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writes:I've never felt it when my bf ejaculates but i know that he does. He never makes any noises or anything. I would sometimes feel him hold me tight and goes deeper inside during sex. But i'm not really sure if is that the time when he is ejaculating. When i asked him what he does or feels like when he releases semen it was hard for him to explain. At some point i felt his penis contract, so is that the end of his release or what? I just wanna knw, what exactly happens when a guy reaches orgasm or ejaculates...
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionA hand job for how long at most?. I knw i usually do it for a very limited time and maybe he does't get to orgasm... Thanks guys!
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (25 September 2008):
 Give him a handjob and watch.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2008): yea my ex was kind of quiet too, but I always knew he was coming cos he would hold me tighter and penetrate deeper. Also, the spasms from his penis begin with the first spurt of semen, the first contraction is usually the stongest which is what we can feel, then it they gradually stop when the semen finishes shooting out.
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reader, LaydeeLove..x  +, writes (23 September 2008):
well when he is about to ejaculate his penis goes stiff and he will start breathing heavily and holding you very tight and pulling u into it he will start moaning and then your body feels like it is going to have major orgasms
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2008): First off, because of your young ages, I guess your guy is a little shy when it comes to 'letting go', therefore, you are not going to be very aware as to exactly what is happening. I think he must be keeping a tight lid on his emotions, possibly through not wanting to appear so vulnerable at this point.When a guy reaches orgasm, breathing becomes much more intense, his whole body is much more alive and starts to tense, yes - he probably will hold you very tight and go as deep as he can - his penis will be at its biggest and fattest and when the moment arrives and ejaculation occurs, will often let out a moan or start gasping audibly with the intense pleasure he is receiving as glob after glob of semen spews forth. A few seconds after this, his penis will soften.Phew - I feel a bit horny after that explanation! Hope it helps.
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reader, abbeymom  +, writes (23 September 2008):
 It is different for all men, how much they go, how they feel and how they react. Some men make noise. Some growl. Some hold you tight and some say nothing at all before or after.
As you become more aware of your body and how it feels when your BF is inside of you. You will feel it building. Some women say they know because they feel themselves beginning to have an orgasm and as their lover is about to explode it catapults them over the edge like a whoosh of fun... LOL
Another way to find out more is during Oral SeX, if you are comfortable doing that, grip the penis by the shaft and hold firmly and when he goes you will feel it in your hand constricting. Well it's the same in the vagina.
Best thing to do is just enjoy each other. The more comfortable you are, the longer you are lovers, the easier it will be to identify when he's going to go and you will know the precise moment...
~ Abbeymom
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