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writes:I think I blew this date. Can I get some feedback?I met him briefly when I was hanging out with a bunch of other people. He later found me on facebook and we exchanged fun messages until he asked me on a date. We went and seemed like it was going well, dinner then movie and after he asked if I wanted to continue the date. I had work the next day so I said I would like to for a bit longer. We hung out in his apartment talking for the next hour and we had our legs intertwined on the couch while he rubbing my calf while we talked. We decided it was getting late and as soon as we got outside I realized I forgot my scarf. He started to unlock all the locks and I felt really guilty. So I said, "Am I going to see you again?" He said, "Yeah, of course." So I replied I could just get my scarf then. Then he said, "Wait actually I'm going to get your scarf now." This is where I think the date changed. I waited outside he had it wraped around his neck. I went to take it off from around his neck and he moved closer. I thought he might want to kiss I wasn't sure and pulled back because I felt shy there were people around. He droped me off at my house and he just stared at me in silence. I said I had a good time there was more silence and then I awkwardly got out the care and said, "I guess you could call me later."I don't date ever I just seem to get boyfriends but not date traditionally and I am CONFUSED! Did I blow it or was it going bad and I had no clue. Its been 4 days and not a word from him. Should I even bother asking for a second date this coming weekend?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSo I did what my friends and you guys suggested. On thursday, I sent him a txt asking if he was free this weekend. The next evening he wrote me back saying he possibly because he had a paper but he was interested on what I was doing. So I left him know that I was thinking of swinging by his place with a movie. Hours later and very late at night he sends one back saying he had to go to a birthday and that we should "do that at some point."
This is kind of reminiscent of the first time we went on a date. He told me three different days he was free if I'd like to hand out with him. I said Saturday (one of the days he listed) and that day he wrote me message he couldn't do it but wanted a rain check. We went on that date I wrote about and now this.
I got fed up and txted back that "some point" didn't work for me and he could have a nice weekend. I don't know what this guys deal was but thanks for all your advice.
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