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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I don't know what to do about my online relationship...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5921 days ago

3 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, i met this girl on an online game and we decided to chat on msn, then we really liked eachother and we are now in a relationship but i feel bad about it because we have never met and she lives really far away, i dont no what to do... (51 words)

It seems that our relationship is being tested every time. How do we rebuild it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5804 days ago

3 September 2008 (F) - me and my partner have been together for 4 yrs engaged for 2 yrs. he has a daughter from a previous relationship which is fine and we hav our own little family. recently though he found out he has a son from 10 yrs ago i knew there was a possibility but i can't help feeling ... (106 words)

How can I show him I want to move up into our relationship without freaking him out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5922 days ago

3 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a good male friend - I would say our relationship is somewhere between friends and lovers. We only see each other occasionally, although I see him as part of my work at least once a week. Last year he needed me more because he was coming out of a bad divorce amongst ... (133 words)

The woman he cheated on me with got pregnant but we're not sure that they are his!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5922 days ago

3 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Well my story started inJan. 2008 when my husband told me he had cheated on me once in Dec 15th 2007.. I was just devasted. I have been with him for 9 yrs. we have a 7 yr old son together and i just love my family so much.. Well, he said he only did it once and it made him... (254 words)

What can I do to get things back to normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5922 days ago

3 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I seriously liked this boy and we sadly had sex when we were drunk in the holiday and now we have barely spoken around school since we got back. I really want things to go back to normal and not be awkward but can't stop thinking about what we did. What can i do? ... (54 words)

Is it normal to not get orgasms during sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5921 days ago

3 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! I am 19 years old and since i was 16 i am having sex. I have experienced a lot of sex and generally i think i am good at it. My only problem is that i cant come. The only way i come in sex and i really mean the ONLY way is when me or the other one plays with my clitoris. ... (163 words)

What are some ideas regarding exercise if you enjoy being active but the gym bores you to death?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5922 days ago

3 September 2008 (F) age 41-50 - I would like to lose weight because although people don't think of me as fat, I am very self conscious about my appearance. I would like to have a nice figure, but I'm afraid that I'm nearing that age where it's impossible to lose weight. My thighs, and chest, just gross me ... (100 words)

I fear that if I say "no" to his advances that he will leave me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5922 days ago

3 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so, I've been going out with this amazing guy for almost 7 months. He is my first real boyfriend. I love him more than anything. But, I just found out a few months ago that he wants to..."explore the south" as in the sexual kind of way if you know what I mean. I honestly ... (135 words)

Is it normal to fantasize about other men when you're in a healthy relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

3 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive been with my boyfriend for 3 1/2 years and he treats me really well. Im 21 and he is 25. The only problem is that i sometimes dream and think about having sex with other men, i really dont know why this is. We have a healthy sex life so its not like im not getting sex so ... (82 words)

I feel that if he gets a new phone he's going to hide things from me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5922 days ago

3 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - For some reason I have some weird insecurities. Me and my boyfriend have lived together for the past 8 months and I love it we do almost everything together - because we enjoy all the same things and we have alot of fun doing all those things. Problem is because of my ex I feel ... (170 words)

When did you first have a boyfriend/girlfriend - that actually lasted a few months?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5912 days ago

3 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Poll: When was the first time you had a relationship, and what age did you have your first kiss? I'm not talking about a peck on the cheek or peck on the lips type of kiss, I mean a toungue kiss? And when did you first have a boyfriend/girlfriend - that actually lasted a few mo... (73 words)

How do I get over the fact that my boyfriend is best friends with his ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5907 days ago

3 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am into a relationship with someone. I am madly in love with him and so does he love me. The problem is my bfs ex. They were into a relationship for quite a long while. This was long ago. Later they got over it and became good friends and still are friends. (... (258 words)

She trusted me with information about this other guy, but it's got to me, because she doesn't know that I love her.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5918 days ago

3 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello Dear Cupid, I'm in a bit of a dhialemma. I absolutely LOVE this girl, we have SO much in common, but, she likes someone that is basically a 10 year older version of me, and looks a little different, but that's not the point :P She trusted me with information about this p... (292 words)

Do you think my friend and I should confront him about him going red etc.?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5922 days ago

3 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 14 and i really like this guy who is 15 and is in the year above at school. I've known him since we were in primary school. I've liked him for a few years now and i think i love him. ( Do not say that because im 14 i can't be in love) Last September/October he found ou... (360 words)

I want to be able to feel that passion again since my miscarriage. It seems like I'm the one who's making all the first moves.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5922 days ago

3 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a happily married women who went through a miscarriage a few months ago. My body has taken a while to get back on track but I'm finally there. Ever since the miscarriage my husband has been worried about causing 'problems' for me if we have sex (Initially after misc... (212 words)

All I want is for my boyfriend to be happy. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5922 days ago

3 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all, I am going out with this guy and am madly in love him and so is he. We are very happy together. We have some common friends. But they are closer to him than i am - they are his best friends. The reason being for me being distant from them is that, we had some tiffs i... (250 words)

Should I buy some flowers or something for when I meet up with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5922 days ago

3 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, Following on from the question about the piece of music I wrote for the girl I'm meeting Freshers' week and have flirted a bit with (should have mentioned it was an instrumental). We actually have agreed to meet before then. Next week sometime - I suggested we hav... (264 words)

Is it normal that I think about sex all the time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5917 days ago

3 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hello, I am 17 years old and I have had about 6 sexual partners, but I have had a boyfriend for about 6-7 months now, and he does it better than all of my other boyfriends put together (could be a reason some were in 10th grade at the time while me being in 8-9th grade, etc.) ... (243 words)

Why would she have sex with someone else the day after she had sex with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5922 days ago

3 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - befor me and my girl friend whent out we were haveing sex one day we had sex the next day she had sex with some oneelce then she came back an had sex with me. why would she have sex with some one else the day after we did? she said she liked me an she new i liked her. but then ... (154 words)

Do I have genital herpes or am I just being a hypochondriac?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

3 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been looking online aat my symptoms and fear I may have genital herpes. I have small painful bumps on the inside of my vaginal lips. They don't seem like blisters and haven't popped like the website said they would. Also I have gotten sick and it feels like the flu. The ... (182 words)

I am dating a guy who has a girlfriend and I feel used, how do I cut him off completely?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5922 days ago

3 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - This guy that i've been seeing has a girlfriend, and she works 3rd shift and work 1st. he's with me every night sometimes even when she doesn't have to work. I know where they live, and where he's mom lives, as well as where he hangs out. for some reason last night he told me ... (123 words)

When a guy's dad says, "has gone soft on her," what does that mean and why would he say that?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5922 days ago

3 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hmmm ok when someone says like for example a lads dad says "hes gone soft on her" to his son or something what does it actually mean and what would make him say this? just curious... (37 words)

How do I make my woman so happy, that she thinks about me, when we are apart?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5922 days ago

3 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - i want to know how i can make my woman happy even when she is absent as to make her always think about me.... (24 words)

Together for three years, I moved in with him, asked if he thought we would be together in the future, he did not know, couldn't promise love or commitment, I am devastated, should I just wait around or leave, I love him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5921 days ago

3 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Im in a difficult position, I recently asked my boyfriend whether he thought we would still be together in the future, so we could make plans. His answer was I hope so but I cant promise I will still love you then, and to stop planning for the future. Im devestated as I thought ... (159 words)

How can a man move on so quickly?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5899 days ago

3 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, My boyfriend and I were inseperable for 3 years before I went away for a couple months. We had some problems in the relationship I left, but the time away really gave me a new persepective on my relationship with him and I came back with a plan to show him more gratitu... (171 words)

I think newlyweds should live alone, so I dislike the thought of living with my MIL after marriage! Am I reading into this too much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5822 days ago

3 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my partner for 3 years now and a few weeks ago, we become engaged and have started to plan a wedding in disney, florida in 2010. a few weeks/months before he proposed, we began thinking about seriously moving to florida. He is 27, and i am 19. He still lives ... (295 words)

I am really shy and didn't know how to react to the closeness, no I am afraid to try again...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5907 days ago

3 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok I am a really shy female and his bloke tried to snog me and everyone says it just comes natural and you should know what to do, well I didn't and I ende up making a fool of my self and know I am scarred to try again, any advice.... (51 words)

I broke up with my short-term boyfriend, but I would like to still be friends, I texted him, he did not respond, what do I do now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5922 days ago

3 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I finished with my short term boyfriend ... because he had laughed at me for been worried that he had not answered his phone... i did like him i have text him and he does not reply ...i would have like to stay friends... (44 words)

My relationship with my boyfriend has been shaky, his brother was recently sentenced, to two to three years in jail, what do I say to my boyfriend when I call him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5922 days ago

3 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - me and my bf r 20. our relationship has been shakey. his brother went to court today n sentenced for 2-3 yrs...when i call my bf what should i say?... (30 words)

If a guy that you like a lot, calls you sheltered, is that a good or a bad thing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5922 days ago

3 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - If a guy thinks you are sheltered is that a good thing or a bad thing especially if he is Mr Outgoing and Mr Active and you really like him.... (30 words)

I met a man my age at the restaurant, we then talked by phone every night for almost a week, is it possible to feel something so special so soon? What do you recommend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5922 days ago

3 September 2008 (F)

age - I recently went to restaurant for breakfast, and I met a man my age. He came to sit by me, and we talked about our jobs. He gave me his phone number,and paid for my breakfast which I did not know he did. I called him back that evening to thank him for doing this. We began a ... (207 words)

I am invited to his flat to watch TV and stay for the night, how can I feel more relaxed? I don't want him to know that I have never dated etc.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5921 days ago

3 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am looking for some advice/help. I am in my late 20s and have never had a boyfriend/relationship (sad I know) ever because I had strict parents and then when I was older I was never really interested. However, I find myself for the first time ever being attracted to a guy ... (187 words)

When I finally gathered the courage to ask her on a date, I learned that she found someone else, have I waited too long?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5920 days ago

3 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Well basically I have a friend, we used to work together and we talk to each other a lot. I always wanted to ask her out, but I was nervous. You see every girl I have ever had any involvement with has ended in disaster, usually really really badly. Now everyone at the work... (314 words)

He dumped me twice, firstly because he was confused about his ex. Do I give him another chance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5922 days ago

3 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so i dated a boy for about 2 months and then he told me he had feelings for his ex. So i left him to make it easier for him to make up his mind. A few days later he said he had decided and it was me he wanted and not her. I told him i would take him back on the condition... (269 words)

I'm in Limbo-land - what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5917 days ago

3 September 2008 (F)

age - me and partner have been together 10yrs recently we gave up a pub and went to stay in our caravan then 4 weeks ago he just left he said he loved me but needed time on his own as he wanted us to go back and be like we were before. so i didnt contact him at all then on the ... (142 words)

I wrote my boyfriend a letter, about how bad I feel about my weight, and the stress in our relationship, he answered that he does not know what to say, what do I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5922 days ago

3 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i recantly posted a question and got a answer so i did actually that and wrote him a letter but after he read it all he said is 'what do you want me to say, i cant say any thing' this is what i put in the letter---- we use to get on loadz before now, but now it is hard for me, ... (611 words)

Is it worth keeping in touch with her although she seems to have lost the initial interest? In terms of pain, which is the easiest road out of here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5922 days ago

3 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a little bit confused. I met a girl a few months back whom I care for a lot! I'm never happier than when I'm around her. The mere thought of her makes my heart rate triple. The problem is she is very popular and has a lot of friends. At first she would make an effort to get ... (271 words)

How can I move on with life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5922 days ago

3 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've had a bit of an issue coping - last year in particular - with depression and suicide, but I'm getting through it gradually. My main issue is that I can't seem to move on from my school. I'd been at that school since I was 4, and I'm struggling to enjoy any other school... (101 words)

How can I explain that I want to move there for me and not for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5922 days ago

3 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in a bit of a pickle and I don't know if its because I'm over analyzing or not. I have a friend who I absolutly love to peices as a mate but we fancy the hell out of each other. we sleep together when we get drunk and were both ok with it. For a while I wanted to be with ... (304 words)

I'm hesitating because he's my cousin - what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

3 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, i asked this question already but it didn't work :( I need help! I'm in love with my cousin who I've been best friends with for years. We are both disabled with autism and we are both very shy and unconfident when speaking to anyone else except each other. however ... (115 words)

Can I catch worms from a cat?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5897 days ago

3 September 2008 (F)

- This is really dum I know, but I went round to my friends house the other night and he has a cat. This cat had things like bits of cotton hanging out its bum, which I was told were worms. Can you catch this because now I cant get it out my mind and also my bum keeps itching. I ... (79 words)

How do I get over my heartbreak if he's right there?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5922 days ago

3 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - In the past couple couple weeks I have been going through a painful rollercoaster of emotions. My boyfriend, who I sincerely love, went to visit an online friend for a week and broke up with me after returning, preferring to be with her. He said "bottom line, it just wasn't ... (400 words)

Is he getting scared or something, or has the relationship just plataued?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5920 days ago

3 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I'm 37 yrs and I met a guy who's is 34 on a dating website 4 months ago. We hit it off immediately, I've met his family, we've been together every day since we met. He used to tell me all the time how he is loves me, how attracted he is to me, how he would like to ... (351 words)

It was my birthday a couple of weeks ago, and he didn't even get me a card. How do I breach this subject maturely?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5912 days ago

3 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so I'd like some advice on how to sit down and talk to my boyfriend about his recent behaviour... It was my birthday a couple of weeks ago, and he didn't even get me a card. I questioned him about this, calmly, and all he had to say was that I was too difficult to sho... (204 words)

Is a relationship only for the "in love"? What is the difference between "love" and "in love"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5922 days ago

3 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I would like to know the definition of "in love". The english language is terrible in describing emotion, but I'm wondering if the difference between "love" and "in love" are that large? And if it matters. Is a relationship with someone worth fighting for if that "in love" fe... (106 words)

Is it possible to lose your virginity with your clothes on?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5913 days ago

3 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I was wondering if I have on my clothes and I come into contact with a male who has on clothes as well and I feel his penis kind of touch my vagina is that losing the virginity?I was in pain afterwards but there was no bleeding.I was emotional and confused about the situation ... (136 words)

Does he like me or not?! Why won't he talk to me?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5921 days ago

3 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey i wrote up about 5ish days ago with this extremely long question: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-am-so-confused-whether-he-likes-me.html thanks for the 2 replys that i got, if you answered that question could you please have ago at this one as its closely related!... (297 words)

How could she be so careless with birth control?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

3 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, im 25 and my girlfirend 23. i am a college student with one more year to go. I've been with my girlfriend for almost 2 years now. I took her virginity and we never use condoms. at first we used pull-out method, but after a few pregnancy scares, she decided to get on the ... (173 words)

How do you write erotic fiction with or for your partner?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5922 days ago

3 September 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - How can you write erotic fiction with/for your partner without it just being a long wish-list of things you'd like to do? In my case I keep writing about facials (about which I am obsessed). I guess we just need to talk about it more. OK, I have probably answered my own ... (71 words)

I'm self conscious about my body! How do I overcome feeling like I look weird?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

3 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm an 18 year old girl and i am self-conscious about my body. I am a size 8/10, 5"4 and weigh about 127lbs. I hate my body an i think that is why guys don't like me. I'm not really fat but i have rather big thighs and calves (i used to dance a lot some years ago)my arms too ... (118 words)

This is a tricky one...how do I win back her heart?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5922 days ago

3 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I want my ex girlfriend back. She is the most amazing person I have ever been with and I need to know what some people think about my plan to win back her heart. I have two plans and I want your feed back to let me know if im a completely dissilusioned person or somewhat of a ... (334 words)

How do I get him to choose me over his ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5920 days ago

3 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been dating this guy for just over 2 months now. He is from Paris but is in London for work and said that he had just broken up with girlfriend of 4 years before coming as he wasn't sure how long he's be gone. I'm also falling for him and he said he was falling for me and ... (161 words)

Why is he treating me so bad that I feel the need to harm myself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

3 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend is threaten me bad, he is ignoring me the most times he calls me a lot of names, he thinks that I have other lovers, he blames me for the things which his ex did to him(Stabbing, lying)I have never done something to him!but he doesnt want to trust me and then when ... (163 words)

How can I get my 20 month old son to nap during the day?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5921 days ago

3 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello i wonder if anyne can give me some advice. Our son is 20 months old and up until about a week ago he had a nap from 11:00 in the morning until 12:00, was then up for the rest of the day until 6:30 when he would go to bed and wakes up at about 8 in the morning, but since a ... (144 words)

It hurts a bit that he's ignoring me, why is this going on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5922 days ago

3 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - well. i went out with a guy a long time ago. it ended. not too nicely and we both went our sperate ways, intermididly 'bumping' into to each other and either making small talk or just not talking. Both of us got new partners, mine a very serious one, moved on and all that jaz... (228 words)

I'm not sure if he ejaculated in a safe place prior to fingering... what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5919 days ago

3 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend fingured me and im not sure if he ejaculated on my hands before he put the fingers in Im not sure if im pregnant i dont want to be, im unable to get hold of a pregnancy test and im not sure if im late on my period because the times always vary , i dont suffer f... (74 words)

Why doesn't he care much for sex anymore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

3 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - lyin in bed he would turn down sex,and have a wank lyin beside me,sometimes even look at porn while doing it... and when we do have sex he wants it over quick or gets me to take out the dildo and finish myself.i cant stand that it turns me off and he knows it. i dont mind he ... (108 words)

Can your vagina be depressed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5921 days ago

3 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - help! can your vagina bee depressed? im disabled and have been on anti-depressants for 7 years as a pain killer and to help with the situation of becoming disabled, i came off of my anti -depressants 8 months ago and ever since sex has been painful uncomfortable makes me feel ... (254 words)

We have great sex but he doesn’t last very long, just 2-3 minutes...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5922 days ago

3 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been going out with my boyfriend for a little under a year now and I love him to death. Our sex life is the only thing concerning me at the moment. We have great sex but he doesn’t last very long. He only lasts about 2 or 3 minutes and then he cums. Sometimes I don’t ... (94 words)

I always hear women should understand men's preference for porn. But no one seems to expect men to understand women's feelings on the matter?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5843 days ago

3 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - a quick question about porn From the many questions I read on here many women are uncomfortable with their partners using porn. I know how they feel because personally it makes me feel inadequate and hurt that my husband wants to look at other women naked...I have read the ... (148 words)

How do I get over the guilt of leaving my ex for another guy? I also feel guilty about feeling guilty, as it's not fair on my new partner.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4321 days ago

3 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel so guilty and weird all the time!!! I left my (first) long term boyfriend for another guy. Basically although I knew my ex loved me and we had a great time together, I just didn't love him anymore, and I think it was cos he was naturally not very sensitive/romantic, and ... (368 words)

I asked him what we were and of course I wasn't surprised when he said friends with benefits. I want more and don't know what to do.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5922 days ago

3 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - About a year and a half ago I got out of a marriage that lasted less than a year with a guy I was with for 5 years beforehand. Just after a few months of single status I was at the club with a friend when I ran into this guy that I used to go to high school with who graduated a ... (405 words)

Married a year ago but have been with my partner for 5. The passion seems to have completely drained out of our relationship and I'm contemplating divorce!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5921 days ago

3 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Help! I got married 1 year ago but have been with my partner for 5. This year has been very up and down and I know that everyone says that the 1st year is hardest but I think this is different. The passion seems to have completely drained out of our relationship. On paper we ... (211 words)

I need some Agony Aunts to keep me in their prayers!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5896 days ago

3 September 2008 (F)

age - Hi, I'm one of your agony aunts, but this time I need your help. I would just ask you all send me love, strength and support for what I'm about to go through. My husband's viza has not been granted, and we have to go for interview next week. You may say I'm being negative, ... (108 words)

I am 16 and madly in love with a married woman! She also told me she's pregnant with my child...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5921 days ago

3 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a 16 year old student from central India. I am having sex for the last 2 months with a 24 year old married lady who is my neighbour. She is very pretty and looks as if in teens.Her husband 28 is a very rich man most of the days on business tour. My parents are abroad and I ... (235 words)

We both look at porn for somewhat different reasons, but I'm still jealous!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5862 days ago

3 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a female and I sometimes look at pornography, mostly because the art I make is pretty risque. I almost always am sort of detached, but it's fun work. Sometimes, but very rarely, I enjoy what I see. My fiance knows I look for reference and that I can sometimes be ... (223 words)

My girlfriend cheated on me and I think she is still cheating as she continues to talk to him daily...

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3 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been with my girlfriend for about 3 years.I was her only friend.We were happy,were always together,the sex was great until last december where i caught one of her txt to a guy she just met about a week ago saying "did you get the lubricant" and another one saying ... (286 words)

I think of other girls, is this wrong? Should I leave my girlfriend?

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3 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - should i dump my girlfriend because im thinking about other girls, i mean i know a lot of nice other girls, but i love my girlfriend, but i often wonder if i wasnt with her would i have a better relationship with another girl, and i kinda feel that these thoughts are unfair on ... (71 words)

Homeschooled and having trouble talking to girls...

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3 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i have trouble talking to girls and im homeschooled so its not like i have a wide selection... (18 words)

Have I found my true love or am I just being an idiot? I have trust issues...

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3 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - hi, about a month ago, i met someone, both of us are divorced, i was married for over 20 yrs to a man that was really cruel to me, and i been divorced from him for about 3 months, this other man, was also married for 13 yrs to a woman who was cruel to him, he has been divorced ... (419 words)

Is hypothyroidism possibly responsible for my miscarriages?

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3 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have recently suffered my second miscarriage (first at 6 wks and second at 8wks). My husband and I are naturally devastated - once was hard enough - but when it happens again you really start to feel worried and it feels like such a huge loss to us! (NB: thankfully we have a ... (229 words)

He always hangs out with girls and insists they are friends. What does he mean?

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3 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - he always hangs out with girls, but is very insistent that they are nothing but friends. we are only friends! i havent really shown any interest (though i am...) in whether or not he's really single. our conversations go something like this: "i'm going to see so-and-so l... (157 words)

Am I depressed or do I just need to raise my self esteem?

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3 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - So I am willing to admit that I have low self-esteem and am very self-conscious. At times I can be depressed because of this but I don't feel it is that serious that I would need to seek medical help. I grew up watching my mother take 10-12 pills a day for depression and I ... (318 words)

Why do relationships rarely stem from casual sex? How do I stop this behavior?

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3 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - So I am having trouble with refraining myself from engaging in casual sex. I always feel very crappy the next day and tell myself that it is mentally unhealthy. I want to stop but it is easier said than done. For some reason when considering it I either have two thoughts ... (172 words)

He's upset his ex has moved on. Does this mean he doesn't want to be with me?

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3 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend just found out his ex has moved on and is upset. He said he needs a few days to sort out his feelings and just wanted to be honest with me because i am a good woman. what does this mean? does he want to break up with me? or does he just need a few days to himself ... (67 words)

Should I tell my boyfriend my ex is going to be at the shower?

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3 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My BF and i have been together mostly on and a few months off for 7 years. I have never been unfaithful but he has. Although i'm not worried about him doing anything now, he does go out and most of the time I have no idea who he is with. My HS BF and i have talked on and off ... (168 words)

He broke up with me and doesn't want to give me 'false hope' so is it really over?

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3 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm trying to figure out what I should do with this situation. I love my ex SO much. In my heart I believe we are meant to be together. So, basically, we broke up 7 weeks ago, He 'loves me very much, but feels like we don't get along well enough." He said he understands that ... (505 words)

Does my co-worker like me or is it my imagination?

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3 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - ok so I started working at this office downtown. I must admit that my job is pretty easy and there's quite a few hot guys (unfortunately most of them are young married lawyers :( ) anyways so there's this one particular guy who I stated liking ever since I noticed him staring ... (224 words)

I told my crush I liked him but I don't know what to do from there!

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3 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i really like this boy at my school. we're kinda friends. and we've dated before but it was when we were younger so it wasn't anything special. but anyways i really started to like him since the beginning of school. and we've talked on the computer and he always says hi to me ... (140 words)

Am I doing right for ending the relationship now?

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3 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm a senior in college and I met a girl toward the end of last year. She's really great and an amazing person, but I just can't help but feel like I'm too young to be getting so serious. I feel that I haven't quite experienced everything. It's this feeling and the fact that I ... (132 words)

Should I move bases to be with my future wife?

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3 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, I am a 22 year old male in the army. I met my fiance' in Iraq. It was strange because I use to and she use to look down those because people always rushed them. We started it by seeing where it would go, we both agreed to this. We deployed back to the states, she's in ... (283 words)

My wife never wants to have sex and I fear I've become addicted to porn!

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3 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been exposed to porn since I was a toddler. I used to look at the pictures in the softcore magazines stacked in my Dad's wardrobe when he was downstairs. Later, when I understood when I was looking at, I masturbated over them regularly. This continued right through high ... (379 words)

How can I ask my close friend out in a subtle manner?

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3 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I like a shy guy. As I've hung out with him in group settings we've gotten to know each other better. I am pretty sure he likes me too. He treats me different than my other friend who's a girl. I want to ask him out in a low key way, so I don't scare him,but I also want to be ... (132 words)

I can't seem to find any friends at my school! Please help!

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3 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I enter school tomorrow, and its my 11th grade, yet I can't seem to find friends, any sudggestions, oh I live in LA, people here don't give a s**t.... (29 words)

I have fallen for my best friend. I know I'll never be with him, so how do I get over him?

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3 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i really like by best guy friend but he doesn't like me. i have liked him for a few months well maybe 6 months now. and i told him about 1 month ago, (nothing is or feels different) but just today i found out he has a girlfriend and he never told me and i really like him he is ... (150 words)

I can't understand why I love looking at other women's bodies so much...

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3 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Now,I am 43 yrs.old and I love looking at nude women with big boobs pictures.Now,this is the part that I don't understand.I do not want a relationship with women.In fact I have been married twice to men.I love men! But,looking at nude women turns me on so much.In fact,in my ... (88 words)

How can I make this a time where we can make this a concrete situation and do things differently?

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3 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Six years ago I met this guy. We dated for about six months. He seemed emotionally unavailable to me so I pretty much moved on. We have remained friends over the years and kept in contact. We met up a few times over those years as well. He showed up to my house unannoun... (214 words)