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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

We want to wait until we are married to do anything sexual. How do I fight off the temptation?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5926 days ago

22 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - This is a continuation of my last question as it's on a completely different subject. If that makes sense. Basically my problem is this. Me and my girlfriend used to do sexual acts. Not actual sex and not even oral. I've fingered her and that's all. She's never even touch... (265 words)

My boyfriend wants me to masturbate for him, I do not think I do it right, could I have some advice regarding this topic?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5934 days ago

22 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My BF Wants me to masturbate for him1!!!! i cant do it! any tips on how too i mean i masturbate but i think i do it worng! help me... (35 words)

My girlfriend is trying to take a job out of the country. How should I feel about this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5933 days ago

22 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been dating a really nice girl for about 2 and a half months. Things are going really well. About 5 weeks ago she told me about a job opportunity she was notified of that would take her to France for 4 months starting January 2009. We both live Vancouver, Canada. She told ... (195 words)

Am I doing the right thing by using words instead of violence, even though it hurts my pride?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5934 days ago

22 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi. This isn't exactly a relationship question, but it is linked to my relationship. The other night, me and the girl I've been seeing for a couple of months were in a club, and this guy comes up to us and starts chatting to us both. He was quite drunk, but he seemed like a... (297 words)

I got drunk and hooked up with another guy. Do I tell my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5931 days ago

22 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, my boyfriend and i love each other. He lives an hour and a half away. Things are really hard because he is really busy working 60+ hours a week and doesn't have anytime to really call or answer my texts. I feel like we aren't dating, that all there is between us is love. I ... (249 words)

My boyfriend's ex is threatening to steal him from me. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5934 days ago

22 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My Boyfriends Ex Girlfriend Told Me That She Has Seriously Thinking About Dating MY Boyfriend. She Told Me The Only Reason Why I Still Have Him Is Because She Knows Hes HAppy With Me. Heres Part Of The Converstaion fatel1: (09/21/2008 06:28 PM): see one thing you should kno... (302 words)

My girfriend and I have been together for four years and we have had a great relationship, but recently she wanted some time from me, to figure out if she really wants to be with me, she feels the spark is not there anymore, I love her sincerely, is

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5934 days ago

22 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been dating my gf for almost 4 years and we both deeply love each other. We have been through it all together and it has made us and our love stronger. Recently after things had been going great she felt as though the spark was lost and that she wanted to make sure she ... (173 words)

How can I make it up to my girlfriend? Is it too late for us?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5934 days ago

22 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - well people i have ben on a relationship for the past 4 years and this is the first time i last so long with a girl. i got my heart broken back in jr high ever since i talk my self to not have feelings for none but this girlfriend love me so much you guy wont even know how ... (401 words)

My younger boyfriend cheated on me. Do I put it down to age and forgive him, or do I leave him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5932 days ago

22 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a question of how to move forward without torturing myself further - tips to move on. I am 39 yrs old and have been in a serious live in relationship with a 22yr old for two years. Just four months ago he followed me in a cross country move even though his paren... (377 words)

My husband and I do not have good sexual relations, I try to tell him what I like, but it does not take, I am not satisified, what advice can you give me to help the situation, I don't want to cheat?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5933 days ago

22 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i've been married for almost three years, and my husband works a lot of hours. we've got two children, a one year old daughter and a two month old son. i'm a homemaker. i have tried to come up with many ideas of foreplay and tried many ways of telling him different things ... (161 words)

My boyfriend and I had unprotected sex three times in one day, I have been feel ill and dizzy, and I feel like I want to throw up, I don't know what is wrong with me, should I take a pregnancy test?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5934 days ago

22 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - about 15 days ago me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex 3 times in one day and each time he injected in me and all this week i been feeling sick... my chest, head, boobs, and back been hurting and every now and then when i stand up ill feel kinda dizzy and feel like i have to ... (90 words)

I have developed deep feelings, for a married woman at work, I told her, and she will not speak to me anymore, my question, do I have the right to have feelings for a person that I have never been on a date with, is this some kind of emotional immatu

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

22 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello. I'm really depressed and disillusioned with life at the moment. I couldn't give two hoots about the credit crunch, I'm too busy licking my emotional wounds after my latest rejection. I basically developed feelings for a woman at work over a period of years and finally ... (212 words)

My boyfriend wants me to take pictures of myself in my underwear. Is this wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5934 days ago

22 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend(8months) have a really good relationship atm, we havn't actually had sex yet as i want to wait 'til i'm 16, but we mess around and that, i'm fourteen and he's in the year above. i'm really not into all the sex stuff but i know he is so i do it for his ... (201 words)

I want him to like me for definite. Should I play hard-to-get?

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22 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - There's a boy I've liked since June now. He's a year older than me - 17. He's really sweet and caring. A great friend to me through thick and thin. He's gorgeous and basically perfect boyfriend material. And he knows I like him. I confessed to him a couple of weeks ago - a... (264 words)

I want to give him the best honeymoon ever! By the way?...We are both virgins!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5934 days ago

22 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Well, I'm getting married very soon and as big of a shocker this is...I'm still a virgin. And when me and Troy get married, I want to give him the best honeymoon ever. He is still a virgin too, so I want to start things off slowly. I was thinking a blow job, but....go figu... (77 words)

My girlfriend and I have broken up again, we have small fights when we are together, but I think we would be able to get past them if we try, I don't know if she wants to do this, how can I tell?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5932 days ago

22 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, recently my girlfriend of almost 2 years have broken up (1 year 11 months). I ended the relationship a few days ago because we have been having so many little fights that it's not enjoyable to spend time together. Immediately after I realized how big of a mistake this was. ... (196 words)

If he and his girlfriend did split up, should I go after him, or wait to see if he decides to come to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5932 days ago

22 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - There is a guy I've really liked for a while, and I've been told that he likes me as well. But he already has a girlfriend and two young kids (one with his current girlfriend, and another from a previous relationship). Obviously a relationship between us right now is out of t... (247 words)

I'm embarrassed about posting this, but I seriously need the help.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5911 days ago

22 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Well its quite embarrassing, but Ive only just turned 14 and i have a spot on my testicles that always itches. Its always in the same spot though, its strange and i dont want any of my family to know. But the craziest part is I've never ever had sex as i think I'm well to youn... (82 words)

He dumped me after 2 days!!!! I couldn't believe it.

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22 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Well. My story is quite long. I met this boy who i didn't really like untill this party, and i just couldn't stop looking at him, i don't know why. He already had a girlfriend, but then a couple weeks later he figured out that i fancied him. because my friends are very supp... (130 words)

My boyfriend wants me to stop shaving!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

22 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend said he wanted me to stop shaving! He said he doesn't want me to look like I'm pre-pubescent. Do you think he really means that? Or is he trying to control me? It's really embarrasing for a girl to have hairy armpits and legs. Should I do it? What should I tell him... (56 words)

What does this all mean? Am I crazy or is it possibly something more, like paranormal behaviour?

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22 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok. I'm 17 and I've always had this uncanny unique thing about me. When I was eight and my mom was putting me to bed, this man appeared in my doorway and for an instant he turned around and smiled at me and then he was gone. I told my mother about it and she just told me to go ... (368 words)

I'm keeping a major secret from the guy that could be my childs father, is that wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5934 days ago

22 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, so i know you are gonna think i am a slut but please dont judge me. I don't sleep around and before i got myself in this mess i hadn't slept with anyone for over 8 months. So I knew this guy at we had been friends for ages but we live in different counties. We met up 1 nigh... (518 words)

Is it illegal to email a teacher out of school?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

22 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it illegal to email a teacher outside of school in the uk? i am currently being taught by him, i am female, he is male, i am 17 and he is in his 30s, it is his personal email address and the emails are informal and of a personal nature, however they are NOT sexual or ro... (95 words)

Should I accept his invitation knowing he will break up with me or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5934 days ago

22 September 2008 (F) age 51-59 - My boyfriend has gone to new york for business for a month, he has asked me if i would like to go over there to see him and has said he would pay for everything, as he knows i earn nothing like whats he does, the problem is that i think he wants to finish our relationship, as i ... (97 words)

Does he like me the way I like him? I don't know where I stand.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5932 days ago

22 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - this may not seem like a big problem to some but it is to me. i have fallen for this bloke who comes in to my work, he is really hot and a really nice guy. the problem is that iv told him how i feel about him thru a txt message, and he replied to the message but said nothing ... (123 words)

Do you think my friend has a crush on him too?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5934 days ago

22 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a crush on a football player, and i know football players have alot of girls around them. well i told a girl how is he, and she told me i told her becuase she new him, and i told her i liked him. she told me to tell him, so i did. So now he knows. also their were girls ... (183 words)

Please give some tips on how to get him to notice me.

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22 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Heya, Ok, I need some advice. I really like this guy in my Geography class but I don't know what to do to get him to notice me. He used to sit almost next to me (bar one person), but then some random dude sat their so he could laugh with his mates. This meant that he had to mo... (182 words)

Do some guys like girls that are shy and nervous around them (like me!) or do they prefer an outgoing girl that always can start a conversation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5932 days ago

22 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i know everybody has different opinions, but what do guys typically look for in a girl? Do some guys like girls that are shy and nervous around them?(like me!) or do they prefer an out going girl that always can start a conversation. Cuz I really become friends with this boy I ... (143 words)

How can I strike up a good conversation with this girl at work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5934 days ago

22 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - i've become stricken with this girl at work, and am in dire need of help. unfortunately, striking up a conversation with her couldn't be more awkward. aside from the usual things such as the mild embarassment and finding stuff to talk about (which isn't usually a problem -- and ... (339 words)

My boyfriend is convinced I'll leave him, but puts me down all the time too. Why is he acting like this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

22 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of a year started acting weird a month ago. He puts me down a lot verbally (that's I'm fat, act dumb, etc.) and I tell him that it hurts my feelings but he just says "you know I'm only kidding, I love you for you and wouldn't be with you if I really believed ... (451 words)

I'm getting married, but the further our engagement moves along, the colder my feet get!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5934 days ago

22 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I’m getting married, but I feel like a mid-life crisis waiting to happen. I am engaged to a wonderful woman who loves me with all of her heart, but the further our engagement moves along, the colder my feet get. Hell, I’m scared to death! I always focused my life on gettin... (777 words)

He usually takes a long time to orgasm, that is, if he can at all. Makes me feel like a failure in bed. What is the cause and how can I fix it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5932 days ago

22 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently started dating this guy at college. I'm 22 and he's 23 and I feel that there is a strong mutual attraction between us. I have always been a very sexual person with guys in past relationships, and unlike many women, I have no problem reaching orgasm at least once... (317 words)

My partner's adult (and married) children dislike me and I feel he should stand up for me more. What do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5907 days ago

22 September 2008 (F)

age - i have been on this site alot of times since i started dating the man i am now with. he is 69 years old and i am 65 years old. both of our spouses are deceased. my friend introduced us 3 years, and 9 months ago. I stay with this man almost all of the time because i have an ... (480 words)

Why did her feelings for me fade as soon as she moved in? Did she do all this just to use me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5934 days ago

22 September 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Before I met my girlfriend it was always her dream to come and liveand wrk in my country, we met and a long distance relationship developed,and we visited eachother. I moved Heaven and Earth for her and her Daughter to come over, never ever done so much for one person - but ... (174 words)

I don't love my boyfriend anymore, the stupid thing is that I fell in love with a guy I have never met! Don't know what to do!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5913 days ago

22 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i am 28 and i have been in a relationship for 14 years. i have never cheated so it's obvious, my bf is the only man i have ever had sex with. never consider myself to be inexperienced, never felt bad about having only one partner simply because i never wanted anyone else, never ... (724 words)

Why do teen guys only have one thing on their mind? What's the big deal about sleeping around while you're so young?! Why are they like this?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5858 days ago

22 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - why do guys nowadays only want one thing. ONE thing. every single guy that i like, end up going out with them for like a month n then they think they can get straight into my pants, i was goin out wi this guy called "R" and i was with him for 9 week, my parents went away for ... (258 words)

My boyfriend is very controlling and thinks that I am cheating on him, instead he is the one who has cheated and admitted it, I have a baby, no money and nowhere to go!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5934 days ago

22 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i am 22 years old,. i have a 7month old with my boyfriend of 5 years. i am torn in what to do cause i dont want to break up my family but i feel like i cant do this anymore. here is why, my boyfriend is very controlling and thinks that i am cheating on him. i barely go out ... (207 words)

Men, are you put off when a girl takes initiatives, always starts conversations, etc? When guys don't make the effort, does it mean they are not interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5934 days ago

22 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I will not go into detail about my own problem just yet, i just needed to ask this question: Guys, are you put off in any way when a girl is usually the one to make a first move? I know guys are generally lazy and some are blind to see that a girl waits for the guy to mak... (209 words)

How do I handle a guy who's telling other male friends of mine to back off and then they avoid me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5934 days ago

22 September 2008 (F)

age - How do I handle a guy who's telling other male friends of mine to back off and then they avoid me? This guy has a girlfriend so why is he doing this? What should I do? Please help!!... (41 words)

My baby's mother is moving away with our daughter to another state, what can I do to stop her? I want to see my baby grow up!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5934 days ago

22 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - my baby mother is moving away with daughter and she's going to be 2 years old in a week. what can i do to stop her? she is moving to another state and i want to see my daughter grow up! I have done every thing for my daughter from she was born and now she want's to move away ... (62 words)

How to deal with my period (and the unbearable cramps) when I'm at school?? It's even hard to walk and talk to people...

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

22 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - PLEASE HELP ME!! I don't know what to do when i get my period on a school day. This morning i was having a pretty light period, then when I got to school, like all my nerves went off and my period suddenly turned heavy. During my 1st hour class i had unbearable cramp... (196 words)

Do guys also get a yeast infection? I noticed only once that his ejaculatory fluid was yellowish...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5934 days ago

22 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I just want to find out from you uncles and aunts, do guys also get a yeast infection? One time my bf had yellow ejaculation. Was it an infection or it has to do with his smoking. I've seen it once, never again. What was it?... (46 words)

Does my ex-girlfriend want me back? How will I know and when?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5934 days ago

22 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I was dumped by my ex-girlfriend 2 years ago - we were together only for 2 months. She broke up with me for no reason - she just said it didn't feel right and that was that. 6 months later she got a new boyfriend and was with him for 16 months before she broke up with him. In ... (261 words)

Is it really petty on my part to feel hurt that certain friends didn't bother to send me a birthday card when I always make a big deal of their birthdays?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5934 days ago

22 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it really petty on my part to feel hurt that certain friends of mine didn't even think enough to send me a birthday card when I always make a big deal on their birthdays? I guess I am just so disappointed that they didn't think it worth the effort to even get me a card...... (56 words)

We argued frequently and would often end up screaming and shouting at each other, so I broke up. Why do I feel so guilty now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5934 days ago

22 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Sick of falling in and out of love. Hey all, I've just ended an 18 month relationship with my girlfriend and I feel incredibly guilty. I've had some serious health problems in this time and she stuck by me without complaining or moaning. I didn't work at all during this peri... (154 words)

We only spend together 3 months a year and it's amazing! When we're apart though it seems we are two strangers. How can I make our phone conversations more fun?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5933 days ago

22 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating this guy for 4 years now and im very much in love with him. He is 18 and im 21. He lives in a different country and comes every once a year for 3 months. Thats the only time i get to spend with him. When we meet its just amazing cos we laugh, we do crazy stuf... (167 words)

He's all I ever think of and he's just asked me out, why can't I bring myself to accept his invitation??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5934 days ago

22 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey y'all this guy im like head over heels for, asked me out earlier this morning in school, we've been talking for months. But why can't i get myself to say yes to him? even though he's all I ever think of? im major confused. love ... (55 words)

Do you think he only wants me for one thing?...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5933 days ago

22 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hiya .. i have been with me boyfriend nearly 7 months now and everything was going perfect i havnt slept with him yet but last friday i at slept his house and was too drunk to do anything with him .. the next day i got a text of him saying i dont think this is going to work ... (154 words)

I refused to give him my phone number, we often travel along and I like him, should I be friends with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5934 days ago

22 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i m 17,i travel to college by train.since 2 months there is this guy who travels along with me.we often stared at each other. A week ago we spoke to each other.he is working.must be 24-25 years old.he even asked for my phone number but i refused to give it. i think i like thi... (87 words)

My wife wants to have an erotic massage done by a woman, but we are worried how this will affect our marriage and if it is worth the risk!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5934 days ago

22 September 2008 (M)

age - Hi My wife and I have a great relationship we love each other very much and have a great sex life. we enjoy watching porn together and we like the girl on girl and my wife has a fantasy about being with another girl so we thought that maybe going to a massage parlour toge... (114 words)

Please explain to me why I feel this way whenever I see my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5927 days ago

22 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I have been in a relationship for 7 months now and Im very much in like with my boyfriend... I love him. This is bassically the story, before my current boyfriend there was this boy that I was TOTTALLY CRAZYABOUT, I was with him for 4 months but I had my prsonal h... (204 words)

What are you thought's on stretchmarks?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5932 days ago

22 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - What do men think about strechmarks on a womens body?What does the female think about it too?... (17 words)

I'm worried my stretchmarks will wreck my relationship with him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5934 days ago

22 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a problem, i have stretchmarks on the top of my legs. my boyfriend doesnt no about it, but i dont want to have sex with him incase he does see them. i am worried that it is going to wreck the relationship. Does anyone have any advice on what i could do to get rid of them... (66 words)

Should I have sex with him just to keep the relationship going?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5931 days ago

22 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi .. my boyfriend and i have known eachother for over 6 months now .. and we havnt had sex yet. He has been asking me to have sex with, but im just nervous. i realy love him and he said he feels the same way, and just the other day he said to me i dont think its going to work, ... (119 words)

I would give her one of my kidneys if she needed it, because I still love her so much! Please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5934 days ago

22 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi guys, this is a fairly common question but its worth asking because it's tearing me up at a very stressful time. Basically I was madly in love with this girl for about a year and we kept goin out for a year and a half. I loved her so much but we had a really shit summer and ... (713 words)

I need help with an essay paper, can anyone help please?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5902 days ago

22 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have an essay paper due friday and I was wondering who is the villain in the catcher in the rye? I have to know how the villain changed the outcome of the novel and such. Any help will be greatly appreciated :P thanks.... (46 words)

Are these signs my friend's giving out - letting me know that she is bisexual?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5922 days ago

22 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey i am 19 years old, so is my best friend who is 19 years of age too. recently i have realised that she may be bisexual and probably wants to make out with me. Just few days back she said that if she were to get really high she would make out with me, and one more time when... (127 words)

Am I just causing myself a headache to believe in the stars?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5934 days ago

22 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Oh, this is kinda like an astrology question. I'm a Virgo and my boyfriend is Libra. I've had a lot of readings everywhere and people saying that the two are not a match made in heaven. But what me and my boyfriend have seems to be totally real and inseparable! I've never been ... (169 words)

I want to be with him, how can I make my parents acknowledge that I'm old enough and can take responsibility?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5934 days ago

22 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - How can i make my parents acknowledge that i'm old enough and can take responsibility? My bf and i have been together for 14 months now. We love each other so deeply and we always talk about the things we'd do as soon as we get married and our future in general. We would like ... (159 words)

What causes water to come out of my vagina?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5934 days ago

22 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all. Well, here's my case. I visited my bf for the week end and we started having sex from that night. I never had a problem until Sunday morning when it felt sore when he enters me, i actually felt like his penis had grown bigger or my hole has gotten smaller or ... (175 words)

I'm far too naive! Do I follow logic or my gut to chase this girl? Or shall I just aim for friendship?

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22 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I have met a girl i really like and we have talked every day wether it be text, email, or msn and i am starting to fall for her i think. It's only been about 6 weeks that i've properly known her (she's a friend of a friend) and we have been out a few times walking her dog and ... (580 words)

He's gone abroad for I don't know how long - should we break up or should I wait for him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5934 days ago

22 September 2008 (F)

- Hello. I'm 17 and I was in a relationship with a guy my age for 4 months. It was brilliant - I don't belive in soulmates, but he's pretty close. For both of us, it was the best relationship we'd had, on a whole new level. A few days ago he told me he had to go away the next... (277 words)

How can I make her feel comfortable having oral?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5934 days ago

22 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - this girl of mine is quite religious and she believes in sex after marriage and i respect that..however whenever we make out that includes sucking her nipples *she loves it..but when it comes to playing with her pussy i can see she like it loads but then in the middle of the ... (93 words)

Should I finish this relationship or hope that some day he'll propose to me?

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22 September 2008 (F) age 41-50 - I'm 27 and my bf is 26. We know each other for a little more than 4 years an have been dating for a little less than that. My problem is that I have the feeling that I'm not good enough for him. I always thought that he is the one, but now I am not sure about this anymore. I ... (466 words)

He didn't send me a birthday card on Friday, I am deeply hurt and have ignored his calls for the weekend. Should I let him go?

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22 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Im a little confused..ive been seeing a great guy for months and although hes a little forgetful we have a ball and i have no other complaints. But...it was my birthday on Friday and even though he had a wedding to go to that morning in England for 3 days...I thought he would ... (123 words)

My ex broke up from her boyfriend and is all lovey-dovey with me, why then she turns me down? Is she playing with me?

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22 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, just another Question needin an honest outside opinion. My ex and i were dating for almost 2 years. She gets jealous of me dating other girls and she is still very physically attracted to me. She says she never wants to be with me again, but her new bf broke up with her. ... (133 words)

My husband says if I change things will get better, but he isn't giving me a chance to change, he gets mad when I talk to him and all of a sudden nothing I do is good enough! I can't stop crying!

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22 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i dont get it, just all of a sudden its like im not good enough, out of nowhere im lazy,dead weight,i dont dress good enough,i dont have high self esteem and basically it seems as if im not the person he wants to be with at all!!, but he is my husband going on 5 years now, and ... (355 words)

He almost never replies to my texts, but I want to know how he feels about me. What can I say to him?

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22 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi Cupid, So, there's a guy at school in Yr12 and I have been in love with him for about a year now, and recently I told him who I was, and that was ok, and I text him maybe once a month, because I got his phone number from where we work. Anyway, he almost never replie... (93 words)

My boyfriend isn't very ambitious and uses his mother's credit card to pay for our dates. What do I do?

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22 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok. Here's my situation. I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. I'm 27 and he's 29. We both live at home. I work full time while saving money to purchase a condo. I have worked ever since I was 16 years old. My boyfriend on the other hand is not as ambitious. When ... (175 words)

We've been involved for three years, and we're both married (to other people)- How do I get over him when he's always in my thoughts?

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22 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been involved with a married man for almost 3 years. Hes been married for 16 yrs. Im married myself for 13 yrs. Its hard as I havent had the greatest marriage. Him, hes says the same thing. We connected as friends and ended up being more. Its hard to let go. He says he ... (133 words)

I'm in love with my cousin- how do I deal with this?

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22 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - This has been bugging me for a while... I'm quite certain I'm in love with my cousin, but I've never known how to deal with this. To be accurate, she's not my first cousin, I think. She's the granddaughter of my grandfather's sister (if that made any sense). . First off, would ... (137 words)

My gay friend wants me to help him come out to his parents but I won't. Am I a bad friend?

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22 September 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I have guyfriend whos gay and has a boyfriend. His parents doesnt know about it. He wants to tell them but afraid they'll kick him out. He wants me to help him tell them but I told he should do it on his own. Its a very personal family issue and. Hes mad at me for not being ... (66 words)

We broke up because he moved away for college, but now I live close to him and we slept together again. I still have feelings for him, so how do I tell him?

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22 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i went out with this guy for about 8 months ( First bf and lost virginity to him). We hooked up for about 3 months after. We broke up cuz he was going to college and we didn't want to do the long distance thing. It was really sad cuz we both still loved each other. We were both ... (282 words)

We're together now but I'm worried about how my violent ex might react!

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22 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey guys i have another question. sorry i know i bug u guys so much but please help. ok remember the guy that i toll u guys about well yeah we re going out now. but now we have a problem. well am scared that when my ex finds out he is going to start problems. his a violand ... (122 words)

We just got married and we are already having problems!

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22 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - well, my husband and i have been married for about 3 months...and sad to say its already having problems. i work part time, he works full time, we both clean and cook and take care of the house and stuff. im looking for a full time job but being only 18 they are semi difficu... (252 words)

I'm embarrassed to wear braces. I need some honest opinions!

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22 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i cant smile because i have teeth missing and out of place. Getting treatment but will take at least 2years. I feel so gutted because realistically how many girls want to date or even be seen with a guy who still wears braces when his aged 18! Come on be honest not even one! A... (60 words)

God led me to his front door but now it's been closed! Why is he playing with my heart?

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22 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - The relationship started with divine circumstances. God, literally, led me to his front door. A simple question turned into an hour long conversation ending with him asking for my number and to see me again. He called immediately. That was June 4th 2008. At first, he ... (454 words)

How can I survive being the 3rd wheel when I love her?

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22 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - This is some much a question then the fact that i just need some re-ensuring that what im doing is right.. ok here it is, my best friend likes another one of friends, and she likes him (they have both admitted it) ... them like eaching has just recently started and i ha... (200 words)

What can I do to get my relationship back on track?

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22 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I have been in a relationship for over four years now. Nine months ago my partner and I moved in together and away from our parents from the first time. We also moved with two mutual friends of ours. My partner has become increasingly more indifferent and uncaring to... (325 words)

We planned our future together but now that she's in college..she doesn't want that anymore! What can I do?

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22 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so this situation is very complex but me an my girlfriend have been together for almost two years and we have talked about marriage and having kids down the road and everyday she would tell me how much she loved me and sending me messages that told how she wanted to be my ... (151 words)

He prefers sex with 'himself' than me! What can I do?

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22 September 2008 (F)

age - i have been with the same man for about nineteen years, and we stop sleeping together for about eight years in the same bed. thats ok with me. its the sex that i am concerned about. he would rather watch porn than to have sex with me. i dont even ask to have sex just to see ... (212 words)

This female has sent me nude photos and claims she's pregnant with my child! It's not true...how do I convince my gf that this other girl is a liar??

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22 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupids, I have a bit of a strange problem. I've been seeing my girlfriend for about a year and a half. I love her and (hopefully) she loves me. But that's not the problem. Before i started seeing my girlfriend, I was set up on a blind date with a friend of a fr... (512 words)

We started something that was never finished. Should I give him another chance?

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22 September 2008 (F)

age - I developed an attraction for a guy at work who chose another girlfriend other than me. I was heartbroken but managed somehow to move on. We came so close to forming a relationship so I was devasted when this other girl made the moves on him (I'm not that way, I let him ... (123 words)

I'm worried that my brother might be gay because he doesn't like 'man' things.

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22 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, my little brother is now turning 12 and sometimes I am really woried because he acts like a homosexual. He doesnt like cars, sports or any of those man things. Insted he likes cooking, helping in the house, fix clothes, HE LIKES EVERYTHING TO BE PERFECT and he only haves ... (96 words)

How do I stop being so jealous of my fiance?

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22 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've a strange problem with my fiance now. We've been seeing each other for about 3years and we finally got engaged 2weeks ago. The problem is that his work sometimes force him to meet females and i by nature become jealous and angry but i don't show him.there is trust between ... (61 words)

He has a girlfriend, but I really like him! Help!

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22 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I transferred to a new school and met a friend who i went over to her house.Well we went down and hungout with this guy that has a girlfriend but i liked him.We were hanging out in an unfinished house climbing around and he had to help me down and grab on to me to help me up ... (125 words)

How can I get her to see me the way she did before?

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22 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hi im 15 and i need some help. about 2 years ago, me and this girl went out for a couple months but then i broke it off. i have been fine since then but i recently realised shes all i want. i think about her all the time, i dream about, all that jazz, but for sum reason she ... (83 words)

My best friend's boyfriend loves me, but we've never got the timing right. What do I do?

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22 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a friend who i have known for many years now an were really close an we get on so well. I used to really like him when i first met him but he was going out with someone so nothing could happen but we formed a really good friendship. i found out last year from him that... (487 words)

My girlfriend orgasms thick white fluids, is this common?

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22 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm in a relationship which my girlfriend orgasms thick white fluid. Its unusual since I've never come across a woman that orgasmed thick fluids. The best way to describe it is as thick as lotion. What information can you tell me about this and is it usually normal for women?... (50 words)

I won't help my gay friend come out. Why is he angry at me?

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22 September 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I have guyfriend whos gay and has a boyfriend. His parents doesnt know about it. He wants to tell them but afraid they'll kick him out. He wants me to help him tell them but I told he should do it on his own. Hes mad at me for not being there for him. what the big deal? ... (58 words)

I have started seeing a great guy. but my son and mother have a problem with him.

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22 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - about 3 wks ago,i started romantically seeing a male friend of 6yrs.so it was AMAZING to start with - the sex has been totally fantatsic, i was always fond of him and he of me but now we are getting really close and we cannot wait to talk to each other and see each other ... (562 words)

We flirted a lot - what now?

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22 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I work at a grocery store and the power went out so I was sent to help pack customers bags to get the out of the story quickly because it was closing. Well I was put into this place with this girl ive never seen (im new to the place) and she asked my name then introduced ... (201 words)

My circumcised partner has trouble ejaculating, how can I make it easier for him?

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22 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a realtionship with my boyfriend for two years and sex is fine, I am just a little frustrated about his inability to ejaculate inside me during sex. He was circumcised in his mid 50's and has never been able to ejaculate as often as he would like. While I do ... (211 words)

He has a child to another woman who keeps making trouble for us. Now I'm pregnant and I don't know what to think.

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22 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Im so confused at the minute! I am nearly eight months pregnant and live with my partner dave. I have been with dave for a year. Previous to me dave was to put it bluntly shagging a girl called leanne but was only doing her for three or four months. He got rid of her, wen... (338 words)

He wants to move back to his home town, even though he knows I hated it there. Am I being selfish?

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22 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay, I'm not even really sure where to begin this. I guess more than anything I just need a place to vent and have a little feedback. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost three years. I'm 21 and he's 27. We met online and lived 70 miles apart. After knowing an... (282 words)