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30-35,
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writes:Theres two boys,Boy 1: I snogged him at a party, and then afterwards he said he liked me but then ended up getting a girlfriend. (He said he knew her longer thats all) But i was well upset. So he met up with me a few days later as a friend. The converstation was a little dead and we didnt know what to say, Maybe because it was first time we met up and he had a girlfriend. Things arent working with his girlfriend so hes ended things and wants to get with ME. Boy 2 .. Hes been on my myspace for ages, and we go to the same college, so hes like why dont you speak to me at college? And lately we've been talking on msn non-stop, we never get chance to speak in real life becuase we hardy see each other, but when i see him i get all butterflies and stuff .. We both clearly like each other.I like them both. I really want a boyfriend ive never had one, and i really want someone to cuddle. But way things are going, Boy 2 and I will never get a chance to speak properly and meeting up with him would be SO awkward, cause we barely get past - Hey you alrite? So No way!I kinda want to start seeing Boy 1 to see how it goes cause hes everything i want in a relationship at the moment. But i like Boy 2 aswell .. i just dont see him around enough, and im not 100% we will get together to turn Boy1 down!...cause if i do that i'll have nobody, because boys rarely come along for me =[
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2008): I've had another girl consult me over a conflict like this. Personally, I think Boy 2 would be the one you're 'better off' with. Long distance relationships are truly a bond knowing that even though the couple doesn't see eachother often, they continue to hold eachothers memories and good times together even being distanced. Especially if you DO get to see him sometimes! That's great! Just go with it, try not to rehearse speeches or anything silly. It gives you a nervous feeling. Let him know you're happy to see him, it will go smoother after words are conversed. The only reasons I wouldn't choose boy 1 are... If he said he liked you, then got a girlfriend, watch out! Red alert for a 'player' or a guy who is just in it for the experience and not because of the girl. I know, I'm a guy. Good luck with your choice. :) Best Wishes!
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