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writes:need desparate help ive been with my partner for 1 year now and ive moved inwith him.at the begining we were always togther,his ex stoped him talking to his mates and now with me hes got them back he constantly chatts to them on the internet and i dont get alook in, he says hes just catching up with them which i dont mind but hes constantly doin it and we dont spend any time together because of it i love him to bits and i love being with himwhat do i do its tearing me apart
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2008): Dear Poster
I suggest you talk to him in a very nice and calm manner; tell him that you don't mind him spending time with friends, but that you are feeling neglected and that you do want more of his time.
It might also be a good idea to do things and organize things to make sure you have more time with him; such as a surprise dinner with candles (at home, all lights off) or a picnic in the lounge or a surprise massage after dinner; oh there is lots of things that you can come up with to make sure you get preferential time and that he will spend more time with you;
just use your imagination and capture his love and attention! (BUT please don't "nag" him).
Best wishes; start thinking and PLANNING and keep SMILING.
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