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female
age
41-50,
*hilpa
writes:hi..i m shilpa...i am married now for 8 months...he is is 26 yrs holdand i am 34 yrs we liked each other n got married after knowing each other for a month and he is aware of my age ... my parents know we got registered marriage but his parents are not aware of it...he is never interested in sex.. never shows interest in any thing i ask him.. he says he loves me but i feel he never respects me and always neglects me...why is he doing this to me?? he does't want to sleep with me.. he likes to have sex once in a month .. or once in fort night .. i dont know the reason behind that.. he lies a lot to me.. when i find out he tells sorryi will not repeat i love u etc... again he does it next day and i get to know one or other way.what should i do???? please advice.. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2008): Any successful marriage is based on trust. It seems there is very little trust in yours because you cannot trust him to tell you the truth about whatever it is he lies about.
He is not keeping you happy in the bedroom which makes it worse.
I don't see much of a future for your marriage unless he makes some big changes. Firstly he needs to be totally honest with you about everything and he needs to take your needs into account, which he is not doing at the moment.
If he does not change I think you will be ready for a divorce very soon. Perhaps you would be happier living on your own for a time?
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