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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hey every one i just need to talk to some one who understans, i have been married to my husband for 9 months and i love him dearly but his family is driving me insane we still live with them and they think its their right to intrude into every thing i say and do not a day goes by with out me thinking of what they will say next, his mother has successfully managed to turn my husband into a perpetual baby he does not own up to any thing please keep in mind that i do adore him, however his refusal to stand up for me to stop his parents treating me like a slave kills me inside many a times we have fought over this to find myself back to where i started, he is over 30 thousand in debt and moving out is not an option, i just dont know how to get through to him i really dont if only he could step up and do some thing any thing. i dont know what to do
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reader, LilWun23  +, writes (6 March 2009):
well of what i can tell, he has become nothing but a mammas boy
i understand that you and your mother in law have had arguments and he doesnt stand up for you but i will tell you this, if you do once backfire to your in laws he will stand up for his mother because thats just the kind of person he is. i completely agree with the fact that his parents have no saying in what goes on between the 2 of you, yet you say that you both live in their house, do you guys pay any rent? or help out with any income at all like food or cleaning? if you do then this lady needs to back off and you and your husband need to get out and fast!
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