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writes:Right, i'm 14, and really, really confused. i have this amazing boyfriend who lives in the town next to me, he's 15. i see him on weekends, but recently i've developed a loving for a boy at my school, and i love them the same amount. i really dont want to break up with my boyfriend but i'd love a shot with this other guy. I've heard this other guy likes me too, and he walked me home today, even though he lives in the opposite direction - who do i go for?!! Reply to this Question
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reader, n00dl35  +, writes (23 September 2008):
 well if you really like your boyfriend then stay with him. but if you're going to go and like this other boy then break up with your boyfriend because you're only hurting him by liking another boy, but if you continued to be with him and still liked this other boy, that would hurt him so much more. you have to decide on your own. go for the one that you think is right for you.. it's all your own decision so no one else can tell you what to do. good luck.
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reader, Dony.J +, writes (23 September 2008):
 i remember myself in your possision, its very confusing and you might find yourself feeling guilty or even mad at yourself because you have feelings for both lads.
what i did was leave everything as it is for now, then you keep a close eye on both guy's to see which one treats you better, or which one you feel more confortable with? its very important to be with someone that you are happy with, otherwise you find yourself getting a tad depressed.
if you think you really love your boyfriend you were trying to fool yourself into doing so. if you seriously did love him you wouldnt find yourself in this situation.
i hope my advice helps
xxx
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reader, Beybii_Boo +, writes (23 September 2008):
 hey babes
i dunno babe its ur choice yea but whos the sweetest who is going to be there 4 u all the time . and who is going to be there wen u really really need them. maybe u should go for this boy at your choice but it comes from your heart no one elses
just follow your heart babes
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2008): You just have to choose who you want to be with now... you can't have them both, so as hard as it is, you need to choose.
I'm sure if you thing about it enough you will realize that you do like one of them more than the other. And whoever that may be, do what you want to.
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