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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

We got heavily drunk and now we can't remember anything from that night!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

9 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I was out recently, got heavily drunk and went home with a girl. I have never had sex before and the last thing I remember was sitting on her couch saying “I’m going to go to sleep”. I woke up the next morning on top of her friend’s bed (in her friend’s room), with the buttons ... (222 words)

I don't think I want children anymore but my wife still does. What can I do to solve this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5907 days ago

9 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello. Well where to start. My wife and I have been together for ten years and married 5. When we first started dating we talked about wanting to have children and I really thought that I did want to have kids then. Well long story short my wife is really getting the itch... (361 words)

How should I aproach my crush, who I haven't seen for months, without looking desperate?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3486 days ago

9 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - this time last year i became envolved with someone we wernt official or anything but we were seeing each other for about 8 months i was in love with him but never told him as hes not the type of lad who will settle down. he moved abroad in may and i havent spoke to him but hes ... (104 words)

We broke up a month ago and finding out he may be in a new relationship hurts me so much. What can I do to stop this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

9 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid, My ex boyfriend and I have been broken up for about one month. He basically dumped me because he said we were having problems. We were together for four years. Now I sometimes go on his myspace page ... I guess because I really miss him and its been really hard... (187 words)

Should I tell him I made a mistake for breaking up or should I just try to move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

9 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - seven months ago i broke up with my bf coz he wasnt paying atention 2 me. since then i havent been able 2 date,am stil madly in luv wit him. i think abt him a lot n it is very painful coz i dont think he misses even though he calls me once in a while. shud i tel him i made a ... (75 words)

How should I flirt with him without looking desperate?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5905 days ago

9 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm almost 17 and i never had a relationship before... Now i have a crush on guy that we are on the same class and we' re sitting sometimes together, but i don't know what to do, how to approach him. I'm afraid that i'm gonna make fool of myself. Do you have any ideas how to ... (64 words)

What does it mean when someone kisses you on the head?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

9 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - im gonna explain this in brief, it was a week since i have last seen him, today, we go out a bunch of us, as we are waiting for a friend, for different reasons, the guy i like(and i am starting to think likes me back) get out of the car, then he looks at me,(it was dark but i ... (190 words)

How do I cope with my husband's reaction to my past?

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

9 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I met my husband when I was 17. I told him I was a virgin but I wasn't. Below is the story. Its a bit long but you need to understand the circumstances. Please bear with it I really need some good advice. At just 16, I met a 23 year old guy and the third time I was wit... (880 words)

What's the best way to tell her I fancy her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5910 days ago

9 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - me and my girlfriend split up a few days ago, and now i have a full on crush with one of my girl mates. ive know this girl mate for 2 years she use to date one of my friends but we are both single now, her n her partner split up the same day as me n my girlfriend did. i have ... (91 words)

These girls that hate me for no reason have been filling his head with stuff! What's going on with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

9 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - In order to answer this question, you have to read this one: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-have-no-clue-what-hes-thinking-does.html Okay, today something else happened. A few weeks ago, I wrote a blog on my myspace and there are 4 girls in my school year who HATE... (354 words)

What can I do about the feelings I have for my teacher?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

9 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - well see im not very good or big with emotions but i think i might like one of my jrotc teachers i dont know why but i do and it hurts when he's not teaching that day. please help.... (39 words)

What can I do to solve this love triangle problem?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5916 days ago

9 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - theres is this guy that likes me. but i like his best friend and his best friend and i won't work out because he cares about his friend.. but the guy who likes me won't ever give me up to his friend. what should i do? should i just forget him and let it go? ... (55 words)

How can I aproach this guy and talk to him without sounding desperate?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5916 days ago

9 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - okay.... please help im getting insane ! hahahaha okay, im 16 and i talk to guys .. but not really... people see me as shy when talking to guys... there's this guy tho... he's in my resistance training class and OMG, i like want him soo bad. he's a gorgeous soccer p... (349 words)

Where exactly is my G-spot and what can I do with it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

9 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This is such an embarrassing question... where is my G-spot and how do I use it?... (16 words)

Is it normal to keep on wanting sex but when there's a chance to get it to not want it anymore?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

9 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it normal wanting to have sex constantly .. but then when i see a lad and they try to come onto me i dont want it but even when i mess about with my friends .. (girls) i still dont want it ?? help x... (46 words)

What can I do to stop worrying about my boyfriend's fidelity?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5915 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - Ok well I met this guy.. I fell in love.. Usual stuff really! Well he's been distant with me lately... And he is on holiday and not even texting me... Oh he is in the saem country so he can it is possible... And I know it is also possible that he is just too busy and everything ... (120 words)

What does the phrase "I did love you but I am in love with you" mean to a guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

9 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have heard men say " i do love you but im not in love with you" but what does it mean opposite of that " I did love you but I am in love with you" What does that phrase mean to a guy? ... (45 words)

What are his reasons behind joining this website?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

9 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - i had a child with a man who i not only loved but who i thought wanted to be with me and our daughter as a family. I have found out that after we split up he went on an adult websight and has ticked boxes in which he has said he is looking for couples(man and woman) to have sex ... (165 words)

I've never had an orgasm, but I don't like masturbating... Is there any hope?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5895 days ago

9 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My problem is this - I've never had an orgasm. I've read a lot of tips that advise you to explore and touch yourself, but masturbation really doesn't appeal to me, and the times I've tried have only left me bored and somewhat frustrated. I only ever seem to get aroused wh... (131 words)

What can I do to prevent any accidents during my period?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

9 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - ok this is embaressing but i started having my peroid about 4 months ago and it's been pretty regular but i have no cramps or warining signs so i don't know when or were it will happen and i'm afraid that it might happen while i'm at school so any advice so i don't bleed threw ... (60 words)

Should I tell my sister what her husband did to me when I was younger? Or should I just tell him to stay away from my children?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

9 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - When I was about 11 my sister's husband touched my breasts and asked me if I "want to have some fun and games". I knew instantly that this was wrong and said NO and moved away from him. He then said he was just joking and didnt mean anything by it. I knew then that he wasn't ... (390 words)

She told me she only kissed him but I don't believe her. Should I give her another chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5916 days ago

9 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - i went out for town for the weekend and when i came back my wife said we needed do talk about our relationship. she said she loved me but was not in love with me and had no attraction to me any more. i was shocked and did not see this coming, but it all seemed to sudden a... (360 words)

Am I actually blacking out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5843 days ago

9 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - ok so my mom and me were talking about school and i told her that i can't remeber most of my math class because i was tuneing out. she asked me what i was day dreaming about and i told her that i don't know. see when i tune out i mean i tune out i don't remeber sound, sight and ... (118 words)

Would I do right if I tell her husband about her cheating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5916 days ago

9 September 2008 (M)

age - I am Divorced and live alone, I met a married women in a local pub and asked her to call for a coffee one day when I wa off work, As she was married I was suprised one day when she turned up at my door. We chatted for a while and nothing happened at our first meet, However the ... (213 words)

Am I wrong for feeling upset about him looking at porn?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

9 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know if it's just me or not but i have been with my boyfriend for nearly 9 months and i found out that he was looking at porn on the interent when we first starting dating and a few times after that, I know its normal but it gets me quite upset because we are so happy ... (104 words)

Is this man leading me on or does he really want to meet me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5915 days ago

9 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I am 39 years old and have 3 children, im seperated but i have been chatting to a man in scotland for over 6 months now on the internet. We have spoken on the phone and seen each other on web cam, we talk for hours every night. He has 3 grown up kids and is divorced, he wants ... (164 words)

What can I do to make my periods less heavy and painful?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5915 days ago

9 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hello everyone i have a menstrual problem, im on the rod thing and the pill as well, i had my period for the first time in about a year or so bout 3 weeks ago, ive got them again and alot more heavier and alot more painful, what do you suggest? going off the pill or the rod?... (74 words)

Am I wrong for wanting my own space?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

9 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Right OK. Basically I want to know if I'm right. I feel that my girlfriend of nearly 2 years is expecting way too much from me. We only live across the street, and I'm a very private person who loves their own space. Tonight (but lots of other times aswell), she asks if... (305 words)

Am I just a sex buddy for him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

9 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, Please help me understand what a fuck buddy is and to clarify if my "boyfriend" is actually a fuck buddy. I met him about three months ago and he's been so busy with his work and business. I see him twice a week and sometimes once. Because he finishes work arond t... (239 words)

Is there any point in waiting for her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5916 days ago

9 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Okay, my ex broke up with me to get back with her ex because she said she was confused. She broke up with him recently, but now she tells me that she still cares a lot about me, but she just needs time to be by herself. Thing is, she still wants to talk to me. Is the... (94 words)

My boyfriend would rather be with his friends than me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

9 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years now, we're engaged to get married, anbd we live together. We both work FT jobs. We keep fighting about his friends. He would rather hang out with them then me. He has ditched me on several occasions for his friends and he even left me ... (96 words)

He has been looking at porn since I got pregnant! How do I aproach him about this issue?

This question has 42 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

9 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and I have been married for just over a year. We dated for four years before deciding to get married. We seemed to be on the same page about all the big decisions, including having children young. I am now almost 6 months pregnant. I have recently discovered that ... (367 words)

What can I do about this boy who likes me? I just see him as a friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5916 days ago

9 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi aunts and uncles! i have a really bad 'crush' issue!!! its a total mega cringeeee. right i used to fancy this boy but i found out he had a girlfriend and i got over him that was a while ago and recently ive started to like this other lad. but now i have just found out that... (140 words)

Could I possibly be pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

9 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi im 18 years old and bout 4 days ago me and my boyfriend had sex and he injected in me 3 times in a row and today i been feel kinda weird like my stomach feels like its getting tight every now and than and my breast been hurting a little and i been feeling kinda sick on the ... (102 words)

Is the tingling feeling in my penis normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

9 September 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - Im 11 and last week i started getting a tingling feeling in my penis and it makes me really horny. It happens 2 or 3 times a day,normaly when i wake up. any ideas why its happening. im not saying that i want it to go away cuz it feels really good but i just want to figure out ... (63 words)

I'm afraid that if I choose one of them, the other one will get hurt! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

9 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - This boy says he realy likes me and i realy like him but this other says he likes me and i like him aswell i dont know what to do!!! if i go out with one boy its going to hurt the other boys feelings!!!! what shall i do??... (51 words)

Is it wrong to feel that "someday" I will be with him when I'm already married?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

9 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for 6 years. We have 5 boys (from different marriages). We love each other. Recently I met up with a past love and rekindled feelings, plus more. We know that I can't and don't want to divorce, but I really love this other man. He has no kids, never ... (138 words)

Should I confront my boyfriend about what he did to me while I was drunk?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

9 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Last weekend I got drunk on my boyfriend's farm. I remember very little execpt for the part where I think he raped me. I remember being in the bathroom and him coming in behind me and making me lay on the floor. I told him I wanted to go back outside, but he wouldn't let me go. ... (146 words)

How can I become more active during sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

9 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everybody i was just hoping for some advice for a really embarrassing situation im in so here goes... ive been together with my partner for about 8 months and he was the first one that i gave my virginity to and it was a really big thing for me to give up though i did for... (144 words)

What can I do about this person who is trying to blackmail me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

9 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Ok I'm a married bad girl. I've cheated on my husband 6 times over the last 4 years. I know I am wrong and I know I am bad. I've had intercourse with one of those people, the others I've just fooled around with and the last one that I’ve fooled around with I’ve also sent pic... (676 words)

How can I get rid off the feelings I have for my first love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5915 days ago

9 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I dont suppose anyone could give me any productive advice on my situation but here I am trying anyway.... There was a boy who I went to school with who I had a crush on for the longest time I could remember. When we went to secondary school, long story short my mum met his d... (650 words)

Does this mean I'm addicted to masturbation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

9 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Recently i discovered the joy of masterbating and the truth is that it has been great. However, i have been doing it a lot, sometimes 3-4 times a day, and when i have the oppurtunity to do it but it is inappropriate(e.g at home doing work) i find i am being completley ... (105 words)

My boyfriend's friends don't like me! How do I talk to him about this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5916 days ago

9 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some advice on what to do about my boyfriends friends. When we first got together they kept saying things about me including his brother. I didn't let this get to me to much but one day it just really upset me and I cried in school. My boyfriend never said anything to ... (163 words)

Are my lack of emotions getting out of hand?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

9 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Is my lack of emotion getting out of hand? I'm younger and in the military, no I have not been to the desert, but I was in the meditteranean if that helps. But ive been married for about 5 months now, I knew my wife for about a year. Im still getting used to things, having a ... (241 words)

Have I ruined my sister's life by having sex with her? I know I have a psychological problem.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

9 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a psychological problem, but i cant come out of it. I'm 33 yrs old unmarried. I've a sister who is 25. From last year I developed a strong sexual desire for her. It started accidentally. One day I saw her doing kitchen work, wearing a mini-skirt that revealed her ... (144 words)

I feel my husband and I have drifted apart even though he treats me well!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

9 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with married for 1 year and together for 5 years with my husband and I don`t think I`m in love with him anymore. He is a great guy and treats me good most of the time, its just I don`t really feel it for him anymore. I just feel that we`ve totally drifted apart ... (148 words)

I'm pregnant and in despair! Is there help for our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5915 days ago

9 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Well ive been dating this guy about a year. And about three months ago i found out i was pregnant. Things were going good. Well he suddenly wanted to start going out with his friends and then recently his ex fling has started having contact with him. And then more recently is ... (215 words)

How do you get close to someone when they don't even know who you are?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5915 days ago

9 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - helloooo well i kinda have this mini crush on this lad, i dont know him at all so its kinda lust at the mo but i suppose im curious about him, you know when you have the feeling you just want to be close to them or speak to them or something well i have that all the time whe... (133 words)

Can you help me choose between these two guys???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5914 days ago

9 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Just so you know i don't like to use names so the two people i'm talking about will be M and B. Well ok i have like this guy for a while named M when he calls my house my heart melts, when he sends me a message my heart beats out of my chest but there is a couple things i... (212 words)

Any advice about going through my periods??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

9 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, I started my periods a while ago and it was really hard telling my mum but i did eventually ive started again for the second time and i dont really wanna go though telling her again. I'm not close to my mum. She has stocked me up with thousands of pads and stuff so its... (111 words)

Should I give him the time he asks for although I really want to marry and have kids??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5916 days ago

9 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship for just over a year. We have known eachother longer for nearly a year and a half, but came together just a year or so ago. Although the relationship was long distance at first, we made time to see each other always, on all possible occassions. ... (432 words)

How can I break-up with him while remaining friends??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

9 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a boyfriend and we've been best mates since primary. The problem is that i want to break up with him, but want to stay best friends. I'm afraid that if we do break up, it could jeopardize our friendship. What should i do? ... (47 words)

He told his girlfriend what I said to him! What do I do now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

9 September 2008 (F)

age - This guy at work and I were attracted to each other. So as to cut thru the crap I came out and told him that I wanted to have sex with him, which we never did. Now he has a girlfriend (she works there too) and I think he told her what I said to him - how horrible!! Of ... (107 words)

Just gave birth and my partner bailed to his ex, is he cheating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5916 days ago

9 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently given birth to my first child 9weeks ago, my man went to prison when i was 4months pregnant and was only just released. He was bailed out to his ex girlfriends house who he also has a child with because i currently had 2 move in with my mum. Im now worried he is ... (134 words)

Does he just want me to chase him? I'm getting crazy mixed signals...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

9 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Here is the deal.. recently going through seperation we have 2 wonderful kids. I am not used to meeting guys and the whole dating thing. I met this guy 10 months ago.. he came into my life and went out. I just really was unsure as to starting over with someone new yet. Well ... (446 words)

Does missing my ex mean I should break up with my new boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

9 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I was in a relationship with my boyfriend, my first love, for almost 5 years. We were in the same elementary school and high school. In fact we were classmates the whole of high school. We started out as good friends. We have a lot of similar interests and likes. We had a lot ... (323 words)

Retroactive Jealousy: how do I overcome it?

This question has 69 answers - newest was posted 4339 days ago

9 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Right, so I am not even really sure how to start this. Basically, I suffer from what many other men (and few women) seem to suffer from as well. Retroactive Jealousy, or "her past"... Its horrible, its utterly disturbing and self destructive. I have done so much to try to ... (961 words)

How can I tease my boyfriend?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

9 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i need your help on this one, how can i tease my bf, i am new at this...and at this, he always finds a way to tease me by pulling my hair or pinching me slightly, but i can never seem to do so myself, i mean i return a pinch,, but what more else can i do, i want him to feel ... (67 words)

Hubby complains that I am not active during sex! What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

9 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband of 5 years and I have a good sex life. BUT, he complains that i don't ever do anything during sex. He just gives me my oral and he gets on top then we're done. Honestly, I feel like I put some motion in it, but, he says "i love it, I just wished you would do ... (110 words)

Not bleeding after first time sex, is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

9 September 2008 (M) age 36-40 - Having sex for the first time and not bleeding is that normal????... (12 words)

I am feeling like a FOOL!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5908 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) age 51-59 - A long distance relationship for the past 8 months; how foolish! I believed and hoped; yes, I wanted to believe that all will be well and that he will come to visit as promised and arranged for the last month. However, like so many times the past 6 months, always excuse... (279 words)

How do I convince him that he's not a horrible person and we can still be friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5916 days ago

9 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been going out with this guy for about 6 months now...I could see myself being happy with him for the rest of my life... but we are both graduating college soon and I plan on leaving the country, so it probably isn't going to work. The point of this post is that I r... (131 words)

Any ideas on how to help her enjoy intercourse? And stop it from hurting her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

9 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been dating my girlfriend for over a year and we have been intimate for over half of that. Things are going wonderfully in all aspects except one. Whenever we have intercourse it hurts her, a lot. The last time we did it, by the time I orgasmed she was crying. I've ... (140 words)

Too much competition for her, do I stand a chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

9 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hey im great freinds with her but i know my other freind is trying to get her to like him aswell the thing is i have her number i gave it to him now hes texting her all the time and I'm not we just talk a little bit on the internet and I know i like her but I'm too scared to ... (125 words)

I'm worried about our future sex life, my penis and her vagina are not a great fit!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

9 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend states she is very satisfied with our sex life, and I am too, but I am worried about the future as we are considering a long-term relationship. I have a modest penis, nothing I'm ashamed of but definitely on the smaller end of normal, and I feel like it's not a ... (308 words)

I'm in love but wondering if it's a right choice to be with this man

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5916 days ago

9 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy when I was 17 and he was 17 also. We had already graduated we started living together and after a year I got pregnany. We both cared about each other alot and were both ready to take on the responsibility of a child. One night when I was 3 months pregnant.... (197 words)

Triangle of love... I've become involved with my stepdaughter after her mother left, saying she could not live with me and my 12 year old daughter...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5916 days ago

9 September 2008 (M)

age - This is the picture.I am 56 my partner 53 My 4 year relationship with my partner has suffered a major set back after over 1 year of arguments and disputes regarding the attitude between my 12year old child and my partner so much so that my partner has left the home stating ... (361 words)

My girlfriend just wants to be friends now. How do I get her back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

9 September 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - i had a girlfreind who just wants to be freinds now. i wana be more then that what should i do ... (23 words)

Do you think he means what he says? Do you think I'm going to lose him??? Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

9 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have known this lad for 5 months.. it doesnt seem that long but it feels like it's been forever .. the other night we was sat in his house and we was having a drink and just talking and having a little kiss and that .. but he stopped and i was sat down, and he come over to me ... (212 words)

I'm sick of the cliches and find life pretty dire.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5906 days ago

9 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I am going to be honest, life is something I've never been a fan of. I'm nearly 20 now and so far my life has been pretty dire. I was never the popular person at school, the truth was it took me a bit more effort than most people to get passing grades, I was a hard worker. I ... (494 words)

Should my sister take him back?

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9 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - my sister was in love with a boy for 2 years. then, they breaked up. he now lives in other city. for some time he comes here. he has a girlfriend there. he still says to my sister that we will patch up. but my sister doesn't understand what to do. he calls up my sister always. ... (104 words)

I love him, he loves another. Now another boy likes me, what do I do?

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9 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - i am in school. i love a boy from the first day of school. after 6 or 7 months i came to know that he loves my best friend. i don't know that if she loves him or not. but i still love him. recently a boy proposed me. i too like that boy, but as a very good friend. what shou... (69 words)

How close should I be as a friend?

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9 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy said he liked me. then said he didn't. i found out it was cause of another girl. we're still good friends. but now he's dating the other girl. how close should i be as as friend?... (46 words)

She kissed another guy? Should I forgive her?

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9 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been going out with a girl for 2 months now, but i have recently found out that at the very beginning of our relationship, she kissed another guy. She was very drunk and couldn't even remember it, her friend had to tell her. Should i ever take her back??... (51 words)

Twosome that became dissapointing threesomes...

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9 September 2008 (F)

age - I am a middle aged woman with a married girlfriend (I have known her before she got married) we like to party and her hubby don’t mind at first it was only her and I satisfying each other, her hubby has known about us before they got married and he loved watching us. The last ... (150 words)

I have a girlfriend but want to be with my cousin?

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9 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I am 27yrs old guy i am very much atracted towards my cousin who is 17yrs old. Every time i see her i feel to make love with her.I have a girlfriend and we have sex when ever we get a chance. But then also when ever I see my cousin i dont know what happens to me. Even though my ... (126 words)

My husband still contacts this fmale friend after he promised not to!

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9 September 2008 (F)

age - I found out my hubby had a female 'friend' and although he says nothing happened ever, I overheard him discussing her with his brother. Also I found other overwhelming evidence that he was infact having an affair with her. We went for counselling, and all things seemed to be ... (192 words)

He has so many pictures of him and this other girl - what should I do?

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9 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all, So I've been dating my present boyfriend for almost one year, I'd say maybe just around a month off from it. I'm 19, hes 20. Anyways, I recently stumbled upon pictures of him and this other girl, its not any inappropriate picture, but its just the amount of photos t... (296 words)

My girlfriend claims she was raped - but I think she just cheated on me!

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9 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend left this guy who was father to her daughter her sister told her I cheated on her and she tried to sleep with hime but he forced himself on her and she was drunk I didn't belive he forced himself on her I though it was just an excuse so the whole most of the ... (134 words)

How can I stop gagging when giving Blow Jobs?

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9 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband and I have been married for over a year now. He REALLY likes it when I give him a blow job...my only problem is I gag. I cant help it, it's not the fact that his cock is in my mouth, it's the fluids...even just pre-cum. For some reason everytime I taste any fluids I ... (72 words)

Should I wait for him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

9 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 15.I asked out a guy in my year 6 weeks ago. he said he probly would go out with me, but he doesn't feel ready to go out with someone yet. I'm sorta stuck now. I still want to go out with him, but asking him out again would be weird. I see him every day at school, we're... (74 words)

Caught up in lies and deceit.....how do I come clean??

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9 September 2008 (F)

age - I am bordering on desperation, I have read the articles on your site, my situation is at this stage hopeless, I am so caught up in deceit, lies and cheating I don’t know how to come clean. I’m 46 married to my hubby for 28 years he is 60 years old. Approximately 8 years ag... (549 words)

Is masturbation a sin?

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9 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a christian who masterbates. I want to know whether masterbation is a sin or not. please help.... (20 words)

Can anyone give me some advice on teasing, please?

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9 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've got a girlfriend (I am agirl as well) And I'd like some tips on how to tease her, I'm afraid I'm a little inexperienced in that feild.... (28 words)

Is there anyway to have a secret relationship? all I'm worried about is her dad finding out!

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9 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been seeing this girl for 4 months now and currently we have broken up cause of her parents. We love each other so much. Is there like anyway to have a secret relationship?All i'm worried about is her dad finding out.... (43 words)

We never manage to have a real conversation....is he interested??

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9 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've known this guy since I was in sophomore year of high school, and when I say known I mean we knew each other as "friendly acquaintances". We went to different high schools and I was always, and still am, the quiet and unsure girl. I knew him through our church and around ... (385 words)

My bfs family think I was cruel to my ex....was I wrong??

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9 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I was with this guy for two and a half years, we lived together throughout the whole relationship and hardly spent any time apart except when we went to work. He treated me quite badly at times and I began to get very resentful - he'd come home with marks on his shirt and with ... (557 words)

I want to move out and have a baby with my bf...how do I go about this???

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9 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 15 years old, I live with my mom and 14 year old sister. I have been with my 17 year old boyfriend for six months now, and he wants me to move in with him and he and I want to have a baby. We both feel ready for this. And I know its a big responsibility to have a baby at ... (188 words)

How do I conquer my fears before they conquer my relationship?

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9 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This is so similar to the way i feel. Im extremley jealous of my boyfriends ex, not to mention im the jealous type period. They were together on and off since 5th grade (currently 21). They accomplished soo much together. They went to their proms together, graduated, he play... (743 words)

My breasts have been hurting since we had sex, is that a sign of pregnancy?

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9 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend had sex three days ago, and he injected in me three times, today my breasts have been hurting a little but not much. Is that a sign of pregnancy? somebody please help me.... (39 words)

Did I do the right thing by telling on him?

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9 September 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I have a guy friend who trust me with everything also he gets in trouble a lot! One day when I got to school, I found out that some of windows had broken with a baseball bat. Well, he told me he hates the school and he did it. I couldn't handle the guilt knowing people are havi... (113 words)

I am having a hard time letting go of a guy who used and abused me, I have a new boyfriend, but I keep thinking about the jerk, when will I get over him?

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9 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, first of all thanks to anyone who responded to my last question about being a jilted person w/a crush. If you did not see it, you may want to read that first...but,from you all and my friends I learned that I was used, abused and walked all over by someone I wanted so badly ... (191 words)

My boyfriend doesn't seem to want to be intimate anymore!

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9 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok story goes like this.. I been with my boyfriend for about 15 months. At first he put me on a pedestal, he called me "His earth angel" sex was fun, loving was fun, and the care and respect i got from him was beautiful. However this last month or so, we bicker over st... (192 words)

What should I do if my family finds out that I still love the guy who broke my heart?

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9 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been dating this guy and he cheated on me, and my family knows and they hate him...but i still love him with all my heart no matter what anybody says. im not desparate or pathetic i just know who i really love. but my question is if my family finds out...what should i do!?... (55 words)

Should I consider his odd behavior as cheating?

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9 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Is this considered cheating? Or am i overreacting? This guy I like/liked and have a past with still talks to me a lot even though he used me and lied to me while seeing other girls. Now he has a new girlfriend but she moved to another province for school. Im still here thoug... (160 words)

I'm undesided on what kind of relationship I want with this guy...

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9 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - OK, so I don't know where I stand on this guy. He told me he liked me, we cuddled and got touchy at one point, but then this past weekend I pretty much gave him the idea that I wasn't really interested. Now I'm not so sure. He's like one of my guy friends and he's sweet but I ... (132 words)

My best friend knows I love him but I'm confused about his feelings for me!

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9 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Well, I've been real confused lately, and i'm not sure what to do. . .usually I'm the one who gives the advice, but right now I'm at a loss. . . First off, I'm bi, I didn't know until just a few years ago, and I've only just recently accepted it. . .I'm also a guy. . . An... (446 words)

My ex want to have dinner with me but he already has a girlfriend!

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9 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Ex once asked if I want to have dinner with him and his new girlfriend. I refused. yestoday I received his sms asking if i would like to have dinner with him for my birthday couple of days after and just him and I. I refuse him saying not want to make his girlfriend unhappy ... (120 words)

Does he really like me or is it just too much too soon and too good to be true?

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9 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I went to Spain recently on holiday and have met a man that I could really fall in love with. After having a string of negative possessive relatiosnhips and also having a very unaffectionate family background it was a breath of fresh air for me as I didnt think it was possible ... (354 words)

He suddenly cut me off from his life! I thought we had something special and I'm deeply hurt!

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9 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - How do you deal when a friend w/benefits breaks-up with u via email and gives no reason. I'm in a world of hurt? Is it normal for me to feel depressed, suicidal, and devastated being dumped over email with no explanation? I dont date a lot. I'm very picky. My friend w... (517 words)

Why do I want to stay with this guy even though he cheats?

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9 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - so ok i know this is bad i mean real bad but ive dated this guy for a long time....but after our anniversary i found out he was cheating on me, and i know theres the phrase once a cheater always a cheater but i still love him alot and me and him and kinda dating not really but ... (98 words)

I have a bf but I'm in love with my ex bf! What should I do?

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9 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - [moderator's note: Next moderator, I believe this question was previously accepted but I couldn't find it anywhere. Probably you'll find it? If not just accept. Thanks] I am 16 and i am in love with an ex. When i was 14 I met him,he was 16 and rather gorgous. We went out for... (339 words)

Should my girlfriend accept all my flaws or should I change for her to prove my love?

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9 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey there aunts and uncles of Dear Cupid. I have a sort of problem from an argument i had yesterday with my girlfriend. She said that if i really loved her i should/would want to change some aspects of my behaviour to make her happy, but i argued that if she really loved me ... (132 words)

Why would my friend ignore me completely?

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9 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, this isn't exactly someone I love. Actually, I'm not sure how I feel about him... Let me cut to the chase. I have this friend... Let's call him "Bob". Well, Bob and I went through a rough period a few months before school ended, but things got better about a month be... (273 words)

I met some sex people at a Cancun club and can't get it out of my head!

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9 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - So about a week ago while in Cancun on vacation with a friend I was at Cocobongo when this very attractive woman gave me a stare from across the room. This is when I should have known something was up, after all there were about 2,500 people in this club and I had the eye from ... (726 words)

I'm sick of my life ever since I told people I'm gay.

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9 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay-This doesn't have much to do with relationships like love or anything... I just need help Ever since people found out that I was a lesbian I've felt completely left out of everything surrounding me. I feel so alone and hated. My best friend and I dont even talk much a... (299 words)