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How do you tell your girlfriend they're bad at giving oral sex?

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Question - (23 September 2008) 6 Answers - (Newest, 24 September 2008)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

How do you tell your girlfriend they're bad at giving oral sex? I've tried talking to her about it but she kinda got really upset and slapped me a few times and then walked away.

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (24 September 2008):

DoubleM agony auntOk, well do the same thing while you are going down. Stop and start talking just as she starts heating up, or as she nears orgasm. If she complains, well what goes around comes around. LOL

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2008):

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It's she stops, and starts talking to me lol, like where having a walk in the park then she'll start back up and then stop and talk again, and I can never cum like that lol

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (23 September 2008):

DoubleM agony auntWell then, what is so bad about her technique? As the old saying may be applied here, "The worst blow job ever received was wonderful." Well, at least if it were performed to completion. So what is so bad about her attempts? And then I think that you would just suggest some improvements, but as Annalisa recommends, do not tell her that she "is rubbish at it" or anything like that.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2008):

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to answer your question I do give her oral and extreamely well, she always says im the best sex shes ever had, she likes giving oral but didnt like to get it, until I did it the frist time now she loves it.. and she a

orgasm prolly 5 times every time we fool around

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (23 September 2008):

DoubleM agony auntYou provide very little information here, but do you provide oral sex for your girlfriend? If so, do you do it extremely well? Does she orgasm one or more times? If you do not provide clitoral stimulation orally, you could learn how and apply appropriately, then she may be much more likely to return favors with improved techniques.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2008):

Why don't you just direct her in what you like while she's doing it? there's no point being bitchy and telling her she's rubbish as guess what, that just put her off and how she'll suppose to learn from that!

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