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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

For the past three years now, I've had this fantasy of asking my best guy friend, Jason to be my date for the prom.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5930 days ago

26 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, For the past three years now, I've had this fantasy of asking my best guy friend, Jason (who has also been my crush for the duration of that time), to be my date for the prom. Well, junior year has finally come around, and I still have intentions of asking him to... (246 words)

Confused guy in California

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5927 days ago

26 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, Me and my ex-fiance broke up over two years ago. She jumped into a relationship with a guy right after we broke up. We hadn't talked for almost a year when she called me on her birthday. Everytime we spoke it was a good conversation until she kept bringing up the ... (109 words)

How do I get close to my cousin again without her pushing me away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

26 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a cousin who is exactly my age who i'm extremely envious of. She has a great boyfriend, great friends, she goes out a lot. I don't seem to have any of that. i've shrugged it off for ages but now i feel a sense of loneliness and its really affecting me. i'm not quite su... (101 words)

What can I do to save and repair what we have?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5925 days ago

26 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My fiance and I have been together for almost two years, have been engaged for one. We have a four in a half month old together. My question is What can I do to save and repair what we have? Let me give you some background. Shortly after we first got together I mad... (310 words)

Is it possible to put the past behind us and move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5923 days ago

26 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. Me and my boyfriend been together for a year but we were always on and off mainly because i knew he was seeing other girls and i saw other boys. I found out from people he was seeing but he never admitted to doing it, which was the reason why i stopped trusting him. Rece... (217 words)

I need survival tips from someone smart, who knows what I can think or do to not lose my cool almost everyday.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

26 September 2008 (F) age - I wonder,if anybody would have any practical advice to my situation... I live in a very troubled marriage. Its a long one, over 20 years. Lots of problems. I know its natural, and many marriages gets to the same point, when you wonder if its worth it or not, to go on.. ... (356 words)

I'm 16 years old and when I get an erection my foreskin won't retract.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5927 days ago

26 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 years old and when I get an erection my foreskin won't retract, although i have read articles i dont want to do the bath method, What else can help. Thanks... (32 words)

I'm just stuck, he left me with no explanation and I need to know how to get over him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5930 days ago

26 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16. I went out with this guy (17 y/o) for 3 months - May, June and July. Things were great in the beginning and he had been in previous relationships, but I hadn't. We didn't kiss or do anything like that.. I used to hug only, because as it was my first boyfriend and the ... (444 words)

I'm sick at having to look at my "other qualities" because I'm not as good looking as my sister.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

26 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok heres the deal... i sound really stupid writing this and it seems so pathetic with everyhting horrible that happens in the world but i think im having a nervous breakdown lol ive only just turned 18 and all my life everyones comapred my to my older sister..im the smart... (269 words)

How can I keep the temptation of touching her sexually away while still being able to be close to her? Any ideas?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

26 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello. I'm currently in high school and I'm engaged to the girl of my dreams. We've been dating for quite a while now. I proposed to her around 2 months ago. Since that we have talked more and more about our wedding. We've decided that to avoid ending up like her parents did we ... (162 words)

What kind of message can I send him on Facebook to show him I really like him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5928 days ago

26 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - So I met this guy and the youth club who taught us a masterclass in physical theatre, he runs his own theatre company. I really fancied him a lot. And I think he was flirting with me. I never got the chance to get his number or details. However, a quick search on facebook has ... (245 words)

I have mood swings, I'm sleeping a lot and have developed stretch marks. Am I pregnant???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

26 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I haven't had my period since June and I have my period every other month. I had a period in May and the reason why I had my period in June was becasue when I take the plan B pill it makes me have my period. I had my period in June and ended it 17th and now it's almost t... (130 words)

Am I mad to give up the chance of having a kid in the future by staying with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5929 days ago

26 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear aunts, I am 30 years old and have no children. My boyfriend is in his 40s, has 2 kids and has had a vasectomy. Whilst I don't particularly want kids, am I mad to give up the chance of having a kid in the future by staying with him? You never know, I might change my ... (133 words)

Has anyone had a good experience with a younger still coming out to herself and others lesbian? Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

26 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - So I am dating this woman(23) who has never been with a girl before let alone in any kind of long-term relationship..i am 9 years her senior and have been in several relationships, so knowing everything she is thinking about i am being uuuuber considerate and respectful of ... (584 words)

Other than our religious differences, we get along wonderfully. To me, it seems a shame to throw that all away without even considering that some people convert, or that love can outweigh tradition...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5930 days ago

26 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been casually dating a Jewish guy for about a month now. Vital background information is that I am a (Christmas/Easter mass attendance only) Catholic and always find myself attracted to Jews. Although I value different religions and find it interesting to learn about ... (355 words)

His left testicle sometimes comes out of his scrotum and into his lower belly! He pushes it back, but I find this really worrying!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5929 days ago

26 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, my boyfriend just told me today that his left testicle sometimes comes out of his scrotum and into his lower belly. He says this happened before when he had an erection and he just pushed it down back into his scrotum ,its been happening for the past couple of months. I'm ... (73 words)

I am scared he's freaking out because he thinks he will get ill again if he hangs on to me, his prison of gloom. Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5930 days ago

26 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi people googling for answers that can't be answered. I love my boyfriend. We've been together for a few months now. I feel very happy happy with him. But I have always been depressed and have always repressed it and ignored my illness until him. He made me want to get bett... (285 words)

An older woman who broke my heart, is dating someone else yet I still want her back.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5927 days ago

26 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I started dating a woman approximately a dozen years older than me. She was fresh out of a long marriage. We had a very strong relationship and she said she loved me and did all sorts of romantic things to back it up. The problem was we had met through work. She didn't wan... (793 words)

Why go to eat pork chops when you got steak at home?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5908 days ago

26 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm just a little confused here. We've been together 3 years and have a 16 month old daughter. We have a pretty good relationship other than our never ending battle about his porn. We started our relationship with him saying that all he wanted was honesty. I've always been... (390 words)

My boyfriend is always putting me down & hitting and slapping at me, is this considered abuse?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

26 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I need some help. My boyfriend has always been playful in you know some harmless teasing and hitting me playfully type thing. But a month ago it started changing. He is still like this, however his motives have changed. The teasing has turned into comments such as - u don't... (323 words)

Do I give up this great girlfriend to make life easier with regard to seeing my son? Or should I stand my ground?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

26 September 2008 (M)

age - Hi I asked for help about a month ago and appreciated everyone's answers but need some advice again. Since my last posting I approached T and asked her to be straight with me regarding how we were. She said she liked me and would like to see if we could be something mor... (402 words)

Problems with scorpio man. I need advice from other scorpio's or people involved with one.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5930 days ago

26 September 2008 (F)

age - I've been in a relationship with a scorpio man for 6 months now. I love him a lot and from the things he has said to me believed he loved me too. The problem is he plays so many head games with me. Every time things are going great he pulls back and stops seeing me or talking ... (115 words)

What does she really feel? Why won't she wait for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

26 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm not sure where I am right now in my life, I just finally finished a 6 month long breakup, that ended up being more complicated than I ever wanted it to be, and just today she finally gave me closure on ending it for good.. My ex and I weren't allowed to see each other, ... (516 words)

Seeing them kiss makes me feel uncomfortable, but I don't have feelings for him. How do I get this out of my mind?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5923 days ago

26 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello. Let me tell you the background of this story first. I went out with a guy in the beggining of this year. We went out for about 4 months and something happened between us so i broke up with him. Our relationship became difficult but we still talked and we were friends. ... (464 words)

I don't feel I'm good enough for her and this is getting me really depressed.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

26 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i have just entered me first real relationship, but i have major confidence issues. the girl i am going out with is amazing, i love her, but i dont feal that i am good enough for her and that she can do far better than me and it is getting me realy depressed, what do i do?... (57 words)

What is the matter with my girlfriend? Something's not right...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5902 days ago

26 September 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - hi I needed advice one day my gf randomly called me crying and said we need a break. I told her I really really love her and if that's what you need I love you so much I will wait for you for however long it takes, she said that she loves me truly but she is not sure if I'm ... (232 words)

My boyfriend is still close to his soon to be ex wife and it really annoys me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

26 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is still close to his soon to be ex wife and it really annoys me. they talk regularly on the phone, text a lot and meet up whenever they can. she lives over 200 miles away now but she is a threat to my relationship. my boyfriend chris has told me that they slept ... (201 words)

Can a 37 year old and a 23 year old ever work?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5921 days ago

26 September 2008 (?) age 36-40 - Am I too young for this man? He is 37, I am 23. Any successes or snafus to avoid? Would this deter him from making a move on me? ... (29 words)

What do I do? I've no idea how to flirt, and I've never felt like this in my whole life!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5926 days ago

26 September 2008 (F)

age - Really think im losing the plot !!!!!Ive been married for over 20 years ,Last three years downhill but just grin and bare it .Ive never in 20 years been unfaithful ,Im not blowing my own trumpet but i am classed as attractive but im very low on confidence if men look at me i ... (160 words)

How do I put the spark back into our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5928 days ago

26 September 2008 (?) age 26-29 - [Moderator note: The age given as 10-12 is obviously an error. Please ignore that age listing.] My question is how do I put the spark back into my relationship? Let me give you a little bit of background. My soon to be husband and I have been together for almost two ye... (263 words)

Should I marry someone with a huge butt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

26 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Should I marry someone that has a huge butt? She always complains abotu it but never does anythign about it. She eats crappy food that makes it bigger and hardly ever works out. Everythign else about her is perfect but I am embarassed by it. ... (45 words)

He went too far or maybe comes off too strong? I don't know what to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5929 days ago

26 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Seriously stuck. There's this guy who's been talking to me alot lately, just like 'hi' and the occasional flirting, i think he fancies me as he always asks if i've got a boyfriend and has commented on me being 'fit' and 'saucy minx'. He's also got pretty friendly with one of my ... (193 words)

I mainly want to escape all this and have my friend back like it used to be but I don't see that happening.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5925 days ago

26 September 2008 (F)

- Someone who is ment to be my best friend he's bisexual. About 6 months ago started speaking more and more to this lad. He eventually started coming out with us and it got to the stage where he would come out with us everytime we went out. My friend would always pick him over ... (1366 words)

I want my affair back, he's now flirting with my best friend! Please get me out of this!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5901 days ago

26 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i'm very much depressed not to work and study. please get me out of this. We were good friends, then best and then had sexual relationship. but the thing is I;m married and he is already dating a girlfriend since 5 yrs! we knew that we dont put eachother on priority , we both ... (186 words)

I'm successful in every part of life except relationships, why is this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5923 days ago

26 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Lots of my ex girlfriends and even women older then me that i dated, told me after 2-3 months of relationship that i'm not realy confident in me. And now i have this complexe every time.I think that they are wrong and i can prouve it, but every time i date another girl i think ... (117 words)

My parents are being extremely over protective!! Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

26 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hiya im 19 years old and the youngest in my family. my parents are extremely overprotective and they don't let me go out too much. i'm at a point where i dont keep in touch with too many people for fear they might ask me to come out and my parents won't allow me to go. i r... (91 words)

What are your opinions on this dilema???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

26 September 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - whats everyones views or opinions on this dilema can a marriage that was already on the rocks with one partner(the husband)not loving the other partner then having an affair,resulting in a baby with added financial implications SURVIVE?... (37 words)

I like this girl but she's taken...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5925 days ago

26 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, There is this girl at my college who I really like, i get the bus home with her a lot and I have become friends with her but i kind of want to ask her out. The problem is she is with someone else, obviously it is not possible at the moment for anything further to happe... (72 words)

Should I Marry Someone That I Am Not 100% attracted to and may become fat in the future?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5910 days ago

26 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Should I marry a woman that I am not entirely attracted to and might get fat in the future? She is one of my best friends and has everything I want in a woman... but I can tell she does not work-out enough to maintain a healthy body and always finds excuses not to. She has a ... (100 words)

What's the best way for me to make friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5930 days ago

26 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya, recently I went through a really bad phase of anxiety attacks. I didn't really want to be out socialising and it went on for about two years, on and off. Now I think I'm over the anxiety and I'm coming into my own; however in that period of time I grew apart from most of ... (89 words)

Found out recently my son isn't biologically mine.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

26 September 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Found out recently my son isn't biologically mine. I always sort of knew that all my kids weren't mine. Still a bit of a shock to know it for sure though. My ex still knows the other guy she was with at the time and it's been proven he's my lads biological Dad. Long story ... (116 words)

Could this be a positive? Am I pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

26 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 6 days late for my period and I have had 4 negative urine test and one negative blood test, I hace read that in some cases that the Hcg can be to low to detect, is it really possible could I still be pregnant, cause I have been feeling very bloated, lighthead in times and ... (79 words)

I feel my life is pointless, I'm in unrequitted loved, and I can't stop spending online... Help!

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26 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi Okay. The thing is, I'm not sure my life is going anywhere. I work about 20 hours a week at a store. I think I should go back to college and get an apprenticeship to become an electrician. I have no girlfriend (well a proper one anyway, I have a girl in the Phillipines ... (266 words)

How can my husband and I improve our sex life?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5927 days ago

26 September 2008 (?) age 26-29 - My husband and I have talked about trying to make our sex life better. What is the best way to show/teach him what I like and what gets me going? I know he doesn't have the experience I do, so it makes it a little more difficult for me. plz help ... (54 words)

I get so jealous, am I over reacting?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5929 days ago

26 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend now for over a year. Being with him has changed a lot of things in my life. Before I met him I never wanted to get married or have children and now I feel that I do. I haven't felt this connected to any other man in my life. But I have also started ... (222 words)

Do I need to hold on or let go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5923 days ago

26 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I have a three year-old relationship. We have a great relationship I can say, he's been there through bad times and the good, however these past few months I can say sweetness has gone away. It all started when I reprimanded him that he's not saving for our future, and ... (158 words)

Do I owe him and his parents money now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

26 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - So my boyfriend and I had been going out for almost four years. We're in college, and during freshman and sophomore year I lived with him in his apartment because he'd wanted me to. I didn't have to pay any part of the rent and no one said anything about payback. This year... (387 words)

I can't seem to get over this guy I was with for a year.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5920 days ago

26 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I can't seem to get over this guy I was with for a year. He is half my age, has a girlfriend and a kid that he is still with. The whole time he kept telling me it was over for them but he couldn't leave because she would be a jerk about custody. He finally dumped me,but it is ... (148 words)

Help! How do I fight this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5925 days ago

26 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married for 4 years, lived with him for 8 and known him for 30 years. After we got married he wouldn't even hold my hand much less have sex with me but he has made sure that my son and I have a roof over our head and food in our mouths but yet, he also started ... (471 words)

My boyfriend just got his fiend to rape me, what should I do? I cant leave him.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

26 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend just got his fiend to rape me, what should I do? I cant leave him.... (17 words)

How do I tell my father that I'm pregnant? He has absolutely zero empathy and worries more about money than anything else!

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5858 days ago

26 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello All, I would like some tips or advice on how to tell my father that I am pregnant. Here is a little info: I am 26 years old and in a stable relationship. I have told my mother, sister, brother, and all my friends. Everyone seems to be excited about the baby and I hav... (290 words)

I have depression and despite this he pushes me into situations that I'm not comfortable with, does he truly love me, should I walk away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

26 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Can anyone help? im 23 and have been in a serious relationship for almost 2 years and living together for about 1 year.Recently i have been beginning to wonder if i mean as much to him as he says i do.I have depression and despite this he pushes me into situations that i am not ... (181 words)

He said he didn't want a relationship but we act as though we have one, recently I feel he wants more, I don't know what to think and how to interpret and react to his comments!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

26 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello I need help here, because I am very confuse, I have been dating this guy for around 7 months, he is wonderfull with me, he does everything to please me. We have been exclusive since the begining. Like 2 months after we started dating he told me that he didn't wanted a re... (424 words)

My ex sex buddy doesn't talk to me since he is hooking up with another coworker. I thought we were friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

26 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My coworker and I started messing around with no strings attached. I just broke up with my boyfriend about a month ago and am still in hopes of re-patching things up. However, one day we all went out and I invited one of my other girl co workers to come out with us. The guy I ... (149 words)

I told her I needed time to get over her but that just makes her upset! What's the best way to handle this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5928 days ago

26 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i recently started liking my best friend who is a girl. we found out that we both liked each other and things were going slow but good for a week or so until her ex's dad ended up in the hospital. to make a long story short i told her that she should just get back with her ex ... (144 words)

I keep finding myself at the bottom of the hierarchy at work over and over again! I'm tired of feeling like that 'worthless nothing'!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2011 days ago

26 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'm feeling very confused right now and was hoping any of you out there who have been in a similar situation, could give me some advice. I'm 25 and have been working in various fulltime office jobs over the past 10 years. I have one of those 'gentle, nice-as-pie'... (927 words)

Please help me NOT text my old teacher, I'm so tempted but I know I shouldn't!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5930 days ago

26 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help. I left school May this year and promised myself that this was going to be great as i was gonna finally get over my teacher, thing is i cant. Everytime i see a barbie doll, or even the shop borders! i think of him, due to memories and wht was said. Im confus... (103 words)

My wife was not a virgin and this discovery has hurt me deeply. Please help!

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

26 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - my wife told me that she was not a virgin before we got married, myself was a virgin and only lost it to her.now we are married and truly love her but hurt her past and at times i illtreat her. so i will never experience breaking a virgin i ask myself. i truly love my wife and ... (70 words)

I am beginning to feel like we are more friends with benifits than lovers. I am feeling more and more unloved. Are we over?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5929 days ago

26 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, does anyone know the signs of a relationship on its way out please? Its just i am feeling more and more unloved as the weeks go by. For example my boyfriend and i have moved in together, thinking i would get to see more of him, however i am finding that i am more alone (o... (119 words)

He yelled "I know you miss me and you want me back!" in the school cafeteria. Problem is I also like my best friend who's asked me out.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5930 days ago

26 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - okay i just got dumped by a boy! but now he wants to go back to me..at lunch he yelled out"i know u miss me and u want me back" but he broke up with me and he said that...well anyway...i really still like him and i also want to get back with him but i kind of like my best ... (77 words)

Everyone says he's a waste of space, but I can't take my mind off him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

26 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - please help me! i had this boyfriend 5 years ago and we split up, but still said 'hi' if we saw each other! we both had other relationships in the last 5 years, but now im single and so is he. we keep meeting up but hes only after 1 thing from me an when he gets it he take... (124 words)

I need to protect my son, and should I seek legal advice for our future?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5927 days ago

26 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I feel so weak, i need to protect my son. I live with my partner of 4 years and my 9 year old son from a previous marraige. Last night my partner prevented my son from using the toilet for 10 minutes because he was on the loo, then he had a shower instead of letti... (271 words)

Is my wife cheating on me or not? I have to know!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5897 days ago

26 September 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife slept with someone behind my back some time ago. I found out about it, and I have forgiven her. Then more recently she saw the guy out in a bar, a chance meeting according to her, and talked with him. Again, I found out, she says, they just talked about their lives now, ... (553 words)

I've changed, but how can I convince him??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5931 days ago

26 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - How do I get my boyfriend to realise that I have changed for the better and that i will not treat him as poorly as I did?... (27 words)

My wife's very depressed since her dad died a year ago, our sex life is inexistent, it's driving me insane!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

26 September 2008 (?) age 41-50 - My wife's dad died nearly a year ago. Shes doesn't want have sex anymore. I've waiting for her and supported her ever since her dad passed away. But its driving me insane she wont let do anything to her. Its causing fights (sometimes we augured about little things to. Like who ... (57 words)

How can I forgive him for not understanding me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5930 days ago

26 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - What do i do? My boyfriend and i split up a month ago. i care about him loads i do miss him n i miss what we had, but how can i forgive him for not understanding me? I went away for some time on my own, and he didnt understand it and we got into a huge arguemnt? I have never... (167 words)

Should I trust him one more time, and give us two another chance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

26 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, i left my boyfriend 3 months ago his friends told me he was very depressed when we left but he did not show me that. now after 3 months he contacted me on the internet and told me that he has his girlfriend, but still loves me. he was sending me messages to go onli... (246 words)

We met on line, I feel I love him one minute and the next I just want to be friends. What do I do?

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26 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I met his guy online and i immediatly liked him. The problem is he lives in calagary and i live in vancouver. He is 18 and im 16. He is thinking about coming and living with me or get a apartment near hear. I like him now but he wont be able to move for a year. And im wond... (106 words)

I have started to develop feelings for him besides just sex, should I tell him? Neither of us would leave their family.

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26 September 2008 (?) age 41-50 - Hi so I am new to this. I have a question about an affair that I am having. He well is pretty much married has 2 kids and his wifey's 2 kids. And well I am married with 2 kids. But any ways me and this guy have been seeing each other for 2.5 years now. I have started to develop ... (139 words)

My ex returned to his ex, it's getting confusing and I can't understand why suddenly he's insisting on being my friend!

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26 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm 27 and had been seeing this 19 year old guy for four months. We had quite a pleasant relationship and I grew very fond of him. Then suddenly he wanted to end it because he said that he can't handle the emotions. He comes from a tough past and seems to prefer painful ... (135 words)

I'm in a LDR, but seeing someone near me, is this wrong? I just need some love but I'd break up with him if need be, but how should I do it?

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26 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok well Im a young girl. I have a boyfriend in the philippines I love him dearly. But about 5 months into our relationship i began dating a guy here, is this really wrong what should I do?? I cant see myself with the guy here, but I just need some love if that makes sense... (80 words)

I didn't know what I liked when we got married! Now I realise I don't like many things about my wife. Should I stall this real estate deal because I'm unsure of my marriage? Should I move on from her?

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26 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Where do I begin... We have been married for 15 years. I was 18. We have 3 kids--15, 13 and 6. When we first were married and for many years there after, we were broke. A small level of success has only come in the last 3 years or so. About 2 years ago, I star... (1305 words)

What should I do about my ex who says has feelings for me but... loves his girlfriend? She has treated him horribly!

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26 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I was in a relationship with my ex for 4 years that ended a year ago. We have a 3 year old son together, and he is now dating a girl he cheated on my with. For the last year he has been telling me he still has strong feelings for me. Over the last 2 months, we've have take... (239 words)

Why do I still have feelings for my best friend's current girlfriend? What do you think about their situation?

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26 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Since January I have been really digging this girl that had become a really good friend. I notified this to my bestfriend and encouraged me to go on and try to ask her out. He went on encouraging my feelings toward her. I never got the courage to actually ask her out because I ... (354 words)

My biggest fear is my dad will marry before I do! Our relationship is not the same since he has a girlfriend! I'm going crazy!

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26 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - So my father has a girlfriend. She's nice, I dont think she really loves him.. She talks down to him sometimes and she has no Job! She is 35.. not quiet the age to be retiring hunny! Im having a hard time dealing with the fact that My dad has a serious girlfriend.. My... (286 words)

This boy said he likes me but the next day he kisses my friend, I don't understand! What should I do?

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26 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well I have like this guy named Miguel for about a year already..We tried the whole dating thing but it didn't work so we stayed as friends..Well lately he has been sending text messages to my friend Jesenia and I guess they wanted to meet each other.Jesenia knows that me and ... (259 words)

Why is injustice allowed?

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26 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - is this justice or what????sorry my question has got nothing to do with relationships..but, i just want to get this out of my chest! last year 2 of my cousins were driving around when they had an accident.the guy who hit them said that it was his fault.they almost died!... (244 words)

My cousin's husband who is 31 has approached me sexually (touching me, etc) several times (I'm 16), I know it's wrong but I like it. What to do?

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26 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in a sticky situation. It all started at my moms birthday when I was getting tired and went to my room to change in to pajamas. My step cousins husband then walked in an saw me changing. I tried to get away, but I couldn't. He then started making out with me, I was scar... (221 words)

I call and call and my calls aren't returned until days later. Maybe he's not in love with me as he says? How can I talk about this without seeming needy?

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26 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Help. I'm not sure what this means. I've been with this guy for a while. Actually we have a very interesting history, we've known each other and have been great friends for many years. We've dated in the past. I love him very much and he has expressed his love for me too. ... (304 words)

What can be wrong with me. I'm so unlucky in love? Please, I feel depressed and need help!? All the guys I'm attracted to are unavailable.

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26 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - First of all, I'm 31 years old and still a virgin and haven't had a BF. I was brought out in a religious family. Yet, I never found myself attracted to anyone and have a relationship with even inside the church. The same happened in school, I wasn't the best looking girl nor ... (274 words)

I know he may never leave his wife but the way he treats me is unreal! What should I think about him?

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26 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been seeing a married man for around 9 months now and he loves her and there is a baby invovled.... im starting to fall for him but we talk anytime we can and we see each other when we get the chance... we have a blast together its almost perfect. i know he may neve... (211 words)

I have his number and am planning to call him but I'm shy, what should I say to him? Any ideas?

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26 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a sophomore in high school and the guy I like is a junior. He's also my neighbor (I recently moved in, so we're new neighbors). I think he's cute--hot--but we've never actually been able to have a real conversation. However, I asked him for his number the other day and he ... (161 words)

I forgave my husband's cheating with my sister but I'm worried he will do it again.

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26 September 2008 (?) age 41-50 - I caught my husband cheating me with my sister. We manage fix marriage but I'm still worried that he'll do it again. We two have kids (ages 1-4) and don't ruin their childhoods by getting a divorce. What I should do? I'm not talking to my sis.... (47 words)

Did I do the right thing to break up with him? I miss him but he made me feel so unimportant, taunted me, never appreciated/complimented me...

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26 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I met my bf couple of years back and from then on I don’t remember not loving him..we were away for more than 6 months due to work but then started living in the same city again.. problems started the night of our first anniversary.. he proposed me in the night a year back and ... (201 words)

Can steroids be the cause of me not getting a hard-on?

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26 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I need litle bit advice. i cant get a hard on now. i use to be perfectly fine but then i was on steroids for a while for body building. since i have come off them i dont seem to get a hard on, i think its because of the steroids but i dont know what to do now . I dont ... (97 words)

Why does the girl I like stay with her awful boyfriend? She says she'd rather be with me, but won't break up with him.

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26 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I am in a very tough situation. there is this girl who i like and says she likes me back. she has a bf. 6 months ago she told me that they might break up...so i should wait it out... i waited and waited...six month later its all the same but now im becoming depresse... (213 words)

We talk exactly like we did when we were seeing each other... But he doesn't want a relationship. What's the deal?

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26 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey This guy I had been seeing, which everything was going very well with over the summer, just decided that he was too busy to be in a relationship with anyone at the moment and that we should just be friends. I took this understandingly as anyone really should but... (181 words)

My older husband doesn't satisfy me sexually.

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26 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a issue. I'm a 22 yr old female my husband is 34 I've been with him for 7 years married for a year. I love my husband but we have a problem sex. We use to have sex on a regular bases but now its once maybe twice every 2 weeks ( I'm young I need more) and it don't la... (199 words)

Friends have told me about masturbating, but I want to be a virgin, please help.

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26 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I'm 12 years old and i want 2 have sex but my friends have told me about masterbating what should i do? p.s. (im realy horny but i want 2 b a virgin please help me)... (38 words)

Can this anniversary be saved? He doesn't seem to want to put in the effort.

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26 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - so it's my 5 year anniversary. I've been hesitant about this date because i secretly knew what would happen but wanted to be hopeful and think he would sweep me off my feet. well that didn't happen and he's very blah about it. Nothing said. I asked him if we were going to do a... (173 words)

I can't get 'wet' anymore. Is this caused my by pill?

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26 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been on the pill for a little over a year. At firs I was fine but for the last like 7 months I've been having problems getting wet during sex. Is it because of the pills. I'm tired of using other forms of lubrication. Please help! Thanks : )... (51 words)

I give my wife everything, but she's always mad at me. What do I do?

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26 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I'am a 24 year old with one kid and a wife but the thing is my wife dont deserves me but i love her and want to give her the world. Shes never has to work and i do my best to get it if i dont have it but i never say no.she all ways mad at me and i give her my all but my all is ... (75 words)

Our sex life has declined. Is it my fault or is he just stressed out?

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26 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 20 and my boyfriend is 21 and we have recently moved to a new city together. He tells me he loves me all the time but never really seems interested in having sex. Everytime I initiate it, he loses his erection half way through sex, it makes me feel horrible. Do you think ... (95 words)

What are signs I could be pregnant? And I'm so worried that he's cheating!

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26 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - alright i havent been on here in months so i have a question 4 evry1 tht can answer it me and my boyfriend have been trying 2 get pregnant since september of 07 and ive been pregnant but it seems as thought i cant carry it and now we've tried having sex 4 a whole month ... (186 words)

One minute I'm crying over him, the next I'm like whatever, I don't care! Help!

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26 September 2008 (F)

- I started talking to this boy last december when i was 18 and he was 17. We became really close talking every minute. Now i should mention he was on an ankle bracklet at the time. Okay so in that January he got locked up and we wrote to each other every week and when he got ... (283 words)

Fight for him back or just move on without him?

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26 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright,my boyfriend just left me for another girl.He gave me no reason why he left me. This girl that he is with now is pregnant by his uncle.I told him that i am pregnant and he told me that he dont care to loose his number. I thought by him knowing i was pregnant he would ... (125 words)

Should I continue dating this new man? I still miss my ex!

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26 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Recently i got dumped by my boyfriend from whom i was in love, and even though i haven't seen him in a month neither talk to him i still miss him. I had lunch this thursday with another guy, he's really nice, a gentelman, he's what people would say a good catch. But i couldn't ... (102 words)

Why is he suddenly ignoring me??

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26 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - What are some reasons a guy would ignore someone (female)? We used to talk nonstop and even hung out just over a week ago and all of a sudden he wont return texts and wont talk to me! I know he does not like me and he has done this before. Why is he acting weird? And what s... (68 words)

Should I write to him although he hasn't replied to my last messages?

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26 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - This guy who's in the military, he's away on a temporary duty. We've being in touch for more than a year and a half. We do it once or twice a month to check on each other. He's finishing his duty at the end of this month. I made a vacation trip so I told him I would write hi... (158 words)

I'm really confused by his behaviour and I don't know what to make of it!! Help!

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26 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been in a long distance relationship just over a year. My track history with relationships is dire so I am not sure how a healthy relationship evolves over time. I loved the honeymoon period of our relationship but that disappeared about 8 months in. ... (696 words)