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51-59,
*ad sack
writes:We were friends, best friends with a couple and their two kids. We turned like family, always hanging out together. Over two years ago, we mutually decided to experiment sexually with each other' partners.It started with simple massage sessions, we vowed it would only be stuff but we would not go all the way. We did. Once a week or so we would meet and do our thing. Jealousy started, insecurity started and we ended up having so many fights. But we still love them. They have turned against us and want us out of their lives. We are devastated. Our young son was considered as their third son. We feel awful.Do u think it makes sense giving it time? Should we hope that one day in the future we could be friends again? With them we were friends, partners and family all rolled in one. Now we feel so empty and awful.Do advise please.Sad sack
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reader, BigSis  +, writes (23 September 2008):
 Another good point, this time from Tellullah...heh heh heh.....
....'real ugly ones then you wont want to shag them'.
Oh they just get better and better.
I'm sorry Mr Sad Sack, I'm not mocking your situation, by no means....
...but what's with the name?
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reader, TELLULAH +, writes (23 September 2008):
 Its a shame, but as Uncle Phil said you learn the pitfalls of doing this kind of stuff. Personally I would let them go and make some new friends.
Get some real ugly ones then you wont want to shag them LOL.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (23 September 2008):
 I think you can kiss this friendship bye bye. You should take Uncle Phil up on his idea at least then something good can come out of this debacle.
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reader, BigSis +, writes (23 September 2008):
Good point Uncle P.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2008): Definitely an object lesson for anyone considering doing the same.
It would probably be an asset to this site if you were to submit an article on your experience with this sort of lifestyle. We 'aunts' would then be able to refer anyone considering doing the same to your article, which would no doubt enlighten them to some of the pitfalls of swapping partners.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2008): it was a stupid idea after all
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2008): I think it is a stupid idea of you to swap partners in the first place because of course jealousy would start! and im sad that your kids are involved, but im shure if u give it three weeks and only contact by email with out flirtation you could perhaps go back to your old friendship with out the sex part
hope you can be friends again
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