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female
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30-35,
*enxleigh
writes:hey guys im 17 , a junior. I had a boyfriend for a full year we were in love , with eachother 24/7 . i was so comfortable with him. this sumer i went off to camp and that runied everything. when i got back things just were not the same. we drifted apart and mutualy ended things. on his birthday which was early september i went to his house and we spoke about everything. we weren't going out, but we had sex and everything was good! the next day he decided he couldn't do it and needed space. i have never been so hurt in my life, and miss someone so much. He actually hated me, he told me all i will be good for in life is sex, im a slut, and everything so rude!. for like 4 weeks i had to deal with nothing, talking to him or anything , he had so much hatred toward me. i cried everynigh, i was so depressed. yesterday i decided to text him tellling him i had good news cause i decided i was gonna stay home and not go to college. Cause i thought that might of been one of the reasons he was scared to get back with me, (hes on a junior) so i told him the news, his dog passed away yesterday so he was not in the best mood. i told him EVERYTHING i felt like sent him so many paragraphs . i was so shocked he actually told me i can come over for a little!, and he also, for the last couple weeks been telling everyone how he hates me so much he hates who i am etc. so i went over lastnight, he came in my car and it was very emotional at first but then he told me it was okay. we were both crying to eachother.we had sex again. after i left he texted me saying we were gonna be good friends and he doesnt want to rush into anything else. now heres my problem today hes texting me like so flirty as if we were going out again, hes like calling me old nicknames we had for eachother and everything. i just dont know what to do.i dont know if hes gonna hurt me again and is just like using me now for a booty call cause he says he justs wants to be good friends. any advice?!
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reader, L VIC  +, writes (24 September 2008):
you guys need to work things out dont give him that booty on till he ask you out again thats the rule other wise find you another guy that really give you happiness not sadness i guy that can make you feel wanted not like that dude belive it there is so many guys looking for girls like you dont worry girl be happy sex is not all that in a relationship remember that
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2008): Yes, he's just using you for a booty call. He should not be putting you down. Go find another boyfriend and forget this guy. Go to college, there are lots of guys there who are decent.
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