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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is it wrong for me to be all anxious about his female friend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5896 days ago

21 September 2008 (F)

age - I need to be calm about this, but it is hard for me. My b/f has a friend (female) who is married, but her husband and she are far apart often because he works several states away from her. But now she has gotten a job fairly close to where my b/f lives, and is spending the ... (146 words)

Is there anyway I can get divorced papers to show him, so I will not loose my family?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5904 days ago

21 September 2008 (F)

age - I'm a married women of 25yrs who has had a 3yr relationship with a man who thought i was divorced. I want out of this now, but the other guy says he wants to see my divorce papers or else he will tell my husband. I know what i have done is very very wrong and found my husb... (83 words)

Was I just a rebound to her? She now has a new man, how do I cope?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5903 days ago

21 September 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I met my ex about 3 years ago, we were introduced by a mutual friend. The 3 of us would meet and play pool and have a few drinks a couple times a week when I was back in town from work. This went on until the start of this last summer. Now during that time she had been in a ... (883 words)

I want 'revenge'.....What can I do to prove my point?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

21 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, My problem isnt that significant, but any advice possible would be extremely helpful to me in many ways. Me and my boyfriend of a couple months broke up recently because i guess he didnt like me anymore and wanted to go out with this other girl...well, whi... (136 words)

I haven't fallen pregnant yet. Could iron deficiency be the problem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5904 days ago

21 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am trying to conceive but haven't yet, could there be a chance that i have low iron? would that effect me getting pregnant? Would more iron help me or make it faster for me to get pregnant? If so, where would i buy iron pills? -Michy... (47 words)

She wants him to give her money, if he doesn't - he doesn't get any sex either.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5894 days ago

21 September 2008 (F)

age - I met a 40yr old man that had been living with a 19 yr old and he was gaga over her. she decided to call it quits. Though it boosted his ego 'cause of her age, said he probably would not ever get it again {the age thing}. He has been married to an average age of 45 yr old wome... (199 words)

I found out that he likes someone else, I'm completely crushed, because I am hopelessly in love and I don't know why.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5904 days ago

21 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I am confused because this guy has been my friend for a while but the flirty type of friend. me and him had a lot of jokes, but when anyone asked him if he liked me he would say, I'm waiting for freshman year to see if i like anyone, i had been dreading that day for a long time ... (332 words)

Did he really understand that he may have made a big mistake!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5904 days ago

21 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hello. i love my boyfriend so much. we are not from the same country and we are both foreigners in the country we live. he doesnt have a family he grow up with facing every problem by himself. he realized that first time in his life someone is really loving him and supporting ... (439 words)

She asked one night if I wanted to kiss her, I said yes, and we did. Then she says she's not okay with it. I need some answers please.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

21 September 2008 (F)

age - I have a friend who Ive fallen for, and when I told her she ignored my comment. One night after another conversation she asked if I wanted to kiss her and I said yes, so we did. It was the best ever and I never felt complete. After that night she said that she was not ok with... (185 words)

Since the first day back at school he keeps staring at me and blushes when he see's me. I really like him, but don't know what to do.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5904 days ago

21 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well there is this guy who i really really like and ive liked him for a few years now. Anyway last year he found out i liked him and stopped talking to me. In may/june my friend Hannah got us to sort things out and we did. He started going out with this girl and i tried to get ... (230 words)

I'm 14, he's 16, and I really don't care what people in school say, we just really want a baby.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

21 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 14 years old and my boyfriend is 16. we really want a baby. we have picked out a baby name and everything. i know my mom and dad would be really upset with me, but i really want this, so i dont know what to do. I mean everyone is always telling me that it will change m... (92 words)

I have loved him now for a year and I can't seem to move on. I just need some really good advice please.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5904 days ago

21 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - this guy i know is perfect, and im totally in love with him, but he has a girlfriend who by the sound of it he is breaking up with, but he doesn't love me back. i've tried to move on but its just impossible, i have loved him now for a year and i can't move on. i just need som... (70 words)

I have felt from the start that he is the one, but I don't want to get my heart broken again.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5904 days ago

21 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been dating this guy for 3 weeks now and I have felt from the start that he is the one. He says I love you to me and I know it's really soon and new into the relationship, but I just can't shake the feeling that he is the one. How can I go about seeing if the feel... (105 words)

What does this body language mean?... I am constantly bemused and curious by the way he moves his legs...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5904 days ago

21 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, There is this boy I like at school, we talk alot and I THINK he might like me. the thing i dont understand is, he does this weird thing sometimes - if we are talking and are getting abit flirty or jokey with one another, and he is sitting down he will like, SCRAPE his... (213 words)

I'm unhappy in my marriage, my husband didn' t believe my child is his and also treats me badly, what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5892 days ago

21 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i just had our 5th child, when she was born my husband questioned that she was his and called me a c___ in the hospital, we have fought every since this, she is now 2 months old, he's thrown a girl that flirts with him at the bank in my face telling me how f... hot she is and ... (170 words)

I cannot see the sense in porn when he invites me to watch it together! He has also pushed the idea of having a threesome whilst I am pregnant!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5883 days ago

21 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I apologise in advance for the detail of this question but it incorporates a lot as you should notice. My boyfriend and I have been together for a year, everything has been great minus the usual up's and down's but overall we are in love and happy with each other, well that ... (341 words)

He seemed interested at first but recently he's gone very quiet, I don't understand!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5904 days ago

21 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya, For the last few weeks i have been getting to know a guy, who i have been liking more and more. I'm a little confused as he seemed very interested about a week ago now hes gone very quiet, do you think hes losing interest? A couple of my friends know him and say to n... (123 words)

When guys notice me I get scared and push them away, may be because I am a virgin and experience pain while masturbating (fingering) - hence I am very worried about my first time! Tips?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5904 days ago

21 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 20 years old and have never had a real relationship. I have only dated one guy and it was for a month. (This didnt really count though as he had just broken up with his gf of 3 years, and I was his rebound). I can like a guy for months, but as soon as he shows interest I ... (143 words)

As soon as I notice someone likes me, I immeddiatley get scared and run off, thinking they only want sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5880 days ago

21 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi im a 19 year old girl probably uv heard the same problem from other people like me. The thing is iv only dated like one bloke, ok its not much but its what ive done,and he stopped liking me. Anyway when i go round pubs with my mates i get attention from lads when i go ou... (164 words)

Did he want me to check his messages?? He forgot his mobile at my house. I panicked and deleted new messages. Tell him the truth or play dumb, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5904 days ago

21 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all, Ive been having a casual relationship with someone at work,he says he wants me to be his girlfriend but im not so sure if thats what i want. he left his mobile with me over the weekend - did he want me to read his messages from other girls??? I read the messages ... (99 words)

This uni course has me exhausted and without sexual energy, what can I do, as my boyfriend misses sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5904 days ago

21 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - 2 weeks ago I started a really intensive uni course and due to my exhaustion I just don't feel like having sex. It's like I've got no sexual energy. My boyfriend misses having sex but what can I do? I've found in the past that having sex when I don't feel like it is just ... (68 words)

Does it sound like he might be attracted to me, and what should I do (other than smiling) to let him know I'm interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5901 days ago

21 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I started a job a few weeks ago and there's a guy there who I'm attracted to. I think he likes me, because once he joked with me about something I did, saying "You must think you're special." I responded that I was glad he noticed that I was "special" and then a little while ... (257 words)

Why is he trying to make me jealous after we broke up on hsi initiative? Is there a chance to get back together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5901 days ago

21 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay so I just came on here wondering what the meaning of my situation is and whether or not there is still a chance of a continued relationship here. So, here it goes: Throughout the summer, I started dating this guy we'll call 'Bob', everything was going well and we met ... (659 words)

We're currently on a break, I don't know if I can accept her cheating on me, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5904 days ago

21 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend has been going out for a year now, and it feels like we were meant to be, but a week ago she told me that she cheated on me with her ex boyfriend (they broke up because he cheated on her). She told me that she was over him but I guess not. I told her ... (100 words)

Am I sick and digusting to have feelings for my ex brother-in-law? My ex husband was abusive, his brother's the opposite.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5904 days ago

21 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - recently devorced from husband. have never cheated on him not once. what ended our marriage was I descovered he had and was cheating on me. for a few Years I had a secret crush on his brother. I never told anyone. My x husband and his brother do not get along. they went ... (215 words)

Can sex be a way of saying "I love you"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5902 days ago

21 September 2008 (F) age 30-35 - My boyfiend and I are both virgins. We have talked about sex and decided we are ready for it. Can sex be a way of saying "I love you"? How? What makes it such? ... (34 words)

My boyfriend is masturbating to little girls and no longer seems interested in sex. I fear he's not attracted to me, what do I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

21 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi im 23 and my boyfriend is 26 we have a son that is 7 months old and we had a few up's and downs in the beginning of our relationship, he messed me around with a 16year old girl that was in april 2007 and i forgived him for it and things where still fine after that a few ... (370 words)

My fiance wants to have a really expensive stag party in America. I don't like the idea. What actually happens at stag parties?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5904 days ago

21 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I just want to know what both you male and females think about this. I am getting married in 2010, and me and my partner have been together for 3 years. He said to me the other day that his mate (who i dont really like because ever since i was introduced to him, he has chea... (339 words)

I'm 15, have sex regularly and not always protected. How comes I haven't fallen pregnant yet?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

21 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hello im a 15 year old girl, have sex near enough regularly and some of the time i use a condom but its like rarely. im just wondering how come i havent fell pregnant yet?is there something wrong with me or is it normal?please help! x... (46 words)

What should I do? Tell him the truth or pretend I don't feel anything?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5903 days ago

21 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, my ex boyfriend tells me he still loves me and then ask's me how i feel, i just say, dno. The truth is i still love him loads. But i dont no wether to tell him that because then he might think i wont to get back with him, or there could be some chance of us getting back... (120 words)

Do you think my husband had an affair with his work colleague?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5884 days ago

21 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I wrote in earlier this year regarding my suspicions with my husband and some work colleague. He received a happy birthday text in full with a kiss and she sent an e-mail to him starting "Hello Darling", the past few months i have left things and was happy to believe him when ... (356 words)

Is it common for women to cry during or after intercourse?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5877 days ago

21 September 2008 (M) age 26-29 - I have heard that women sometime cry during intercourse or after sex. Is this common? What does it mean? I appreciate your time.... (28 words)

What can I do to know if she truely loves me or she is after my money as I use to give her money?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5779 days ago

21 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - i have a girl friend i loved her so much but she hasnt show me that she loves me though any time we are together its allways lovely and she always act good and that makes me feel good but immedaitly she went out of my side she dont use to call me or ask about me even i... (198 words)

Am I reading too much in to how he is around me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5904 days ago

21 September 2008 (?) age 30-35 - How can i tell that he likes me? im getting soo many signals from him its hard to keep up, this lad that ive always had a little something for keeps making reasons to be close to me, hug me, and put his arms around me. he makes a point of speaking to me when im there, some... (165 words)

I think it is wrong to stay in a relationship with my boyfriend while I love his best friend, but I don't know what to do.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

21 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I like this guy name "Eric" for a while before telling one of my close friends about my little crush for him. So she comes up with a plan to slip him a note into this books one day saying I like him. I eventually give in and wrote a very brief note that plainly states, "I like ... (349 words)

Help! She blocked me and changed her number!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5904 days ago

21 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - hi .. my name is manas ...a fashion design student from india...last two months back we had a workshop where we were working with students of turkey,izmir. we were made into groups and there was a girl name Begum who was my workshop partner .we worked together for thre... (162 words)

He wants me to have his baby, how can I postpone this?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5888 days ago

21 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been seeing an older guy for 4 weeks now.(26) im (15) and i generally feel like ive fallen for him big time. we see each other once a week as he lives too far away so he cant afford paying 50 pounds everyday just to see me. i met him for the fifth time yesterday and we st... (156 words)

How do I cover up my blemishes? I have fair skin.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5904 days ago

21 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have fair skin with some blemishes and i want to cover them up with out making it worse.i want to make it as theough my skin is flawless but like i havn't used any thing.Does any one know of a really good concealer to use which is good for my skin tone, that covers blemishes ... (127 words)

Do we have a realistic chance of rebuilding our family after an affair?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5898 days ago

21 September 2008 (M)

age - has any one been in my situation or can anyone give me some advice.Can a marriage survive an affair which resulted in a baby.I dont love my wife i had affair with an old flame and fell in love with her,i got caught out and i chose to stay with my family as i couldnt bare to be ... (203 words)

Is he scared to like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5904 days ago

21 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Evreyone heres a thing 5 months ago i went on a date with this bloke anyway we had a nice time but he ended it suddenly, Anyway we became friends so that was ok. Heres the thing hes a barman so when i go out with my friends i see him we talk and smile at eachother , 2 ... (404 words)

He cheated and doesn't want my autistic brother to be a big part of my life! Can this still work?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5895 days ago

21 September 2008 (F)

- Dear Aunts, I've been dating this wonderful guy for over 2 and a half years. He is my best friend, and he has always treated me amazingly. Recently we had sex for the first time and lost our virginities to one another, and we've talked about how after college we want ... (223 words)

He hates one of my children for no reason! What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5826 days ago

21 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been going out with my partner for 4 yrs and have 2 children from a previous marriage.Two years ago i left my home to live with him some 60 miles away. All was well we get on just slendid but he hates one of my children. A few months ago he asked us all to leave his ... (170 words)

I feel I would look stupid kissing guys. How do I take the edge off so I can actually date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5904 days ago

21 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, I'm in high school but am worried about the way i look,like every other girl i guess.Most of my friends have boyfriends or have recently been in a relationship.I have not been in a relationship for over three years. There's a boy in my year group a... (171 words)

What's most important in the kiss?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5904 days ago

21 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I was wondering how much of pleasure from kissing comes from technique and how much is from connection. If you're in love with a person, and they suck at kissing, will it still be fun?... (35 words)

Have I ruined my chances?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5773 days ago

21 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I have posted on here before about a girl i really like and we have talked every day wether it be text, email, or msn and i am starting to fall for her i think. It's only been about 6 weeks that i've properly known her (she's a friend of a friend) and we have been out a few ... (543 words)

Is this just a hopeless relationship or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5768 days ago

21 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - im so confused over this guy!! we were seeing other briefly for a while a few months back and then it got very brief..such as seeing him once every couple of weeks. i went to see him a week ago and since then we havent spoke. i saw him out last night and i was with another guy ... (239 words)

Any suggestions to minimise the mess?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5798 days ago

21 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I often my boyfirend and I are kissing and one thing leads to another and I end up giving him a hand job whilst he's fingering me. But I hate it when he cums everywhere its a real hassel to clean up. Any suggestions to minimise the mess? I don't really want to stop him to p... (87 words)

Should I tell him what I think of his girlfriend or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5904 days ago

21 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ahhh, the famous love question arises another day... . Well a couple months ago I had posted some questions about a certain guy on here. I think the chaos has reared it's ugly head once again. Well, you see, I've been hanging out with this guy again, he's been calling me ... (262 words)

She told me she met a friend to tell him not to contact her, but I discovered they are still talking. Any thoughts?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5904 days ago

21 September 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - hi. my girlfriend kept a secret meeting from me a while ago. she says she was visiting an aunty. so i thought nothing of it. then i found out it was some guy. not a date, friends. i didnt believe her. she told him not to contact her. this was in july yesterday, i found an email... (128 words)

Why does she cry during climaxing, is she in pain? How can I extend the time before she climaxes?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5904 days ago

21 September 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, I am 36 Male from India. We are married for 10 years and have very good sex (4 time in a week). Almost every time she is coming and it happens little bit quickly. How to extend it?. She also cries during climaxing and when I ask her after the session about any pain, she ... (82 words)

We discussed marriage but I have second thoughts as I don't want to feel tied down, I do want to be with her though and am worried about hurting her feelings!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5904 days ago

21 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm in a situation where i really don't know whats going on/gone on in my head recently. I'm in the forces and based in germany, i went home for a bit of summer leave at the beginning of august this year and met an amazing girl who lived in my town through an onli... (490 words)

Do males find red hair a turn-off?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

21 September 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Just a quick question, because I'm beginning to get paranoid: Do males find red hair a turn-off? Will he reject a red-head if she asked him out, because of her hair colour? And if you have been asked out by one, did you oblige, and were, or currently are, in a relationshi... (120 words)

I talked to him 2 years online before meeting up, and I was surprised at his inappropriate behaviour when we met! What do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5904 days ago

21 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I met up with a guy i met online, i had talked to him for about two years. yesterday me n my friend went on train to leeds to meet him. at first he seemed really nice just like online, then we went to the cinemas n he started stroking my leg n holding my hand n then he tried ... (170 words)

My girlfriend says she is a virgin but my friends say otherwise, I'm worried she is cheating on me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5814 days ago

21 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - iam 22 dating a girl of 17 and when ever i want to have sex with her she always refused telling me no she is a virgin and not yet time but my friends always told me that she is not and i dont know what to do cos i dont want to loose her cos i love her so much i didnt want ... (99 words)

What are the rules of a casual relationship?? We connect intellectually and will provide comfort, intimacy and attention to each other, but neither of us is ready for a serious deal!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5904 days ago

21 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - what are the rules of a casual relationship? Hi all, I'm in a 'contractual' relationship with a guy. He's 10 years older than me, divorced and is not looking for a serious relationship. Plus he's not local. I just got out of a messy relationship as well and am not ready for ... (263 words)

I woke up one day to see my husband and all his belongings were gone. We have had a really hard year in our marriage. I'm finding it very hard to manage alone.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5904 days ago

21 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, So my one week ago today I woke up and my husband and all his belongings were gone. I have not heard from him since. We have 2 sons ages 1 and 7. My oldest is devastated and I don't know what to tell him. I know my husband ran back to his mom's house but I haven't contac... (297 words)

Is he asking me to coffee because he's being 'nice', or is he asking me on a date? He's married!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5904 days ago

21 September 2008 (F) age 36-40 - I've known this guy for about a year now. He's 11 years older than I am, married, and I'm confused about his intentions. I always made sure that we only interacted at work. I'm not going to deny that there is an attraction there, but I'm not that kind of girl. I would ra... (163 words)

I had a cyst on my backside that's burst and for weeks now I have a hard lump that won't go away. What could it be?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5883 days ago

21 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This is very embarressing but need sum advice. I had a cyst on my buttocks and it burst weeks ago but now I've been left with a hard lump that won't burst or go away. Had it for weeks now. What could it be?... (45 words)

I got drunk and broke most of the windoes at my school, why is my friend offering to help me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5904 days ago

21 September 2008 (?) age 26-29 - hate my life .All the teachers hate at my school my guts. My family is poor (we don't have a lot of nice things). One night I got so drunk that I broke most of the windows at my school with baseball bat. I can barely remember it. When told one of friends Abby (not her re... (122 words)

When I was born, my belly button cord was cut too short. Will this affect my chances of conceiving?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5904 days ago

21 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - When I was born, I got my belly buttn cut too short so it kept coming undone and bleeding so they burnt it.. would that effect my chances in getting pregnant? ive been having unprotective sex for almost 3 months and still nothing, it maese curious..... (46 words)

Do you think he really likes me or he just took me for granted?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5904 days ago

21 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - so everything started in the bar. this guy is the brother of my friend's boyfriend. we danced and got drunk. i'm not totally drunk so im still aware of whats going on that night. he's trying to kiss me but i always ignore it. but after a couple hours of being with him, i end up ... (546 words)

Don't know how to tell him that it is really his brother that I like and not him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5904 days ago

21 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok there is this guy who i really like, and he kind of likes me also. but the bad thing is his brother is one of my best friends and he also likes me. well his brother asked me to date him and i said no that i wasn't wanting a relationship at the moment, but i only said that ... (98 words)

Why do girls keep running back to the guy they know hurt them most?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

21 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - why do girls keep running back to the guy they know hurt them most? what the hell is it?? i was once a strong girl who never thought to do that...but once i opened up my heart to someone, they basically threw it back in my face and even though after weeks of our break-up, i ... (223 words)

They say time heals but how long will it take to get over my break up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5904 days ago

21 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - how do you get over a guy? its been a month and i was doing fine then all of a sudden i start missing him and start thinking about him even though i know that we could never work because we're just too different and he doesnt match my needs. I cant do this anymore...they say ... (143 words)

I thought my marriage was OK until I met my first cousin and he fell in love with me. I love him too, but don't want to hurt my family!...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5904 days ago

21 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, This question is hard to bare. Butt, I have been married for 14 years and have 2 kids. My marriage I thought was okay, until I took a trip to Texas with my mother to meet some realitives i have never meet before. I meet my first cousin A. We got along real wel... (169 words)

I like to masturbate but once I got a urinary tract infection and I'm afraid to do it again... any suggestions?

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21 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay i have a bunch of questions might as well put them in one thing! Do guys like Pubic hair? If not how do you take it off without those lil' hairs sticking up? (yes iv shaved it before!) How do you tell a guy you like him when you have his email but is too shy to tal... (175 words)

Do you think he let me down gently by saying he was going out of town?? Should I go over to his house since he invited me?? He is 10 years older, by the way...

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21 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a really big crush on my neighbor. It all started about a month ago when we started talking outside and we realized that we had a lot in common. He gave me a few signs that he was interested in me so I decided that I would ask him out. I saw him mowing his grass a few ... (272 words)

I'm a 64yr old man who is in a relationship with a 20yr old girl...

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21 September 2008 (M)

age - i am a 64yr old man who is in a relationship with a 20yr old girl..im also impotent but manage to satify my girl in other ways..we love each other very much..i have tried to end it with her...for her sake but she wont have it...am i being selfish in wanting her to stay with me ... (57 words)

I know can't MAKE him like me, I just want to know, what would be the best way to try?

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21 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - okay well i'm thirteen and i really like a guy but he has a rep. he has gone out with alot of girls, including my bestfriend. but i still like him tons and i like his cuzin more cause his cuzins way cuter, but thats not the point, anyways. i dont know why. he said he like... (182 words)

How do I show him I like him without telling him so...?

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21 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - im a 13 year old girl. I have a crush on someone, and i am really desperate for a boyfriend. I dont know if he likes me because sometimes hes sending me lots of messages by myspace, he laughs at my jokes but sometimes he completely ignores me. How do i find out if he likes me? ... (152 words)

I feel gross and trashy after my girlfriend told me how 'going down' on her is so disgusting!

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21 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I have oral sex. I know that she really enjoys it when I go down on her. This morning I wanted to arouse her so I started talking about eating her pussy. She went on and on about how disgusting eating pussy it. How it’s so gross with it being all around y... (287 words)

Do you think I'm being played? Or is he just being his caring, genuine self?

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21 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Well, I am new at posting and asking for advice, so this is a little hard for me. To start, I never thought I would ever get involved with a married man. At first I did not. We were just good friends and could relate to each other. I met him several years ago, at that time... (242 words)

My sister betrayed me, and my brother couldn't care less about me. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5904 days ago

21 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Please help, Im a 23 yeard old woman currently living with my sister, her kids, husband and my brother. Due to financial issues, I ended up here. I lost my car during the holidays and my brother allowed me to use his car until last month. I didn't pay a dime for 3 months unti... (301 words)

I want to seduce my 30 yr old teacher for fun. Any tips on how?

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21 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, how can i tell if my male teacher is interested in me? Like what signs should i look for? How do i seduce him? Im 17, a highschool senior, and he's in his 30's. So I want 2 seduce him for fun. what way can i do that? Me and him get along like friends, but i want 2 temp... (71 words)

I'm truly willing to wait as long as I have to for her. I guess my question is - how do I keep myself sane in the meantime?

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21 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm a recently divorced 29 yr old male with a HUGE issue. I'm in love with someone elses wife! After my marriage ended close to two years ago I approached relationships in a whole new way, overcautiously. I "played the field" for a while trying to find some kind of connecti... (285 words)

At first we couldn’t keep our hands off each other, but now he doesn't even want to be alone with me. I need advice please.

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21 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend doesn’t seem to like being alone with me anymore. Most of our pastimes now always seems to involve friends and family. We both developed sexual problems and I wonder if it is to do with that. He told me right from the start he can find things difficult to talk ... (419 words)

Will I be better off hurting because I broke up with him, or hurting because he doesn't love me anymore?

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21 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i have been dating for a year and a half. we both lost "it" to each other. i was pregnant once and lost the baby. my point is we've experienced a lot together. we were in love for the first year. we were planning to get married as soon as i was eighteen. he ... (436 words)

Every time I'm about to get over my ex, he tells me loves me and I fall deeply in love with him again! Please help.

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21 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - What should I do? Every time i think im starting to get over my ex b/f, he tells me he still loves me, and that makes it hard for me to move on. I know i still love him but don't want to get back with him, cos of what he did, and when he says 'i-miss-u-i-still-love-you', i fall... (71 words)

I found out he was meeting his ex behind my back, now I want to know if I did the right thing....

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21 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - So I really need help on this one.... I just broke up with my boyfriend of a year and a half. The woman he dated before me he dated off and on for about eleven years and I know that he still has a lot of feelings for her. We shared cell phones and the bill is in my name and ... (356 words)