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I've wanted to always run over to him, blurt out how much I love him, and hope that he says the same in return, but I know that's just a fantasy. Help!

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Question - (23 September 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 23 September 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hey,

Just wondeing, what's the best way to get a boy's attention or get him to notice you? I've just wanted to always run over to him blurt out how much i love him, and hope that he says the same in return. But i know that's just a fantasy. But I have SO much trouble talking to certain boys, that i fear i may never have a boy friend.

I had one in 5th grade, but that doesn't count, because we had no clue what we were doing, but the boy i have a infatuation with right now is the best friend of the boy i went out with in 5th grade.

We all know each other pretty well, but i just can't talk to him. I think that if he were to come talk to me FIRST, I would be able to continue the conversation, but i just can't start a conversation especially with some boys.

Any advice? :)

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A male reader, Phsyciatrist-to-be United Kingdom +, writes (23 September 2008):

Phsyciatrist-to-be agony auntJust start spending more time with him. Don't "stalk" him: start off small, like (assuming you dont hang around 2gether already) always saying hi when you pass him. If you already know him better than that, or you're already good friends, do what everyone says you should: find what you both have in common, or what he likes, and work from there. You'd be suprised at just how often that can work.

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A female reader, LaydeeLove..x United Kingdom +, writes (23 September 2008):

well to get his attention you should just act like yourself act normal after all hes just another human being dont stalk him dont act too pushy do not say that you love him because that sometimes scares boys away and makes them feel trapped just look at him and look away then look back at him again and if hes looking at you then smile then he will soon be coming over to you :)

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