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writes:I am just wondering. If a guy says he does not want to tempt the friendship (but he has fancied and kissed you before) is this a nice way of saying "im just not into you in that way"....but what about if he is very touchy feely and tries to hold my hand/kiss me on the lips..surely this isnt the signs of a "friend"what do u guys think? Reply to this Question
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reader, shiraz  +, writes (23 September 2008):
hiyahh typicall confusin guy language! its well confusin! always messin with your head and eventually itll end your friendship as he will become two different guys. Hes not wanting a relationship or hed be open and tell you rather than knocking you back so this tells you something yet the fact hes still all touchy feely shows he wants somethin! like all guys and its a shame cuz ya dont see him in the same light any more but its him wastin that frindship in order to get one thing.
Dont just let him do whatever if you like him its really unfair. you need to ask him out straight how hes feelin and what he wants you can live your life waiting for what if and what could be
hope it goes ok let us know how it turns out xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2008): He's working towards having sex with you without even committing to a relationship in any form. This gives him the option of easily moving on when you 'give out' ,and also to have other women on the go at the same time.
Give it to him straight. What do you want? a friendship or a relationship, then act accordingly to his answer instead of snogging his face off.
Good luck
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