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writes: Is it normal for my boyfriend to hang out with someone that he has been in a relationship with in the past? Also, I know than people can be friends after breaking up, but while we were on a "break" he slept with her......I dont get this. I dont hang out with the guys I've slept with. He says he wants to be serious, but he's not acting like it. What can I do? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2008): Normal has nothing to do with it. Your boyfriend slept with this woman while you were on a break. Perhaps he wentn on a break as an excuse to sleep with her and you could have no say in the matter....although you always do...you teach people how to treat you.
If you reread your own question, you have answered it. Your boyfriend is sleeping with his ex, just friends means no sex....get it? Got it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2008): I hang out with ex-boyfriends every now and then and there is nothing beyond friendship between us. It doesn't sound like that's the case with your boyfriend, but know that it IS possible to be "just friends" with someone you've been involved with in the past.
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