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writes:[What is a frienemy??]Latley i've been talking to this guy who lives in another contry. He's my frienemy and he makes me happy with his jokes and his all around prsonality. He is ten years older than me, and i'm 13! but i feel like i'm beginning to get a crush on him . . . what should i do? he's really nice, but never has he asked me for any personal info, so he isn't stalking me.Help??
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2008): You r only 13 babe, you are too young for a relationship with a 23 year old man! It would be against the law for anything to happen between you 2, he could be a peodophile grooming you so be careful.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionA frienemy is sort of a word i made up. I first talked to him through dibating over something he hated and i loved. So he's kind of both my friend-and-enemy.
Lol and i never ever ever would met him like that . . . its just that, he's 23 and im 13 . . . and i didn't know weither theres some law against it. I know there isn't but it would have been good to get advise anyways.
Thank you :)
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reader, dollparts  +, writes (23 September 2008):
 Please Please Please do not meet this man, Like every one else said he could be a lot different person then what he says he is, he could be 45 for all you know, believe me I've had my fair share of creeps on the net. I know we sound like we're nagging you but its cause we care we don't want you to turn out like that Jessica and Hollie. If you have a crush thats fine, just don't act on it, you know? Have fun talking to him but don't meet him or ever plan to. Don't do anything about it. If you want to talk just message me :)
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reader, TELLULAH  +, writes (23 September 2008):
 Babe,
I was only watching an item on TV the other morning, where a girl of 14 years old met a guy who was 21 years old on the internet. She ran away from home to meet him, because she thought she was in love. Darling he turned out to be 37 YEARS OLD. He had spent almost a year grooming her to meet him, then got her to leave her famly and fly abroad with him. He also lived in another counrty (America) she lived in England. Please do not give away any details to a man you never met over the internet.
If you value your life please! please! listen to me and the other Aunts. This man is to old, and you should have nothing more to do with him. Crush or no crush....
XXX
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reader, LaydeeLove..x +, writes (23 September 2008):
i know this is going to be hard to accept but you should not be getting a crush on him he could be a 60 year old man who is trying to sweet talk you. do you remember them hollie and jessica girls they got murdered because they met that man. if he asks for any of your details do not give them to him, and try and stop liking him in that way and find a nice local boy from school or whatever, who knows, you will proberly find you will have a crush on them. trust me its alot safer, maybe if he was local and alot younger - about your age, then yeah. get a adult and meet up with him, but not at your age and espcially if you do not know who this person is, and he proberly already has a girlfriend or a wife and kids.its very dangerous x Take Care x
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2008): do nothing, he's ten years older, plus lives in another country (are you sure, he could be lying) anyways, get crushes on the guys in school.XxXx
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reader, J_M +, writes (23 September 2008):
 OMG. i cant believe wt im reading!
UR 13 AND TALKIN TO STRANGERS ONLINE! AND GETTIN FRIENDLY WITH THEM!
actually, its kind of funny. rediculous is another word.
how many people do u know who have met online and fallin in love? proper love?
ok, so ur 13, gettin a crush is fine, in fact its kinda expected of u, but i really dont think talkin to strangers online at 13 is good. and if hes 10 years older then u! well bloody hell! maybe hes not lookin for "that" kind of relationship? maybe its more of a farthering thing? or a pervy thing? really, keep away from him i say! how about a footballer or celeb to have a crush on 4 a while. or even the boy next door?
dont do anything u wouldnt be ashamed to tell ur mother about!
hope i helped, and soz if it sounded like i was 100 years old
J_M
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