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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He treated me terribly, abused me and broke up with me--but I miss him!

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4 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex boyfriend who i went out with for around a year, suddenly turned on me. he began to spread not very nice comments. it was as if he did t too make himself loo big infront of his friends. He hit me and also booted me. and tells me that if he ever see's me again he will ... (130 words)

I don't feel bad about breaking up with my ex--what is wrong with me?

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4 September 2008 (?) age 26-29 - Hi.... I broke up with my bf yesterday, but i dont feel bad about it. He didnt talk to me for 3 weeks, not one "i love you" for 3 weeks...ooh i was so frusterated. Almost 2 weeks maybe more then 2 weeks ago, i met a different guy that loves me very much.=) im happy! But wh... (93 words)

I have had to fake before...can someone help me so I can stop?

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4 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my partner for 3 years, and he recently proposed. The thing is, for those 3 (sexually active) years i have, quite a lot of the time, faked orgasms. The only way i can seem to orgasm is if my c*** is rubbing against him, like on top or sitting on him. I also ... (159 words)

My fiance wants us to live with his mother...what can I do?

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4 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my partner for 3 years now and a few weeks ago, we become engaged and have started to plan a wedding in disney, florida in 2010. a few weeks/months before he proposed, we began thinking about seriously moving to florida. He is 27, and i am 19. He still lives ... (314 words)

Am I jealous because I don't want to move on?

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4 September 2008 (F)

age - Does it mean I'm jealous if I feel sick to my stomach when the person I have been dating for three years suggest we move on? He moved out of the area for work.... (34 words)

He lies to me constantly...is he cheating on me?

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4 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi pls help, my head is a mess! iv been with my bf for 2months, he was in a r/ship for 6yrs b4 me, iv had doubts with trust becus he lies to me so much, once i was stoppin at his mates with him n they thought i was asleep n thy were talking about meetin 8girls to get drunk with ... (286 words)

Do I like him? I'm feeling confused.

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4 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok... i like this guy aaron and he had a g.f adn they broke up and me and him are good friends... she startes spreading shit about me b/c we were friends... and now he said he likes me and stuff but the thing hat worrys me is 1) they are friends now. 2) i dont think i liek ... (295 words)

Is it worth going against my friends and hers so we can be together?

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4 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i realy like this girl, and she likes me, but the one problem is that shes one of my mates sisters, im 17 and shes 15, and were pretty certain we could go pretty far, but the her sister is over protective,i guess, and doesnt want her going anywhere near me... so i dont want to ... (113 words)

Can you help me figure out my conception date?

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4 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - If my last period was on November 20-29th(not sure the exact day) and i gave birth on August 19th to twin girls both weighing 6pds, could i have conceived on December 15th? I know i need to get a DNA test between 2 men. I was with one guy for the first 2 weekends in the month ... (68 words)

I think he's too shy to ask me out, so what should I do?

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4 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 16 and there's this guy who i met like 3 months ago and since then we have been flirting/texting/msning/talking a lot like a couple of days a week and i know he likes me - its obvious and he knows i like him but i feel he's too shy to ask me out he always prompts it by ... (80 words)

I can't afford to move out of my parents' house (which is terrible) for now, I'm worried she will dislike this.

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4 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm not sure but i'm thinking me and this girl are getting along, but i feel worried because my parents house is terrible. They really don't care about the state of the place and it is trully awful! obviously i love them but i don't know what this girl is gonna think if i show ... (76 words)

What do I do now that he isn't showing any interest?

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4 September 2008 (F)

- Ok, an update of my situation... I dumped my boyfriend a week after our 10 month anniversary. Everythings fine there now. I persued guy #2. (Mightve mentioned this already but) we met up while i was still with my boyfriend and we ended up kissing, and then again when id s... (423 words)

My boyfriend asked me to have a threesome with another man, is he gay?!

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4 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a strange feeling my boyfriend might be gay, he's 26 , comes from a muslim background, very, very clean and organised, this is the 1st time he is in a relationship and he tells me he loves me every single day. When it comes to sex (and it's minimum once a day) he likes ... (324 words)

My hubby rarely has initiatives, and I need to feel wanted! Would it be wrong to have an affair?

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4 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I am married but I don't know what it is about me that I feel I need to have this affair. I have not yet gotten involved, but am seriuosly thinking about it. I have a few guy friends that really want to, knowing that I am married, but my question is should I? My husband is a ... (130 words)

Hate to think of them together - my best friend and her boyfriend who I started to like before they even dated!

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4 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My best friend, let's call her Rachel, is going out with this boy, let's call him Joe. They were good friends for nearly a year, and I met him through her, so we're friends too. Anyway that's just 'setting the scene' .. basically, I started to like Joe, and about a month or two ... (170 words)

Will my boobs ever stop growing? I go through bras like water!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5922 days ago

4 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i know this sounds like a realy stupid question but will my boobs ever stop growing?! theyre really startin to bother me now, all my friends tell me how amazin they are and how they wish they had bigger boobs and stuff, but it really pisses me off when boys talk to them instead ... (200 words)

My boyfriend thinks I'm a sex addict because I want him to go down on me?!

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4 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hi there i have a peculiar problem..my boyfriend doesnt want to go down on me..he makes me do it to him... he says hes never done it to another girl..though hes had sex a lot...i cant understand..he thinks im a sex addict..theres nothing wrong with me...or is there?he... (119 words)

Was the tarot card reader a phony? We were supposed to marry but now we are married to other people and cheated!

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4 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I’m happily married and in love with my husband and on Friday I bumped into my Ex on myspace who is now married too, so I thought we’d just have a casual conversation since it’s been more than 12 or 13yrs. Some how a msg, ended up to IMing. We spoke like if nothing had ever ... (426 words)

Does he like me or was he just bored and drunk?

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4 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well basically, i had amazing sex with my best guy friend. We always talk, and before this, he would text me near enough everyday, although this had only been going on for about a month beforehand. He knew I liked him, I told him monthssss back, but because he was unsure as... (276 words)

Should I trust my ex even though she makes rash decisions?

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4 September 2008 (F)

age - I was in a relationship for 4 years (4 years ago). My ex took me to court (a promise she made not to do at the beginning of the relationship b/c it happened to me before). I totally trusted that she would never do it. She did. We've been back and forth for 4 years (seeing ... (132 words)

Am I normal not to fancy anyone at my age?

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4 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I am 34. Going to be 35 this year. Shhh! I don't fancy anyone either. I have been single for 3 years. My past relationships have been with men who just use me. One for money, hid me away and the other as a ground sheet as my mother put it. I don't fancy anyone. I don't know if ... (144 words)

I'm dating my twin's best friend! Should I keep it a secret?

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4 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 15 years old and I have a problem. I am secretly dating my twin brother's best friend. I know that my brother knew, it would be very awkward. I love my brother and I don't want to do anything that would make him angry, but my boyfriend is a great guy and I don't want ... (98 words)

I'm pregnant and having a fling! It's hurting me because we can never be 'official'....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5944 days ago

4 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - im 22 yrs old with child and a partner.for the past couple of months i have been having a fling with someone who i know really well, but he has his own family too and i think im falling in love with him.i cant help it and its hurting me because i know that we can never be ... (61 words)

Should I have an affair because my husband acts like I'm not important?

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4 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - i am 43, married, but i have always had guys around me. Never have been "alone". Recently got married, but i still have these guys as friends, my husband sometimes treatsme, i feel, as though I am not important to him. I am thinking about having an affair. What should I do?... (52 words)

I'm a needy, clingy guy! How do I change this?

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4 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - OK, so I'm a needy clingy guy, like all of the girls the guys always talk about being sick of. When I'm with someone, I think about her non-stop, cant wait to call/txt msg/email. I've been seeing this girl for 2 months now, and I think it's starting to wear on her. She is out ... (160 words)

What can I do to increase my low sex drive?

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4 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - What can I do to increase my low sex drive? I'm almost positive that it's low because of psychological reason. My in-laws have become far too intrusive and my husband allows them to control all aspects of our lives. Because of this I have lost all desire for my husband since ... (169 words)

It's like I'm having some weird, platonic affair with the guy I work with but he has a girlfriend!

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4 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in love with a guy I work with and it is driving me mad! We have been really good friends for a long time now and spend most lunchtimes together. A few months ago after a work night out he kissed me and said he liked me, since then i have really fallen for him but he has a ... (212 words)

What do I do about inverted nipples?

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4 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 15 and have inverted nipples. HELP! I hate them so much. they make me self concious. what can i do to make them go away? ive heard you can get an operation but i dont want this....and also ive heard of something called breast shields...what are they? where can i get... (93 words)

Do our ages really matter if we are teens?

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4 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Does age really matter?? Me and this girl have started talking and we are meeting up soon just to go cinema and that, we are kind of seing each other at the mo but nothing serious, she's 14 and im 17. I dont want anyone to think that im with her for just one thing and that ... (147 words)

I feel like I'm in an unequal relationship due to her past!

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4 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - This is very common, I know! I started seeing my girlfriend almost 4 months ago, and right from the start we were very open about our sexuality and sexual past. I told her I had only had sex with one girl previously (my girlfriend of 6 years) and a few other sexual experienc... (738 words)

How do I make him give me the commitment I'm looking for?

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4 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating my boyfriend for 2 years now. In the time that I have known him he has lived with his dad and he is far too old to be doing that. I lived with him there for a while and have my own place now, but how do I convince him he needs to get his stuff in order or he ... (159 words)

Am I reading too much into this and do I need to move on?

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4 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have feelings for a girl a work. We kind of flirt about (nothing really suggestive just jokey) to the extent that a number of people have made suggestions over the last few years including at one point one of her friends saying didn’t I realise that she was into me. ... (470 words)

Getting him out of my life isn't an option. What can I do to get him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5951 days ago

4 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 16 and i am in love with an ex. When i was 14 I met him,he was 16 and rather gorgous. We went out for a couple of months. It wasnt serious, cause i was only 14, then we split up over him liking my best friend. After that he went round my friends in a way... none lastin ... (281 words)

I'm 42 and I may be pregnant and don't want to be! What are my options?

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4 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm 42 and think I may be pregnant. Don't want to be! I already have 2 older kids and this was just a slip up. Apparently the chances of fertility decreasing over 40 didn't apply to me. I want to get the abortion pill but it costs over $400 and a procedure probably more. I ... (90 words)

Does she have a personality disorder?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5952 days ago

4 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - i'm confused about a personality issue. A couple I know is getting divorced. He pretty much can convince her of anything. He told her not to get a lawyer, not to tell her friend and family until after the agreement was made and signed and she does it! All through their ... (130 words)

Why is he with this girl when he flirts with and misses me?

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4 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am confused on what to do, please help! My ex and I broke up 2 years ago, after a very long friendship before the relationship and him wanting me a long time before we went out, I broke it off as he became too clingly and wanted me to be with him all the time. As time... (156 words)

The love of my life just left me and I want her back!

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4 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - So my girlfriend and I were together for 15mo. and we lived together for 11mo. She broke up with me last month telling me that we are just too different people. She also said that I didn't appreciate her, or support any of her beliefs/values. I feel like this may be true but ... (164 words)

The obvious thing would be to let this go but how do I act in the next few months?

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4 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - He and I have known each other since we were 13. When we were freshmen in high school, we would go through periods of being together and being apart--it wasn't anything serious. Last year, I contacted him for the first time in over a year. We hit it off right away. I had ... (543 words)

Does he want a baby with me or was this an accident?

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4 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I need help. I have a sex buddy who Im falling in love with, and we usually use condoms, but has gradually changed. Now we don't use condoms and occassionally he doesn't "pull out". Last night he didn't pull out. I'm wondering does he want a baby by me. He said it was an ... (87 words)

Complicated love triangle and I need urgent help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5952 days ago

4 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 19 and I've been in a long-distance relationship for 4 years. I live in the United States and he lives in Europe so we only get to see each other once a year, during the summer for 3 months. Everything has been going great though, we talk everyday and we even made plans of ... (413 words)

He acts weird since the death of his grandfather. What can I do?

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4 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Help! My boyfriend's Grandfather died a few months ago, and he was really upset, so he seemed to ignore me a bit... But he then started to talk to me again... Now he very rarely talks to me and he acts really weird if he is with his friends and I'm there... What can I do?... (56 words)

He is not sure he wants to be involved with someone who has kids. Should I move forward with this anyway?

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4 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I am 36 and met a man who is 49. We are both going through divorces and found comfort in each other. We have a lot in common and it is very easy to talk to him. I have told him things that I never told my husband in 18 years of marriage. He is afraid to get involved in ... (142 words)

Is it normal to worry about your wife cheating on you during a deployment?

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4 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Is it normal to worry about your wife cheating on you during a deployment? It's hard to not think about it from time to time. I feel I worry more because of my cirmcumstances. I have'nt even known my wife for a full year, about 10 months. Theres always that feeling that the... (257 words)

I met a girl at camp and we hit it off! What should I do?

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4 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I met a girl at a camp i went to and we really hit it off, she told me i was perfect, but when we left she said she didnt want to start a relationship because she was scared, and didnt want to get hurt. Her friends told me when we left the girl cried for 2 hours. When i later ... (140 words)

Am I blowing his friendship with this girl all out of proportion?

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4 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some advice on how to deal with my boyfriend seeing his ex-girlfriend on a regular basis. Some background information.. Me and the boyfriend have been going out for a year. He dated this girl right before me, the girl broke up with him and he got together with me... (268 words)

Am I pestering her too much? I can't stand giving up!

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4 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - ok, i don't know if this is a petty question but, a girl i am losing my mind over has been chatting to me on msn and replying to me on texts and emails but she now leaves off the x. i put one in everytime, she started leaving them in emails but now has stopped. I know she's a ... (116 words)

How do I let people know I'm straight?

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4 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I don't know why but people think think I'm gay, but I'm actually a straight male. Sometimes gay guys hit on me, and I don't mind but how can I let people know I'm straight?... (35 words)

My lover wants me to "go down on" him, but the idea makes me nervous...

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4 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey...Just a little question. My lover wants me to "go down on" him, but I remain very nervous when the subject of me doing anything remotely sexual with him or anybody comes up. Part of me really likes the idea of doing this to him, but I just cant get over my nerves. Any ... (61 words)

Question about my height?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5952 days ago

4 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi i have just turned 15 years old and my peers tower over me at average of 5'9, i am 5'5 and am around girl height at my school. My question is will i still grow to at least 5'9 (My dads height). Thanks... (49 words)

I'm not calling this guy again but why did he give me his number? He never responded!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5951 days ago

4 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Ok, now what happens when the case is this: I had a terrible fall out with my boyfriend and I went out to think things over and in fact I was thinking I should leave him, because he did something I felt was really wrong.Our relationship was not going well for sometime now, but ... (570 words)

We split up because he says, we argue too often. He says he still loves me, I'm worried it's because he wants sex.

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4 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, my boyfriend finished me on my birthday a couple of weeks ago and im still upset. he never really cheated on me but chatted up other girls on the internet. i read his conversations to 3 girls, three of which i know and i cant stand. i was with him for 1 year and 2 days. his ... (141 words)

Am I bored of my boyfriend because I felt 'sparks' with another guy?

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4 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for over a year, we live together and I love him to bits. However, we recently went to a festival and camped with some friends and their friends. One of these guys was very funny and quite good looking, and I felt sparks between us. I didn't do ... (105 words)

Will it be possible for me to concentrate on my school while I am training to become a medical assisstant? Should I try to do both?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5952 days ago

4 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. this isnt a relationship question..but i think that it can change my life. I am a full time student in college and I want to become a medical assitant. My Dad thinks that it is a bad idea but I dont seem to think so..later on in life i plan to become a registered nurse and ... (331 words)

I love my official boyfriend and he doesn't know that I cheat on him, I don't know why I'm doing this to him?

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4 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i am a female aged 25 and single. i have 3 men in my life. i have sleept with them all. 2 are married, 1 is a devorcee and they are all 37years old. my official boyfriend(my friends kno abt him)is the divorcee. one of the married men knows about my divorcee boyfriend and is ... (116 words)

How can I avoid them without being offensive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5952 days ago

4 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, My friend has 2 annoying children and a partner who is always out what he can get (freeloader). They always insist on meeting up or coming over to my house which i dread as the children always have tantrums and misbehave. Even when i go over to their house its just c... (120 words)

Beard or Sheared?

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4 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I am trying to get close to girl at the moment and am hoping to make a move over the few times we go out but i am wondering if i should shave. I have about 10 days worth of growth and like to keep it that way because i think i look far too young without it. problem is- will the ... (80 words)

Should I be angry or have mercy? My dad cheated on my mom.

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4 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - hey i dont know whats right anymore! ok so my father cheated on my mom... and then he is still living in our home but he is being insulted by my other relatives and others are saying he is a shame to our family...a part of me feels sorry for him i dont know i should have mercy ... (61 words)

Should I just 'go for it' so she'll know I'm interested?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5952 days ago

4 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey there, I am really liking a girl at the moment- to the point where i can't stop thinking about her and am having trouble sleeping but i can't tell how she feels about me. I am very unexperienced in these situations so am feeling pretty lost. I've met up with her a couple o... (163 words)

This stunning girl I met at a club is only 17! Is this okay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5952 days ago

4 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I met a girl in a club few weeks ago and we hit it off really well im 25 and was surprised when this stunner started talking to me. We had a lot in common and she told me she was 19 and at uni! We exchanged numbers and then since then we have texted and called most days... (151 words)

I need help coming up with some romantic ideas!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5952 days ago

4 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I was just wondering if any one knew or could think of any romantic ideas for me and my partner. My partner has been away for two weeks and would like to do something romantic on his return. Thanking you in advance x... (44 words)

What do you do if your partner is hiding porn and lying about it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

4 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - iv been with my boyfriend for over 2 years now we have lived together for nearly 2 yrs, hes never been into porn so i thought hes never mentioned it or anything although weve watched it a few times. im okay with him watching porn but not when hes never told me hes got it, he ... (174 words)

Will he change as he gets older and seek a younger chic?

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4 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi guys I am a lady of 35 and dating a 23 yr old MAN. my friends have a serious problem with this and keep on telling me that he is just going on a ride with me. What they do not know is the fact that I am HAPPY. I was married to a 37 year old man and he was so messed up for... (127 words)

Could tick bites be causing my symptoms?

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4 September 2008 (F)

age - okay so recently i went tree planting and i got bitten by some ticks. about 2 weeks later, the bites are still visible and itchy, and more inflamed. my best friend has been bitten by ticks and hers never got this bad. i have also noticed that my whole body, like on my arms, ... (114 words)

Husband got very annoyed because I invited my best friend at the concert instead of him! Even when I cancelled the night out with my friend, hubby refuses to accompany me!

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4 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I got offered two free tickets to go to a big concert. I asked my best friend to go as this is her most favourite band and she has been always going on and on about one day going to their concert. So we were meant to be going this Friday and everything was great! I told my... (455 words)

Research that has shown negative effects of porn-watching? Why aren't we concerned?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5935 days ago

4 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - why do some people not care about all the research that has shown exposure to porn causes men to find their real life partners less attractive? I personally have experienced this when my husband started to compare me to the women in porn and a close friend says she has had a si... (122 words)

If I get stronger and decide to move on from my sex-buddy will he surrender to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5952 days ago

4 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i am havin sex with a man that i really fancy.he knows that i like him a lot. but i am a confident woman and i can move on if i have to. he finds me sexy and says i am a good kisser. (cant be a bad thing). what i want to know is if i get stronger and decide to move on will he ... (70 words)

Why did he leave me for her when I was the only one who supported him and accepted his drinking problem? Will he ever come back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5952 days ago

4 September 2008 (F)

age - I have been with this man for two years. He lived with me for 9 months. He said that he loved me, but wasn't in love with me. His ex kept his clothes and wouldn't give them back until they talked. He goes over to talk and never comes back. He says he really loves her and want... (217 words)

Don't want to give up on my current partner and then regret it but then again I want to give the other person a chance!...

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4 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't know if I am with the right guy. Before I met my current partner I was set up on a blind date with Mr. D and we really hit it off although he was just out of a relationship and not looking for anything serious, which was fine with me. We drifted apart and eventually ... (212 words)

Are we too fussy sometimes when it comes to meeting a long term partner?

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4 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Having read some of the posts on here, I am curious about something. IF you are happily single and open to meeting someone for a long term relationship at some point, Do you have a check list of things you look for in a guy/girl? Have you got a type? Do you know what you're... (131 words)

I can't face my boyfriend taking regularly with his ex!

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4 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Right here it goes.... My bf and I have now been together for 7 months, b4 me he was with his ex for 3 yrs. Since i have been with him it had been made clear that they dont speak at all. Today I went to comment on my bf on facebook and i see a comment left by his ex, when i s... (127 words)

I'm beginning to think I'm not his dream girl because he doesn't say I love you.

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4 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating my boyfriend for nearly a year. We get along great, have a natural sexual chemistry, have similar life goals, and are great friends to each other;pretty much our relationship is perfect except for one big thing: love. I haven't said I love you to him, mainly ... (204 words)

Dating both of us in parallel? Why would someone do somthing like this?

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4 September 2008 (F)

- I have been seeing someone for about 4 months and recently found out that he has been double dating - seeing me part of the week and the other lady the other part. He has shared the same restaurants, jokes, smooth talking lines and everything. He was completely plausible and ... (167 words)

All the while he was making me believe I was the one he wanted and he was working on his problems, he was having dates and sex with others. Your opinions?

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4 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - No sure how to start this off. I'll try to keep it short. Met a man 4 years ag. Dated for 2 and then got engaged. Started to plan life together..house and all. Soon as we moved in together he became increasingly controlling and paranoid about any and everything I did and said. ... (903 words)

What is the age when guys start making sperm?

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4 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - at what age does the sperm generally come out ... (13 words)

After his brother died, his parents have been extra protective of him and it's affecting our relationship!

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4 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone I have a gorgeous boyfriend of 7 months. We are both 19 and for the past 6 months i have been spending most nights living with him and his parents. We came to realise we both needed some nights apart to catch up with friends, do our own thing etc, but as of last w... (483 words)

When two guys are having sex, who exactly takes the role of the man?

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4 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Picture this, one guy is getting penetrated helplessly and the other is DOING the penetration. Theyre both enjoying it, which guy is more masculine or "manly" and why? Now the guy who is being penetrated cums because he got penetrated for...too long. Hows does your percep... (58 words)

We are a happy couple but his adult daughter are trying to break us apart!

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4 September 2008 (F)

age - Help! My bf and I are both divorced with grown children and I have one (14) at home. He lives in another town and we have made our 3 hour distance relationship work fine for 9 months. The trouble is that his adult daughters are jealous of me and are trying to sabotage our ... (287 words)

I have disapointed people too many times. What can I do to ammend all of this?

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4 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I am 26 years old and for the first time in my life I have hit rock bottom. I use to be a caring, and honest person but for the last year I don't even know who I am. I have been dating my boyfriend for 3 years and 3 months. We had a long distance relationship an... (870 words)

Should I be worried that my two best friends are dating each other?

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4 September 2008 (?) age 26-29 - Hi....My best female friend is dating my best male friend...is there anything i should worrie about? She thinks im mad and He wont talk to me. thanks... (30 words)

Do you think he will start wanting me if I suddenly disappear from his life?

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4 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Theres this guy .we have sex every now and then but i really fancy him. I feel an connection. Im a confident sexy woman who knows her self. He knows shes all these things but he doesnt want 2 show it.if i walked away do u think he would realiyze that he was a fool and want me. ... (64 words)

She dumped me because I lied about my virginity! What do I do now?

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4 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - ok i told my good friend that i wasnt a virgin and told her to not to tell anyone... then i started dating this girl i really like and care for... and one day she asked if i was a virgin and i told her yes and she said ok.. then today my good friend happened to accidently say ... (111 words)

After I got pregnant, he left me and got someone new!

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4 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i found out a month ago i was pregnant. i had this bf and we were close as in we went everywhere together, we were inseparable we were dating for a year. when we found out we got in a huge fight which we stopped talking for a few days we both had faults in the fight. well cut ... (134 words)

Is it good for the relationship if they hang out every day?

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4 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - should a boyfriend and a girlfriend hang out everyday is it good for there replashionship????... (15 words)

I failed again in a relaionship and I feel like one because of that...

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4 September 2008 (F)

- I hate myself so much most of the time. I am not happy with myself. I feel like a failaure 'cause for the second time that I try a relationship it is not working. I've been crying a lot lately... I don't know what to do... I am depress 'cause my relationship with my ld is ... (66 words)

Are there any more ways I could pleasure my boyfriend even more?

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4 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have very experimental sex and when we have a few drinks we do alot of things that we wouldn't normally mention but that we are really happy about because we discover new ways to pleasure each other. For those who say the male g-spot is a myth - while drunk I ... (145 words)

Are these the symptoms of premature ejaculation?

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4 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, i have an embaressing issue with my sex life, im a 24 year old male an i think i have premature ejaculation. During fore play im constantly trying to not ejaculate, intercoure (if i make it) is even worse. Im with my third long term partner and still ejacul... (87 words)

Would it be wise if I go back to my ex when there's a new guy who can bring me happiness?

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4 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so here's the deal: Awhile back (about 7 months ago), I found out that my boyfriend of 4 months had cheated on me (had another girlfriend where he lives, it was long-distance). We had been really good friends before that. For about two months we didn't talk and then he ... (278 words)

Why did he change his attitude after visiting me?

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4 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I was in a situation with a boy I had just met.I didn't know much about him and he didn't know much about me.But we did talk on the phone and I was thinking like maybe he did care if he came over to see me. We were inside of my home and we were relaxed.I felt comforta... (220 words)

Please help me choose my wedding dress!

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4 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've posted problems here before and tonight I'm going to keep it lighthearted and happy! I'm having a real hard time picking out a wedding dress. Me and my fiance havent set a date yet but me being typical female means i'm already looking for dresses. I was thinking somethi... (251 words)

What should I do so she chooses me?! It's either me or the other guy!

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4 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a problem iv been with a girl for 2 months..now she says she need space I asked why...her bestfriend told her that he loves her after he heard about us...he told her I waited for u 3 years...she says she feels bad about this that he waited so long and she must see him ... (333 words)

He has been so distant after I told him I loved him!

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4 September 2008 (F)

age - I met a guy online. We started as good friends. Then progressed to more than that. He's a very dedicated father so time was an issue but I was ok with that. We texted and talked online alot. In the past 5 months the relationship has gotten more intense. We both enjoyed ... (371 words)

Could a sperm survive outside my penis even after I wipe it away?

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4 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a problem and i need some answers..My girlfriend and I were messing around and she gave me a handjob and when i came, we whipped it away with a paper towel and started to have sex..I am just wondering if sperm can live after it is whipped away and if i left any one my ... (67 words)

Is a four year age gap acceptable in a relationship?

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4 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Is 17 and 21 an ok age difference? My cuson is nearly 17 and she likes a guy whos 21, is 4 years an ok age differnce? we live in the UK so its legal... (37 words)

She's off to uni and I am over anylising everything!

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4 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi all, Ive recently started going out with someone, its been a little over 3 weeks now. She is a great person and im really happy were seeing each other now as she simply makes my day. To the problem: She will soon be starting Uni in a weeks time which is close by any... (335 words)

I picked the wrong guy! What do I do?

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4 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I break up with my boyfriend of 4years for somebody else. well, i thought i wasn't happy with him anymore. Then i got married with this second guy and now i just cant seem to forget my first boyfriend. i always think of him nowadays. i am actually jealous that he's with someone ... (71 words)

Desperate for parenting advice when should one mom tell the other mom her dauighter is sleeping around

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4 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - my daughters best friend is 15 and she recently lost her virginity. after missing her period, my daughter asked me to buy a pregnacie test so I did. Well thank god she wasnt pregnant!! I did not tell her mom I gave her the mom lecture about what I believed to be wrong. ok sorry ... (96 words)

Confused?? help! I love him and want him back...what should I do?

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4 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - so my me and my boyfriend broke up...but we where still talkin and where still in love so he found out i wa stalkin to a different dude so he called me and started snapping but idk why bc he always messin wit other gurls when we even goin out so he thought i was having sex with ... (337 words)

What do I do to get over my first love?

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4 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I need help, I started dating a guy that was a childhood friend, and stuff started happening to fast and we fell for each other, but things got bad when we started putting our hands on each other and saying mean and hateful things to each other, and thur all this...i still love ... (187 words)

Do guys care how a vagina looks like?

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4 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so ive just been watchin this documentry called the perfect vagina and baslicly its a woman makin a documenntry goin round and explorin vaginas lol, shes been askin men if the way a vagina looks puts them off sex and the amount that have said yes is untrue! young girls at ... (150 words)

My mother completely ruined my life. How can I get it back?

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4 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok I don't know where to start. Ever since I was young I've had problems with my mother. she was abused and raped from the age of four and her mother died when she was very young leaving no one to look after her and her being put into care. The abuse continued til she was 16. ... (612 words)

I can't come and don't stay wet for long some times, why is this?

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4 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - me and my fience' have been together almost two years, the sex is great, but there are two problems.i cant cum, and sometimes when we have sex for a while i get dried up. why is that?... (37 words)

Does he like me or does he view me as just a friend?

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4 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this guy, He's 25 (I'm 17 will be 18 in six months) I feel he likes me, he has been flirting with me for almost a year, and he is still single, so I feel he is waiting for me to become legal,but I'm not really sure,he said and I quote "You are so hot, when are you ... (269 words)