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writes:this is embarrasing but i have to ask.Me and my boyfriend have been together along time. he is about 6'3 and i am 4'9...We tried having sex b4 but he was too big or i was to tight...either way it didnt work.so he tried fingering me with more than just teh normal 2 he usualy uses. 3 hurt at first but after a minute got enjoyable. but when he tried 4 it just hurt. what i can i do to...idk..."strech myself" i want to make love to him but my body wont let me. I find this depressing and feel that it is my fault.please help
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2008): well u may have vaginimus. I have it... google it.
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reader, dolla18  +, writes (23 September 2008):
 hi,
yes i know what you mean....the larger guy can hurt when you have intercorse....
my advice to you is talk to him.....1st compliment him on his size....but tell him this can cause you some disscomfort.....there for ask him if he will take things really slowly when going inside you (KY jelly might help) .....you could also try different positions....there are some positions that will allow you to be in control, so that he don't go so deeply inside you....
tbh your not alone, i had the same trouble with my b/f.....i found out it were also the use of the condoms that wasn't helping as it were making it seem like he were making love to me with a stick.....(maybe this might be the case for you?.....if possible try the femadon....the female version of the condom).....
it does get easier in time, but he as to take things slow......we now have a very intermate relationship, with a very full filled sex life......
also use plenty of foreplay as this will help....an you may find if your excited enough you might not need the KY jelly?.....
best wishes and GOOD LUCK.....xx
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