in the 8th grade, Jason and I reconnected and became best friends. We stayed this way all through our freshman year in high ... (298 words

My roomate's womanizing habits are affecting me!

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6 September 2008 (M age 30-35 - I am a freshmen in college and my roommate is a womanizer. Within the past two weeks he has walked in the room with 6 different girls. I feel like this is going to be a problem later on in the year. I feel strangely guilty that I know he is going to have sex with them and ... (87 words

I need to know how to ask this girl out before this other guy does!

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6 September 2008 (M age 30-35 - hello. i like this girl a lot and im pretty sure she likes me back but i cant think of how i should ask her out. any help? o and btw this other guy likes her too so i need it quick. plz?... (43 words

My man has lied a lot about his "hobbies" and I don't know what to do about this.

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6 September 2008 (F age 51-59 - My man is not descriptive of his attraction regulars of women or new interests, he claims to be pristine as men go, he has lied alot and done repeated hidden female related actions (porn , small mistakes with othr women) I have found out on own or from someone else, not ever ... (72 words

At the beginning he put a lot of effort to see me but now he rarely does! Why did he change so suddenly?

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6 September 2008 (F age 30-35 - im mad about this guy that i was seeing briefly a while back. we stopped speaking though really and would only see each other very occasionally. but the thing is i can't get him out of my head..and its been like this for a while now. i'll think he wants nothing to do with me ... (207 words

Am I right for wanting to lose weight before I meet him?

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