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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I am at a cross roads in my life. I am having problems with my wife of 7 years. She is 15 years older than me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5913 days ago

11 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I am at a cross roads in my life. I am having problems with my wife of 7 years. She is 15 years older and I moved from another country to be with her. We have similar interests and hopes and all that, and even now we get on really well. Recently she told me that she'd being ly... (505 words)

I want to give him something different, something special for his birthday next month. Any ideas please?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5913 days ago

11 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so it's my boyfriends birthday in a months time, and its the 4th birthday i'll have been with him but i'm looking for ideas for a nice present. I'm a pretty sentimental person so have made him things every birthday, christmas and valentine's day we've been together. I'm ... (194 words)

We found my best friend on a porn website, what should we do??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

11 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I honestly don't know what to do! Me and my boyfriend decided to look at some porn on the internet together to try it out and see whether it was fun or not. Whilst we were looking, we found a website for people to post pictures of themselves on it and we clicked on the link. We ... (227 words)

I'm really struggling to cope with the sudden set back in what I thought was a great relationship.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

11 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I need some love life advice even thought i am pretty sure i know the answer already. I have been seeing someone i love to bits for 5 months and he loves me too. Recently he bought a house a moved out of his parents, and to start with he said he liked it when i was there beca... (235 words)

Can anyone give me any tips on really good flirtng techniques??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5913 days ago

11 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everybody out there!! I was just wondering if anyone can give me any tips on really good flirtng techniques?? What are the main things that men use as a way of flirting? And can anyone tell me if constant eye contact really means anything? Thanks everybody!!... (50 words)

He ejaculated in my eye, now I'm having problems seeing with it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

11 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a really embarrassing problem so i thought i'd ask here where i can remain anonimous. I don't want to go to my doctor because im embarrassed by it. I was giving my boyfriend a blowjob a couple of days ago and something happened. Normally he tells me when he's going to c... (140 words)

I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years, and he's just told me he's married, but separated for the past 11 yrs.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

11 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been involved with my boyfriend for 3 years now, and he has just told me he is married but separated for the past 11 years to the women I thought was just the mother of one of his children. We live in North Caroline and she lives in Calfornia so its not like they are in ... (175 words)

I always see this guy at school, staring and smiling at me. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5914 days ago

11 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Theres this guy at my school who said he liked me but hes going out with a different girl. I always see him staring at me/smileing at me. What should i do.?... (34 words)

I would like a girlfriend, but I find it so hard to go out meeting people, I seem destined to stay alone forever.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5913 days ago

11 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi DearCupid I'm having problems at the moment. I always seem to be lonely and on my own. I have always been shy and nervous of people. As such I have issues communicating with people and never know how to talk properly to people. I have never had any social life or girlfrie... (175 words)

I was told the most precious person in my life... my nanna, has a tumor. Every minute I'm awake I'm thinking of her and worrying. Please help.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5906 days ago

11 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Everyone, i just need some help. yesterday i came home from my holidays and was told the most precious person in my life.. my nana, has a tumor. she has been ill for ages, and now we have had our worst fears confirmed. i am unable to cope with this whole situation, i am terr... (156 words)

I love my boyfriend so much, but this other guy is blowing my mind! I feel like a love-sick puppy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

11 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I am 23 years old, and have been dating my boyfriend for almost eight years now. We are high school sweethearts. It has been great, he is such a sweetheart and takes really good care of me. I have so many feelings for him and I am so tied to him. About 9 months a... (331 words)

My future sister-in-law is causing problems between me and my boyfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5914 days ago

11 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 18 years old. I have a boyfriend (20) that i have been with almost 4 years. We have had ALOT of problems, but we almost always get through them. Well, my boyfriend has a brother younger than him by a year. His brother has been dating a girl that he has been with for ... (322 words)

How do I convince my boyfriend he's not too old? One child, that's all I'm asking.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5881 days ago

11 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i have sacrificed a lot for this guy and he still don't want to have kids with me. he said he is too old. after all i have done for him and he still saids he is not having any kid with me, and after i know him a long time and sacrifice a lot for him. what do women think or anyo... (222 words)

I'm kinda scared of getting hurt or rejected because I haven't felt this way about a girl since my ex and I broke up .

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5914 days ago

11 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 and havent dated for a long time since january when me and my ex broke up, and ever since i've been doing my own thing not giving myself time for girls. i've seen girls but it didnt really work out because i never put in time for them because i wasn't interested, but ... (206 words)

His actions are telling me he really like me...what do you think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5914 days ago

11 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i'm really confused i really want to know if this lad likes me i really like him! we first saw each other at this fitness class that we go to and he is always staring at me and when we first met i smiled at him when he was staring and he went red. my mate who i havn't seen ... (197 words)

I like him but it seems he is trying too hard to impress me. How can I tell him to relax?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

11 September 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I recently started dating this guy. Hes great and sweet but the problem is he seems to be trying too hard impress me. I really like him but I wish just he relex a bit. It gots on my nerves any guy trying too hard. How can I tell him to relex?... (53 words)

What is so sexy or unique about anal sex? The idea disgusts me! Should I try it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

11 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi uncles and aunts. Lets cut to the chase... I wanna know what is so sexy or unique about anal sex! More than just once, my bf has been moving to my back site before i could lead him to the correct one. Lol! Sometimes i think he'd be doing that deliberately, maybe because he ... (100 words)

Been with him since his divorce and he is treating me like crap and doesn't want us to have a baby, how can I convince him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

11 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i was dating a quy he is 42 and i am 32 he says he is too old to have a child i have known him since i was 18 i dated him while he was marriend for 2 years and then she found out about us and he went back to her so i told him not to come back into my life until he was divorced ... (266 words)

He's on the internet looking for tranny's...what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5914 days ago

11 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and I have been married for 4 years. We have a daughter and he is now in the military. Before he joined the military we were having some issues. I found emails verifying that he had traveled to San Francisco to do porn. He was on dating websites, having erotic chat ... (144 words)

Guy blew me off so I sent him an apology! He said he'd get back to me..what does this mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

11 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Well this guy that i dated kind of blew me off, so I sent him this really cool apology letter. and I text him and ask did he get it and he said yes, he's thinking he will get back to me. What does that mean?... (46 words)

I've fallen for him but told him we can just be friends because he has a gf. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5913 days ago

11 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - okay i have a slight problem they guy i fallen for (just going on 17 im nearly 16) has got a gf, he has been one of my best friends or ages and im really close to him like more than most people but like he hs a gf, and recently he told me he liked me more than i friend but i ... (156 words)

Any suggestions for clearer skin?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

11 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay i was just wondering if anyone had any tips on getting clearer skin, iv got quite a lot of very small spots all over my face and ave been desperatly tryin to get rid of them. if anyone has any tips or knows any products that really work please let me know thanks :) x... (56 words)

My girlfriend got naked at a pool party and I'm not okay with this. Don't you think she needs to respect my feelings?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

11 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey there. Here is my problem. My girlfriend of roughly three years went to a birthday pool party at one of her friend's houses. I heard from a friend who also went to the party that later in the evening my girlfriend got quite drunk and ended up going in the pool with a few ... (321 words)

How do you handle it when you are pregnant and your boyfriend leaves you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

11 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 22 years old and 71/2 months pregnant. I was with the father of my baby for 5 years and just last week he broke up with me. We still live together and just renewed our lease about a month ago. All he can say to me is he doesnt know why but he just doesn't feel the ... (324 words)

I took on an 'instant family' but suspect she's now cheating! Is she?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5914 days ago

11 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - hiya i have a problem im 23 and i have taken on a girl ov 26 with to boys that mean so much to me weve been together for 1 and a half yrs and jus recentley she has slowd down on txting me and seeing me i havent seen the kids for a week now and the farther ov the children has ... (188 words)

Is it me or is it his verbal abuse?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

11 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 29 my boyfriend of three yrs.is 37. He has raised my three yr. old son since the age of five months. I love him very much and find it difficult to leave him though at times think I should. He is verbally abusive to me, most of the time in discussion referring to me as ... (285 words)

Will quitting smoking give you symptoms that mimic pregnancy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

11 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - my husband had a vesectomy nine years ago,im 38 and missed two periods,i feel tired all the time,moody ,and irate all the time,i have put on weight quite a bit,but i am also stopping smokig[week 5]is it possible im pregnant or am i confusing it with not smoking,... (48 words)

Date someone new or be with my ex who I know respected me and my limits?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5857 days ago

11 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - well a couple of weeks ago this boy i fancy who i met through see cadets asked me out we're quite good friends and we talk a fair bit alot of people think we make a cute pair. The next day my ex boyfriend told me he still loved me and wants to go out with me and quite frankly, ... (114 words)

Am I being used by the justice system?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5913 days ago

11 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, I need an advice from people who don't know me as none of my friend or family know what's happening to me for some time now. I'm a normal citysen with a good career, what has happened to me I would never of dreamed of in my worst nightmares it could ever happen to ... (193 words)

Ex boyfriend living with me and refusing to leave the house! He's only cosigned on the house loan. Legal ways to get him out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5779 days ago

11 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey I got this ex boyfriend who's living with me and won't get out of my house. I've tried everything, but nothing's worked. He only pays one bill in the house and I don't even need him to. He only is cosigned on the house loan so I was wondering if I could move all his stuff ... (98 words)

I am tired of feeling undervalued and wish he only had eyes for me. Should I go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5913 days ago

11 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I am an attractive, intelligent, 39 year old divorced mother of two and have been dating "Mark" for 2.5 years. The problem is Mark likes to look at, compliment and flirt with other women. He often stares at attractive women when in my company. As well he has made comments li... (188 words)

I'm only 13, pregnant with twins, afflicted with herpes, and I don't know who the father is. How do I tell my parents?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

11 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I just turned thirteen and I found out I am pregnant with triplets I don't know who the father is I have been sexually active with over ten men the last year. I have lied about my age because I am very developed and I don't know what to do. I also found out I have vaginal ... (106 words)

I found out details about my boyfriend's ex that would shutter the perfect image he has of her - do you think I should tell him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5913 days ago

11 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Aunts, I am having a difficult time obsessing over a past love of my boyfriend's. I will call her Jane and him Jon. This is a woman he met about 18 years ago at a trade show. They were both involved with other people, she was engaged. They felt an 'instant connecti... (1075 words)

How to stop being a hopeless romantic? I am sick of being nice and going nowhere.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

11 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am a 22 year old guy, have never been on a date, and am very shy around girls. I have only been "close" to a few girls in my life, but never anything serious. Anyways, when I do get closer with them, I try to do little nice things for them. They say that I am sweet,... (95 words)

Before we marry he wants me to sign a prenuptial contract, my heart says yes but my pride says no!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

11 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Im in my early twenties, my partner is in his thirties. basically we are getting married next year but before we do he wants me to sign a pre nup, i am quite offended by this as now i believe he doesnt trust me. his not a millionaire but has his own house and a business. my... (105 words)

Was I flirting to my friend as my wife thinks?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

11 September 2008 (?) age 41-50 - My wife has always had a problem with my friends because most of them honestly are women. It's really become a problem now in our marriage. There is one person in particular that I happen to really like (as a friend) and she's flipping out because she believes that it is not ... (210 words)

She won't return my calls after I had to cancel our date for a valid reason!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

11 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - About 3 weeks ago, a girl that I liked and liked me sort of "asked me on a date." She wanted to go boating with me, and I said I'd do it, and we agreed on a date to meet. She was thrilled about going with me. Well, turns out, the boat rental company screwed up my paperwork, ... (176 words)

I fancy the boy who gets on my bus to school, how can I start a friendship so I can build on it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5914 days ago

11 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hello. ok im going to give you all the details because i really do need some advice. there is this lad who gets on my bus to school and i really like him. even though he is in the year below me. i reckon he knows my face type of thing. but i dont think he knows my name. h... (171 words)

I want to write a letter to his family so they will accept our relationship. Any tips?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

11 September 2008 (F) age 30-35 - Well, I'm from the West indies, but my boyfriend is an Indian Jatt Sikh. We are very much in love and have been for almost two years. The trouble is, his family are strict and don't know of our love just yet, but we plan to tell them next year, by writing a very long and ... (180 words)

Why do you think my ex wants to stay friends with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5914 days ago

11 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hey i recently split up from my boyfriend that i was living with 4 2 years. we were not getting on and he thought that i was cheating on him when i wasnt. he was very paranoid about me speaking to another bloke. he says that he is not ready to take me back because he dosent ... (167 words)

I have below average boobs....what can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

11 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i got this problem with my boobs. they are not like really small but they are below average. i have never taken my top off 4 any bloke and my boyfriend always asked me why. im so concious that if i do it might put him off. even though he knows what size bra i am. how do i get ... (103 words)

What do I get him for Christmas? I need ideas!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5914 days ago

11 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey!! I'm 18 years old and my boyfriend of a year [on and off] is turning 19.I know it's a little too soon to be thinking about Christmas but I really don't know what to get him.This is our first Christmas together and he told me to just surprise him but I don't know what ... (82 words)

What could these stomach pains be?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5914 days ago

11 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey was just wondering what this could mean? I have real bad stomach pain like cramping and in the lower back of my hips. Today when I was doing the dishes my stomach touched the sink just a little bit and it really hurt. I also went to sit on a table at school and that hurt my ... (72 words)

He wants it less. I want it more. Is it him or is it me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5908 days ago

11 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - i just dont understand.my husband sometimes gets hard and cums quick. sometimes he stays hard and doesnt cum at all. sometimes hell fall asleep on the couch i want it all the time. we have went with out it for 4days and the longest was 6 i need more at least every other day.do ... (59 words)

What are the symptoms of depression?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

11 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you know if you are depressed? and how do you go about getting help? I feel that I could have mild depression but I am not sure, I used to be happy the majority of the time but now I just feel like "what's the point" and I basically just stay in, go to my boyfriends... (108 words)

Is calling him 'too much' when he says he wants space because of my issues?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

11 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Last week me and my boyfriend got into this huge,huge argument and he moved back home wednesday of last week in the beginning i kept bugging him because iwas really depressed then i went to a friends house to talk about the situation that weekend i went out with her and the ... (141 words)

How do I tell my mom that her boyfriend touches me? I know it's wrong...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

11 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hello, right here is my problem recently my mum has started seeing this bloke. he is so lovely when he is around her, but what she doesnt no is when he stops over he comes into my room at night after she has gone to bed and does things that arnt right. i am old enough to kn... (131 words)

How do I let go of my ex and stop being so picky?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5913 days ago

11 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I broke up with my bf because it wasn't meant to be. I am trying to get over this but obbviously it's difficult. I have stopped seeing him and he doesnt have my new number. I speak to him once a week now (its only been 2 weeks since the breakup) Should I completely cut off ... (317 words)

Did he have sex with her and how do I get him to admit it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5914 days ago

11 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of four years took his cousin to the prom this year because we were "on a break" but still together. I went with one of my good friends and my boyfriend and I ended up spending most of the dance and after party together. I thought he had some weird relationship ... (132 words)

Twisted Love: he's cheated on me over 20 times!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

11 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in a relationship with the same guy for five years. We have had some amazing times and some terrible times. He has cheated on me over 20 times (4 of them having sex with other girls) I cheated on him twice (having sex with two other guys)! We forgave each other ... (219 words)

How can a young lady abstain from an addiction and suppress her emotions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

11 September 2008 (?) age 36-40 - Dear all, I am afraid this is my third time of posting the same question on the forum. Many of you have given me very valuable advice, but still, I fail to solve the problem I am facing. If you see me in person, I am sure you can hardly imagine I am a victim of domesti... (338 words)

Did he cheat on me or am I going crazy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

11 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I’ve was dating my boyfriend for 4 months. He told me he loved me and I was the best thing that has ever happened to him. He took me away up to the lake when I was able to go and asked about what I wanted to do in my future, goals, dreams, and he wanted to work on something ... (537 words)

I can only get about a third of the way in. We've tried everything. Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

11 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been with my girlfriend for 2 1/2 years now, we are both virgins and have tried to have sex many times, but whenever we do try i can only get my penis in about a third of the way before it starts to hurt her, she says its like a sharp pain in her side. I really don't ... (147 words)

How can I tell him about how I feel when I know he will either laugh or shout at me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

11 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend asked me for a threesome about 2 months ago, he said I could choose the girl etc. I had always wanted a 3sum but had never said, so I agreed. We went on a website to look but he immediately started looking at all the skinny girls and messaging them. I didnt even ... (215 words)

Am I the ugliest fattest stupid cow in the world for trying to do it with him but for him only doing it when hes drunk? What would you do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

11 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Right .. Well I don't really know where to start this, basically my boyfriend of 2 and a bit years and I have been going through, well a very argumentative stage. All we ever seem to do is argue and to be honest I really hate it. When we are like this it drives me to the point ... (817 words)

What should I say to him or both of them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5914 days ago

11 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in a bit of a awkward situation, I've been thinking that if I just carry on it may sort itself out, but several months later I'm not getting anywhere fast! I've been sleeping with someone I have a professional relationship with, it's not right I know that because he has ... (268 words)

I knew that he watches porn before we got together, but now the self-doubt has started!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

11 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been with my partner for 9 years we have 3 children together (the last one being 2 months old). I have know since before we got together that he watches porn. I have also know that he is into shemales and gay porn as well as straight and bi-sexual and women on women. ... (391 words)

Is this 15 year age gap a problem or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

11 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hello right i have started seeing a man who is 15 years younger than me i am in my 40s and he is in his 20s. we work closly together and have a fantastic relationship, he is sweet and kind and gets on great with my children, he is just perfect all over. i just want peoples ... (93 words)

He seems to be spending less time and energy on me. Should I just give him his space?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5914 days ago

11 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my fince have been together for 2half years. Im still at college which is my fourth year. He has just started full time working in a gym! we used to see each other everyday because we were on the same college course together and thats how we met etc. now we see each... (206 words)

Could this guy at work be into me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5914 days ago

11 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - We've only met once and that was only for about 30 mins, the same night after we met he asked me for my number on facebook, and now he's been texting me 24/7 since, he asks me what i find decent in a guy. He also asked if he gave a good first impression when we met. Could he ... (65 words)

His ex won't leave him alone, and I'm sick of feeling that he's telling her one thing and me another!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

11 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am/was dating this guy. It is complicated. I just got out of a two year relationship in May and I told the current guy some of the details and how difficult the relationship was. We had heart to hearts and I explain how I didn't want to be hurt anymore and that is hard for me ... (239 words)

How can I let go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

11 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I know this may sound strange, considering all I have seen and that I now know after less then a week she moved on with another guy than I caught her with I sill find it hard to let go. How can someone after eight months of being together mve onto a relatioship a if... (99 words)

Why won't he ask me out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5914 days ago

11 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Met a guy out a few weeks ago but we live over an hour apart...anyway we got on really well just clicked...felt i could be myself around him and he has said that also. However, we have kept in contact, texting and calls and last night i asked why he has kept in contact as he... (206 words)

I don't want to get to like him any more, but I don't want to stop talking to him. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5914 days ago

11 September 2008 (M)

- Hi, Im 17 (male), soon to be 18, at college doing my a-levels, got a good part time job etc, but I havent been in love since I was 15, had a boyfriend since February or had any form of sex since April. I'm quite goodlooking but Im a warm person too... but it just feels li... (204 words)

What are the chances of deformity??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5885 days ago

11 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - well i am in love with my moms cousins youngest son.. is that wrong and can we be and what are the chances of deformity?? STORY i know what you guys think your too young to know what love is but one of my favorite sayings "you dont know w... (273 words)

My husband prefers his video games to me, although he said this would change. He lies to me and about, we rarely have intimacy. Do I leave?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

11 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My 2 year wedding anniversary is in a few days. Problem is that I don't know if I even love my husband. We weren't together very long before getting married. I was pregnant so we made the wedding be sooner than planned. So now we have 2 kids (one is from a previous marr... (205 words)

My LD boyfriend yelled at me and cursed me when I said I would delete the pictures of his ex'es from his camera. We haven't talked since. Is it over?

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11 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have not talked for two nights so far and we are in a long distance relationship that's been going on for a year and two months. I am so confused and lost I do not know what I did wrong or where I stand with him anymore.I been down and crying to myself sinc... (431 words)

He was talking to his ex and other girls on the dating site so we broke up. Now we'd like to try again but I'm not sure I can trust him.

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11 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, So, I met this guy online and we started talking. He was 5 or 600 miles away so I never thought it would amount to anything, it was just someone to talk to. After talking for several months, it grew into something more and we decided to meet. We met somewhere in the middle ... (474 words)

My boss's sister is recently giving false reports about me, which is affecting my professional life as well as my terms with my bosses! Please help!

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11 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been working in this office from past 7+years. I worked hard and proved my skills to my bosses during my tenant.But now from few months, my boss's sister has started coming to the office. She lacks practical knowledge but trying to become my boss. Although I give her ... (166 words)

She has only climaxed 3 times through actual intercourse...she is able to have multiple orgasms through manual and oral stimulation.

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11 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - right, this sounds ridiculous...I measured my penis- yes I'm an insecure arse...and I measured 6 inches (15.2 centimeters) and 1.6 inches wide, around-(4.1 centimeters in width )is this a pleasurable sized penis for a woman. I've been with my current girlfriend for 5 ... (215 words)

My boyfriend is jealous of my sexual past and is becoming verbally abusive. Will he ever get over this?

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11 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years now and we're great, no problems except for one which is big and is starting to make me go insane. I don't know how much longer we will last if we cant get this sorted. So the problem is that he is very jealous about my past. Before w... (867 words)

Was he really just trying to be funny? Was he waiting to see how I reacted? Was he just trying to dodge the question of if he wanted to see me again?

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11 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I joined a "dating" website a few months ago, and am now in a stage where I'm going on real dates with guys that I've been chatting with via email. I went on a date tonight, that I felt like went pretty well. We were out for quite a long time, got along well, laughed a ... (335 words)

Does love mature when you get married or does dating pretty girls just set you up for disappointment?

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11 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a popular guy and I've never had trouble getting girlfriends. And whenever I want a girlfriend I always make sure I get a pretty one. But I'm worried if this makes me shallow. I'm scared that if I get married to a woman she'll grow old and I won't be able to keep loving h... (93 words)

My mother doesn't appreciate my rap lyrics, how do I get her to accept them?

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11 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been writing rap lyrics for a good while now and I made a few tracks with my friends and they say I'm really good. And it's not just them, I won a freestyle tournament where there were experienced people judging. My dad is indifferent but my mom says it's terrible. S... (120 words)

Question about reaching orgasm and the G-spot... I seem to have located it but I'm not sure.

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11 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all! I am 20 and I have a question about the G-Spot. I am a virgin and recently tried inserting my index finger into my vaginal hole for the first time for masturbating.. I am not too sure but I seem to have found my G-spot (the wall was rough and pressing hard against ... (143 words)

I used to date this guy, we broke up, now he calls me a slut, which is very annoying, what should I do, is there a good verbal comeback?

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11 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well i know this boy named evan and he used to go out with me and then he broke up with me. but now he calls me a slut and it is so annoying and i have no comebacks so what should i say to him.... (46 words)

My problem is that I find myself being jealous over my boyfriend's ex-girlfriend who is dead, I also find myself reading his e-mails, and getting angry over messages to any woman, how do I get over these feelings?

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11 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for...exactly 17 months. We live together, are in a "commited" relationship, and get along really well. A year ago, his ex-girlfriend passed away in a tragic accident, and the year before that his father passed away. The past couple year... (337 words)

My mom turned forty-eight today, and it frightened me, she is not sick or anything, but I worry that my parents are getting older, and they will die, how do I stop worrying about that and enjoy them while we are all still here?

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11 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My mom turned 48 today, and it scared me. Lately I've been worrying about my parents growing old and dying. Not that they're in bad health but it always happens eventually. And it just makes me so sad to see them get older. So how can I get over this fear and enjoy them while I ... (58 words)

With a pending election, my girlfriend is totally involved in the political scene, and I am feeling neglected, as she has little time for me, how can I talk to her about what I feel, in a positive way?

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11 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone. With the election going on, my gf is obsessed with it. Participating online discussion, watching news all the time. I tried not to talk politics with her because that will only lead to more argument. However, now she totally ignored me. We don't even talk t... (101 words)

I'm a little unsure about how I could strike up a conversation with him (and where)-Advice please?

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11 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 14 year old female and am a sophomore in high school. Despite my age, please answer seriously. I moved to a town in California about a year ago, and just moved into a house more recently. I've found that I have a *ahem* attractive neighbor, who is a junior at my ... (302 words)

Isn't it hard enough being single? How do get through this embarassment?

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11 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm knocking on 30 and have never been in a serious relationship. Honestly, I haven't been on many dates either. No one seems interested in me. More and more my single friends are getting married and the married ones are having children and I feel left behind. It's not that ... (167 words)

Apologized after I made a major faux pas, with this married guy! Still distressed..advice?

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11 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Made the mistake of calling a married guy (I am so attracted to) via email that he was really hot. And yes, I am married too. And he is my in-laws primary care. I apologized to him via email for being inappropriate two days later after realizing what a faux pas, I had ... (83 words)

I feel bad because my husband is frustrated as his orgasms are not as long and pleasurable! What's wrong?

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11 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - my husband and i have had great sex for 3years this past year when we have sex he gets frusterated because his orgasm isn't long and pleasurable and i feel bad and sometimes i don't even get satisfied he says it's not me oh and he used to have mutiple orgasms do you have any ... (66 words)

Very, very awkward situation with my teacher! Any advice?

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11 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - hi! I'm a 13 year old girl in desperate help!! It all started in 7th grade I had 3 teachers, as my home room teaches.. Anyways one of them is like a realy nice lady she helps me get throw anything beacause I tell her everything! And one of the other teachers is this man! He is ... (252 words)

I have been talking on-line to this girl and I would like to meet her, but I don't want to scare her off, how do I find out if she would agree to meet me?

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11 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - this girl i met through a friend, i been talking to her online a fair bit. She starts new conversations when one dies down so she enjoys talkin to me. We've only spoken for few days. I do like her, how do i find out if she would consider meetin me or what she thinks of me? I ... (66 words)

I am bi-sexual, and my mom has told me, if she finds out that I am bi-sexual, she will disown me, it will kill me if I can't tell her the truth, what do I do?

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11 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - im bi and i dont know how to tell my parent my mom already told me that if she ever found out that im bi that she wil say im not her daoughter and it kill me that i cant im afriad what do i do... (46 words)

My boyfriend cheated on me, and my family thought we broke up because of his cheating, I am still secretly still dating him, how do I keep my family from finding out about him?

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11 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So i dont care what you say about me but i would like advice please.. but yeah im dating this guy and we've been dating for awhile and yeah hes cheated on my once and the family knows...but me and him are secretly dating...none of my family knows, they think we broke up. ... (81 words)

I like this guy I know and want to talk to him, and maybe let him know, but I have no idea how to approach him, any ideas?

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11 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so this guy and I know I like him but I don't know how to confront him. Its awkard because we have not talked in like a really long time.( a year at the most) His friends look at me and all that. + I cant find a reason to approach him without seeming random. he is also alw... (73 words)

I am thirteen, and have had my period for a while now, I want to use tampons, my mother is strongly opposed to my use of them, what is wrong with tampons at my age?

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11 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Well I use tampons secretly behind my moms back. I find pads uncomfortable. I asked when I can use tampons and she tod me when you're WWWWWAAAAAAYYY older! She's afraid I'll hurt myself (im 13!) and that I'm too small to use something "big". AND SHE SAID IF SHE FINDS OUT I'VE ... (103 words)

My new husband cheated on me, and we went our separate ways, I have a new boyfriend, but I am very worried that he is cheating on me as well, how do I get over my paranoid behavior, or do you think he is actually cheating?

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11 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - In January 2008, I found out that my newlywed husband had been having an affair for most of our one year marriage. I booted him to the curb in January. In April, 2008, I started dating my new boyfriend, and we have been together now for 5 1/2 months. Things between us have ... (464 words)

My ex boyfriend is telling me, six months after our break-up, that he is not over me, but I am over him, I feel guilty, what do I do now?

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11 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex boyfriend is telling me 6 months after our breakup that he is not over me, but I was over him 6 months ago. I feel guilty though. What should I do?... (33 words)

I'm involved in a consensual three-way relationship with two other women... and now they want to bring in a fourth! Do I say yes?

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11 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay, my situation may seem a bit wierd but i need some help. I am in a three-way relationship with two women, Tara and Sophie. We are all lesbians and we are all involved with each other intentionally. We have had sex together numerous times over our 2 year long relationship ... (195 words)

I've been with him for three years, and want to break up to get to know myself. But I'm scared I might regret it!

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11 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, i'm a 21 year old and i have been dating my boyfriend for three years. recently i have been thinking a lot about breaking up with him. he's my best friend. he's incredibly sweet, loving and fun person and he's perfect for me. recently, however, i have just been feeling as ... (126 words)