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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm being ignored by someone I'm trying to love...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5948 days ago

8 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - To Anyone Who Can Offer Prospective: I recently moved to a new state about 700 miles away to attend graduate school. I've felt pretty lonely here, where I had come from before I was a social butterfly who had friends anywhere I'd go, which has made my issue especially diffi... (321 words)

Will fertility drugs help me get pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5948 days ago

8 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - my husband and i are trying to have a baby-we have tried for three years and cant aford ivf-they said his sperm count was low and thewy are not great swimmers although they did not rule out that he would not father children----tryinh a turkey basyer--sounds silly but my doctor ... (76 words)

Why does he bring stuff from my past we agreed to forget whenever we fight?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5948 days ago

8 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and I have been together for 5 years. We went through a lot over a year ago. Everything has really been good and everything, but every time we get into an argument, my mistakes are brought up. Some happened a year ago, some happened 4 years ago. I understand that he ... (113 words)

How can I tell if this boy with a "lady's man" reputation likes me or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5948 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) age 30-35 - Ok...so there's this kid. One day and me and a group of friends were playing truth and dare. He got dared to kiss one of my friends but said no and kissed me instead. Now I really like him but don't know whether he likes me or not because he's kind of a "ladies man". I don't ... (97 words)

Our attempt at having sex failed because I was too tight and he was too big. What can I do about this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5945 days ago

8 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - umm ok so me and my bf are really really close. and we've done just about everything...except sex. we tried the other nite and...hes huge...and i think i was to tight. both of us r virgings...i dont kno what to do. it was really emabrassing. i was to tight. i didnt kno ther... (66 words)

I love him so much and he tells me the same but him always leaving me for his ex keeps me frustrated!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5947 days ago

8 September 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - i think i have found my soulmate. he has all the signs of a soulmate, but he says he is in love with someone else, but he keeps running back to me....i feel his thoughts..i have confront him by telling him i know he thinks of me every morning and every night he just smiles and ... (152 words)

Should I give him a second chance for the baby's sake?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5948 days ago

8 September 2008 (F)

- ok i have wrote on here before about my boyfriend, he is in the army. i'm pregnant and have 3 weeks left. My boyfriend of 3 years has been distant with me and went on a lads holiday and basically hasnt spent no time with me. i have recently got a flat and now he is all of a ... (161 words)

How do you know when they love you and mean it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5947 days ago

8 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - If a lad tells you he loves you .. how do you know that he means it ?? x... (19 words)

How can I keep my long distance relationship alive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5947 days ago

8 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I met my boyfriend on holiday and it was amazing. i thought that it would just be a holiday romance but we both wanted it continue afterwards. he lives about 2 hours away. we have been going out for a month now. we really dont get to see eachother very often because we both ... (114 words)

How can I ask out a girl I have just met?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5947 days ago

8 September 2008 (?) age 36-40 - lets say i go to the mall and i see this cute girl, i never met before and she is with a friend i want to talk and maybe ask her out but i don't know how. advice?... (38 words)

Am I being a paranoid, controlling mum or am I right to contact his friend's parents?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5945 days ago

8 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Okay I need your help. In light of the terrible crimes in uk recently regarding knife attacks, am I being a paranoid, controlling mum or am I right to contact his friend's parents? My son (middle child) is 14 and not what i would call streetwise, he is a lovely lad, blonde a... (385 words)

She has a family history of cheating women! How can I stop thinking she will cheat on me too?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5947 days ago

8 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Im a 29 year old male, and I have been currently dating a woman for over a year. We hit it off when we met so we ended up moving in together. Life hasn't been better!!! But I find myself thinking about the following quite a bit, How can I get it out of my head? My girlfriend ... (143 words)

I have now become the doormat or the soap box. What can I do about this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5945 days ago

8 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I would really appreciate your advice and comments. I do not know who else to turn to regarding my situation, someone who can give an unbiased opinion of it. I'm 21 and my 'boyfriend' is 34. We've known each other for roughly 3 years. I did not find him attractive or di... (637 words)

What's the best way to tell him "I love you"?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5948 days ago

8 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hey ive been with my partner for about a year unoffically and about 5 months offically and i think im ready now to tell him that i love him but we havent said it to each other before... we have both said it in a jokey way or said it and then realised what we said and twisted... (100 words)

I'm always the bridesmaid but never the bride!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5948 days ago

8 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i am in high school and i have never had a boyfriend, i have lots of guys who are friends, but i am always the friend and nothing more. please help..thanks.... (31 words)

I fear that he will leave me and find someone else! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5948 days ago

8 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have been going out for a year now. he has started an aprentaship and goes to collage 3 times a week but soon it will only be once a week. I love him so much and as he is two years older than me i am scared he wwill find some1 better than me and will start ... (77 words)

Does my vagina hurt because of the rough sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5150 days ago

8 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I of a year, have been having sex for about 4/5 months. Sometimes, he wants sex when i don't but i don't tell him i don't want to but when we do, i like it and glad i do it. Last weekend, we had sex as soon as i came off my period, we had sex three times th... (105 words)

Why is my girlfriend's past bothering me so much?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

8 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey people I need some help! I have been with my gf for 1 year and 9 month. she is my first ever girlfriend. She is the first girl i have ever done anything with. I have only ever kissed one girl before her. We gave each other our virginity and have told each other that ... (286 words)

After my pregnancy, my husband prefers to look at porn instead of sex with me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5948 days ago

8 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my husband for 5years now, we have 2 babies.. a while back , late at night, he asked what i was about to do... I said,"go sit on the couch"... well, the t.v. timer came on for lesbian sex. I figured I wasnt doin the job, so i go to sex stores, buy lingerie, ... (87 words)

How can I tell my wife that we need to separate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5948 days ago

8 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - hmm well i hope you can help ! iv been with my partner of 10 yrs now im 27 and she is 44 ,we have a son who is three and we love him to bits . unfortunately our relationship is very stale and even tho we laugh together and go out together as a family its not the same . For a ... (173 words)

I'm involved a crazy love triangle!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5926 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - Alright this one is a tough one, so I'll try to really explain this one. I'm involved in a crazy love triangle. I have a child with a guy who has another child with another girl. She has two children ages 2 and 5. Now a couple months ago I got involved with her other childs ... (106 words)

My ex had unprotected sex with another guy and got pregnant. Now she want my help! What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5947 days ago

8 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My ex girlfriend and I have been broken up for 4-5 months now. We dated for over 4 years. I had been trying to work things out with her but it was not going anywhere. There was too much history to throw away. In July I was out with a coworker at a bar and she showed up with ... (241 words)

How can I accept my appearance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5947 days ago

8 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi their, this isnt a love or sexual question, its more about appearance.. im about 5'4 large built and a little overweight.. alot of people tell me how pretty i am, but all i see is ugly and fat, i got tormented at school when i was younger when i was much bigger but i los... (375 words)

How can I talk other women knowing I'll never pleasure them sexually?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5929 days ago

8 September 2008 (M)

age - hi, i dont know where to start, i am married with four grown up children, ok here we go, my youngest is 27 she has a girl 8 years old and a boy 3 years old. she was on heroin and me and my wife went through hell with her, we got her of it eventualy but my wife took depress... (124 words)

How can I handle my lover's best friend who wants to tear us apart?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5947 days ago

8 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I really need advice on this and Im sorry for the length but to truly understand you kinda need to know everything. It's a very complex situation. I've already established that this isnt perhaps a great situation, but I need help on how to deal with it. Im very confused. ... (953 words)

Should I send him packing after what's happened? Is this fair?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5948 days ago

8 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm in my junior year of college right now in a three bedroom apartment. The problem is that I have a third roomate, my ex-boyfriend that I'd been seeing almost four years. Previously I had been living with him for the past two years rent-free because he had wanted me to. ... (393 words)

I need tips on how to make friends. I don't want to be friendless my whole life!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5948 days ago

8 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 16 year old girl and I was wondering how to make friends, because I don't have any and I really don't know how to make some, and I don't want to be friendless all my life and I don't know how to go about it. Any tips? Thank you xxx... (54 words)

Is he telling the truth? Should I trust him? He refused to let me see the cell phone bill!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5946 days ago

8 September 2008 (F)

age - My husband of 5 years had an affair while I was out of the country for 2 weeks. He said it was over(after 3months). I asked to see the cell phone bill. He refused and I needed to trust him. He gets so angry when I ask. Is he telling me the truth. What should I do.... (57 words)

I haven't done anything with this new guy, as that would be cheating, but I do like him! I'm confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5948 days ago

8 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for three and a half months and it was great at first, but these days things are just different. He can be moody and distant, and he now answers my texts with just a few words (no kisses), or not at all. When I try and make conversation when hes in a ... (224 words)

Cheating boyfriend drama! Should I attempt to trust him or take him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5934 days ago

8 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello all. CHEATING BF DRAMA I have the same story of so many young ladies. My bf cheated and it hurt. We have been together for 3 years now. Our first year together, we were college freshmen. He transferred from his school to my school for the spring semeste... (987 words)

Did I do the right thing in ending it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5948 days ago

8 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i was with my ex for 2 months but i never had sex with him i just wasnt ready he said that he understands and that he would wait till i was ready. so any way one night i went out with friends got drunk and he thinks for some reason i had sex with 2 other lads i dont no ... (148 words)

I need flirting tips...anyone got any good ideas?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5948 days ago

8 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone im 15 and would really love some tips on the best ways to flirt with guys i have quite a few of guy friends just would like a boyfriend like, at parties or like bowling or something please give me some hints, im quite shy about this sort of thing, although ... (90 words)

My husband seems far too emotionally attached to his ex-wife! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

8 September 2008 (F)

age - I have been married a little over a year, but we have been together for 8 years.He has this emotional relationship with his ex wife that drives me nuts and when we speak about it he gets very defensive, he is also recovering in and out alcoholic.She gets me sick they have 2 ... (133 words)

My girlfriend told me she cheated on me and I cant look at her the same anymore..advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5948 days ago

8 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - hi i am a 16 year boy old that needs a woman's view on how to deal with my relationship. my girlfriend told me that she cheated on me a month ago, twice. two days after she cried in my arms and told me she was going to have a baby. she even said that one of the people she did ... (153 words)

Occasional intimacy issues, need advice from the ladies

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5948 days ago

8 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been dating a girl I really like for 3 months now. We decided we want to be exclusive with each other. We're both mid-to late 20's. We get along GREAT, she hasnt been in a r'ship in 3 yrs (because she claims to not have found a guy she wants to settle with) but tells me ... (560 words)

What's the best way to make new cooler friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5948 days ago

8 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone im 15 and have a lot of good friends, although i dont have a close circle of friends i go to a girls school and dont have that many guy friends like i have a few from my youth club i would love some more friends, also i love going out in the evenings n... (112 words)

How to survive an affair? I still feel betrayed and don't know what to do.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5948 days ago

8 September 2008 (F)

age - How to survive an affair? My husband and I have been married for 16 years. About one year ago, after a very tough period together, I found out he was having an affair and had been for atleast a year with a woman who had worked for him previously. I had been told about the a... (144 words)

I don't want to lose him! Should I sleep with him? Help!?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5948 days ago

8 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hiya.. ive been with this man for a few month and its been perfect.. just he rang me saying is this going to go further ? .. I havnt slept with him yet .. and im only 16 .. hes 20 .. im just scared incase he only wants me for one thing .. and i have only ever had sex once ... (97 words)

Do any guys seriously contemplate their responsibilities as in a married life before proposing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5948 days ago

8 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My query is very simple. Do any guys seriously contemplate their responsibilities as in a married life before proposing? I have received innumerable proposals over time but i have not find a single man who realises that marriage is more than a fantasy world and most ... (75 words)

I have no clue what he's thinking! Does he not like me as a friend, is he uncomfortable or intimidated?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5948 days ago

8 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - It's kind of a long post, but I really have no clue what hes thinking and how i'm feeling, because i'm so confused at the moment. Okay, well.. In May 2008 I started dating this guy in my school, I knew him for a year before because he was new, and he liked me back and that's b... (406 words)

I have inverted nipples, do you think this product will help me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5948 days ago

8 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone i was just wanting some advise. i hate my inverted nipples, like they get be really down and upset, and really want to do something about them. so ive been searching and have found a product called advnt niplette which looks quite good and has good reviews. o... (118 words)

I found my husband had sent texts to a woman he met on an adult friend finder website!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5947 days ago

8 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and I have been married for ten years. I have never had cause to think that he was cheating on me. We have a healthy sex life, he is home every night at the same time, we talk about everything, and he is my best friend. Last night I found a couple of text messages ... (181 words)

After we met, he stopped communicating! What's happened, could he be into another girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5948 days ago

8 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - basically i started talking to a guy on the internet just over a month ago. we really clicked straight away and would speak for twelve hours at a time. after a couple of weeks we also started with phone conversations and he seemed really into me, he'd drop constant hints about ... (324 words)

Does this mean I like porn more than I like my girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5943 days ago

8 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, i'm 17 years old and have a girlfriend of 10 months. I sometimes look at porn and masterbate when she is away for long periods of time, and when i get an erection looking at porn it is always bigger and harder than when i get an erection doing stuff with my girlfriend (sex, ... (81 words)

I'm confused by his actions! Do I try to keep him as a friend? Will he contact me again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5947 days ago

8 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - HI this is a bit of a long one but I really could do with some kind of clarification here or advice. I went on a date with this guy back in January. We hit it off really well and he said he wanted to see how things go. The next time I heard from him he told me that he had b... (374 words)

Porn and sex, not so black and white...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5932 days ago

8 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Married for two yrs, one child. My husband and I have sex daily. He orgasms at least twice a day by sex, oral, and you name it, i'm game. Yet he still looks at porn. One, i am completely amazed he has it in him, and two it hurts that despite my best efforts i don't satisfy his ... (172 words)

I'm concerned that she's going to try to take him away from me. How do I tell her to back off?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5947 days ago

8 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - In the past year and a half, my boyfriend and I have had a lots of ups and downs and things were finally seeming to get better again when 2 weeks ago on Saturday we were at a friends house and we met a girl, lets call her C. My pregnant friend, we'll call her L had told me ... (903 words)

Please help me guess if he likes me or not!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5948 days ago

8 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - dear cupid theres a boy in my tutor group who i fancy like hell but i fell he stares at me i dunno why. he talks to me kind and i went out with him 1 time before in year 7 but i was his first girlfriend and he was fridged bit then he ended it and i was gobsmacked!!!!!!! ... (140 words)

I'm worried about her tendency to lie about big and small things. How do I deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5948 days ago

8 September 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I've been engaged for a few months now and my fiance stays in another town. I love with all my heart and I am looking forward to our future together. There is however one issue that worries me. She has the tendency of lying about issues both small and big particularly about ... (106 words)

Do I follow my heart or listen to other's opinions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5943 days ago

8 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi.a guy ive just been dating suggested we settle down together,i love him to pieces and wana spend my life with him but im almost 21(hes 40) and my friends say i have my future ahead of me and i should wait but i love him...do i follow my heart or listen to other ppls ... (57 words)

He told me he was lusting after other women, which was a shock to me as I thought he'd become rather asexual! Should I be worried and what can I do to spice things up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5948 days ago

8 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi - hoping someone can help me out here. I've been with my partner for 16 years. He is 44 (I'm 5 years younger). We have two young kids. He wasn't so keen on having kids but went along with the plan. Things haven't been great with us lately and we've been in counselling etc. ... (378 words)

Do you think I can make things work? Or should I just come clean to my hubby? What to do? Help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5947 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) age 41-50 - Hi everyone This might turn out to be a bit long so bear with me. Here´s my dilemma: I have no idea how to save my marriage. I´m 32, my hubby is 40. We´ve been married for 9 years now. Our marriage has been a bumpy ride but we´ve always had a strong bond, similar interest... (1367 words)

He posted as a bi curious male, views gay porn, so do you think my ex is gay (he denied this)?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

8 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi IM 23 and female, my now ex partner is 22 and male, we have been going out now for a year and a half. A couple of weeks ago I found a dating account that my partner had set up when we had been goiong out for approx 5months, on this account he posted himself as a bi curious ... (196 words)

How can I aproach my wife so that we make love at lease once a week?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5946 days ago

8 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi... I'm 32 and she's 37.We've been together for 5 years.Every year we have less sex(1-2 times/ month) but the quality of our sex is phenomenal. My desire for her is very intense but she refuses to have sex more than 1-3 times/ month and it's usually me who initiates it. ... (149 words)

I won't let my boyfriend go down on me because I think it's disgusting down there!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5946 days ago

8 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend wants to go down on me but im uncomfortable with it cuz i mean isnt it disgusting down there like the pee comes out from there and its slimy and smelly and hairy so why would anyone want to do that?... (44 words)

Breaking up with a long time lover - did you keep in touch as friends? How did you manage?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5948 days ago

8 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - To all those out there. I have a question about being friends after a breakup. I have just split from a long term lover, because we could not be together due to external circumstances. We were a fantastic match and broke amicably due to this other factor. Now we are faced ... (116 words)

He admitting he thought he might be gay but then he changed his mind! How is this possible?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5948 days ago

8 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Help, my boyfriend has just admitted that he thought he might be gay this summer. I found chat logs of him talking to men and web-camming with gay men on the internet. He says that it was just a phase and that he loves me, which i totally believe as well but I don't see how ... (103 words)

Lacking passion in my relationship!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5948 days ago

8 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years, and I love him very much..But I am not in love with him, and I never was, since the beginning...but we just click on every level except physical attraction and passion, so the relationship grew..I am just not that attracted to him, to ... (134 words)

Why are we not conceiving?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5947 days ago

8 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I hope someone can help me on this.... Ive been with my boyfriend for some time and have been off the pill for around a year and a half. I have never managed to concieve.... i have been to the doctors and have been for a scan and bloodtests. they told me i am fine..my bf's... (134 words)

I've never had sex. Could I still be pregnant?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5947 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) age 30-35 - Hello. I'm a 17-year old female with a slightly odd problem (at least, i think it is..) Basically, I haven't menstruated since around July-ish (maybe... i can scarcely remember; but I did have two periods this summer). I'm about 110 lb, and I'm showing absolutely no sign o... (161 words)

He's looking for group sex - am I fair to be feeling this way?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

8 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - i have found out that when we split up my ex partner went on a large site looking for group sex and couple sex and he never put his sexual orientation as being straight. I thought that i had a child with a decent heterasexual man but it seems that he is just a pervert and i ... (76 words)

Is it possible to change his mind?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5948 days ago

8 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - The man i'm dating although he is caring for me and he shows his feelings he constantly refuses that there will be a serious commitment for us in the future. When we discuss this subject always he refuses a future for us. Is there a possibility to change his mind or i should ... (71 words)

We keep fighting and now he doesn't want to see me any more. How do I get him back?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5947 days ago

8 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend had been arguing a lot until about 2 weeks ago and since then we had been getting on great until yesterday. Yesterday we started arguing again, and he would not let me out his room as he had locked the door and took the key. He was however still in the roo... (494 words)

Why would my boyfriend want to have a threesome with another guy? Is he bisexual?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5799 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - my boyfriend of 3 years wants me to do a 3 some with him, but not with a girl, with a guy! when we werent' serious we had a threesome with my bestfriend he didnt have sex with her but yeah, we did. and now he's saying he wants me to have sex with another guy. is it becau... (131 words)

He's older, he likes me, but he said no. Should I wait a while and ask again, or just leave him alone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5948 days ago

8 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 18 just starting college. I met this guy in one of my classes who happened to know my sister. We had a long talk, and I found out he was 32. (to my surprise! He seemed so young.) Now he, my sister and I hang out all the time and have so much fun. He's such a nice and ... (367 words)

Faded attraction for my BF, I want to explore more sexually wise, our biggest problem is we cannot afford separate appartments.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5948 days ago

8 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Here's my dilemma- My BF of 2 years does not turn me on AT ALL anymore. He hasn't for the past 6 months, and at first I thought I was just having a slump and didn't want sex with anyone, but now I am just so attracted to other guys. I fantasize about them and flirt shameles... (254 words)

Does it sound like he is in a serious relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5948 days ago

8 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - if a man is using adultfinder a site in which the people on it are looking for sexual encounters does it sound like he is in a serious relationship or is a man probably single? ps he is not my boyfreind.... (41 words)

How do I approach her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5948 days ago

8 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I am 27yrs old guy i am very much atracted towards my cousin who is 17yrs old. Every time i see her i feel to make love with her. I know she also loves me.But i dont know how to approach her. Please help me out.... (46 words)

Can anyone give me information about all contraceptive methods?

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8 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I used to be on the pill, because I had heavy periods and stomach cramps. A year after I began taking the pill I found out there was many associated risks, eg. Cancers. So I stopped the pill. Now I have a great boyfriend and am considering becoming sexually active, although... (104 words)

She says she loves me and I'm the perfect guy for her but... she doesn't want to be my girlfriend!

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8 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - ok then the girl ive been seeing for months says were just friends,yet we reguarly have sex an talk about a serious relationship together.but she says she doesnt love me and wants nothing with me,yet she says im the perfect guy and if she was to get pregnant,she would have a ... (95 words)

How long should I wait on sex to earn respect in a relationship?

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8 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok it's super unlike me to wait on sex but I'm coming to realize that pretty much if you want someone to respect you, you have to give it some time. So... how long do I give it and more importantly how the hell do I politely turn it down??? Guys are pretty much used to girls ... (81 words)

I have nightmares and hear voices before I sleep. What should I do?

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8 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - i'm 13 and i have never had a real problom sleeping before but for the past few months i keep hearing things that keep me up at night so i turn the tv on to block out the noise. but then i wake up agin and hear my name being called over and over each louder then the last. w... (118 words)

How can I learn to open up and be more vulnerable?

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8 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My mom tells me I'm "too guarded." My ex-boyfriends will say that I'm not bad at love - I'm just bad at being vulnerable. And I know that they're right. For a lot of reasons that probably make sense if you look at my past, I can be very friendly on a superficial leve... (217 words)

I don't know how to 'snog' - any advice?

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8 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Oke so i am 15 neally 16 and i dont know how to snog. Girls keep asking me out and i say no then ma m8s say why did you say no she is hot so i gotta keep makin excuses. Can sum ppl give me some advice on how to snog?Would love to have a gf to send presants to and care for =) T... (69 words)

Do guys like curly hair, or should I straighten it?

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8 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - ok.. so i have pretty long hair. it goes down to my ribs. my hair is naturally very, very curly! usually i just scrunch my hair and work with my curls.. but lately like halfway through the school day, my hair gets very frizzy. it bugs me alot. i understand the reasons for frizz ... (100 words)

I like a younger guy from work, but I'm taken and his parents don't like me.

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8 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i have a friend at work who i like alot but there are a few problems. first he's 17(will be 18 next month) and i'm 20. second i'm in a relationship. and third his parents don't want us to be friends at all because of the age. i really like him and i don't know what to do help. ... (59 words)

The girl I like is moving away, and three other guys in my class like her too!

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8 September 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - well im a 12 year old kid and i like this girl for years and theres 3 of this other guys from my class likes her so plz tell how to get her. and shes leaving to texas at christmas...... im so desprate=[... (44 words)

Does he like me or am I being naive?

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8 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this guy that I'm currently talking to, let's just call him M. M and I randomly met some time ago - I actually can't remember how I know him, but I have him on MSN and every few months or so, we chat, flirt and make light conversation. Well, now things have changed ... (217 words)

My girlfriend is too "shy" to call or initiate contact...any ideas?

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8 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been dating a woman for a few months, and lately we've had to spend some time apart, I've realized that she generally waits for me to initiate any communication. I understand that she loves me...or has said so- she come to visit from a great distance...there seems to be ... (104 words)

I feel like I am running our relationship - should I sit back and see if he takes the reigns?

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8 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel like I shouldnt have to be running my relationship. He never initiates anything, even going out or sex. our 5 year anniversary is coming up and i want him to put in some effort and so something special. yeah i could contribute seeing as this is our day but he forgot my ... (168 words)

Is his need for porn normal?

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8 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - As far as I know my husband is happily married. We have been married just over a year and we have a very active and open sex life. I get that masturbation is normal, but he has to look up porn every time, like submit your ex on sublime directory. We had sex this morning and I ... (80 words)

I slept with a former classmate and regret it, and now I haven't heard from him. Do I have a chance or have I blown it?

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8 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - A month ago I attended my 20th high school reunion and hooked-up with one of my former classmates. Unfortunately, I called him later that night because we were kind of friends - as we had been sporadically emailing each other before the reunion - and because he was driving 4 ... (213 words)

I dumped her for cybering on webcam with other guys - did I do the right thing?

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8 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - i met my girlfriend online about 6 months ago and we live 3000 miles away from eachother. she flew out for a week to meet me and ended up staying 2. a month later she moved here and in with me and everything was fine for a few weeks. she started getting on instant messenge... (346 words)

He says he doesn't do oral sex - is he lying or is it something else?

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8 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am hooking up with a guy who does not perform oral sex. He says it is reserved for his wife-to-be or if he is drunk. He has done it before, but not to me. He says it is a cultural thing for him, that the boys he grew up with are all the same. So, is he just blowing shit ... (75 words)

I am pregnant with my ex's child, but he wants nothing to do with me.

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8 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - im pregnant, my boyfriend and i broke up...things were good till he cheated on me on the roof while i was in the house....at that time i didnt know i was pregnant. later i told him and he came down to support me or so he said.....(we lived in anther state, i had moved)...so he ... (147 words)

My boyfriend knows I've cheated on him once - do I tell him about the other times?

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8 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - okay well i love my boyfriend with ALL my heart and would never want to lose him but i cheated on my boyfriend [of 5 years] 4 times (3 from plyin spin the phone) he only nos about 1 time he forgave me but i never gained that trust back. i feel EXTREMLY guilty about everytime ... (128 words)

He doesn't want kids - EVER!

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8 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm only 20 years old and I don't plan on having children any time soon as I want a career and to focus on myself for the next ten or fifteen years. I'm getting married to an old friend who I've cared very much about for years now and we tragically lost contact due to hard tim... (216 words)

I cheated on my husband and now I don't know what to do.

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8 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I am concerned that since we got married that things have changed. Things aren’t the same as they were before. I don’t feel like a wife, I don’t feel special, I feel like a roommate. I can’t really pinpoint any specific thing that may have changed, it’s just the way I’m feel... (930 words)

I may be too needy and others don't respect me for it! Help!

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8 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey Not sure this is realy sexual or relationship themed, but i think ultimately it does relate. Am going through a bit of a confusing time at the moment. I live in a large shared house, we are all students, about 9 lads all known each other for ages. I find that ev... (521 words)

I need his help with out son..how can I convince him to move in?

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8 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - how can i convince my boyfriend to move in with me so that I have help taking care of our son???... (21 words)

My boyfriend hardly orgasms with a condom on. Any reason why?

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8 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have sex atleast twice a month for the past 5 months and we are both 18.We had sex without a condom twice and he came in about 3 minutes,but with a condom sex lasts for hours and its difficult for him to come although the sex is good for both of us. What do ... (83 words)

His ex wife won't let me see my step daughter...what can I do?

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8 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband's ex-wife won't let me see my step daughter when he leaves for boot camp (army) what can I do about it?... (23 words)