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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Needing some advice as to what is going on with a guy I kinda have liked for a fair bit but which I have kinda supressed due to complications which are now gone. We shall call him William.For the last month William has been acting very oddly. There have been a lot of moments when he's done things for me where I thought were just too nice for someone who just wants to be my friend. Very intimate hugs, constantly asking me out to coffee and lunch, somehow always just being there when I needed a friend. In the back of my head I guess I have always been suspicious there was something more but due to circumstances have ingored it. But lately, the suspicions have become a lot stronger, to the point I feel I am on the verge of perhaps something happening.I was organising a charity event (that's my job, I organise charity fundraisers) to which I had invited William to. The night before he txt me to say he would be there. However the next morning I get a text saying he couldn't make it anymore and was sorry. So I sent a txt back saying I was sad he couldnt be there, hoped everything was alright and asked if everything was ok? He replied jokingly saying it was because he no longer liked me. So I replied, joking as well with, yeah - but you're in love with me really. He replied with "maybe..." No kisses or anything or smiley faces which made it seem so serious. I pushed it to the back of my head because I had to get on with my job but then 15 mins later I get a phonecall and its him saying he has arrived at the train station and is walking to the event. I say to him, I thought you weren't coming. And he says he just wanted to see my reaction. Which I thought was a bit odd. So when he showed up I gave him the usual hug but this time it lasts for ages and he completely presses me against him. He's given me one of these hugs before and I guess they are usually what really makes me wonder. They are always very lingering, very warm and very cosy. My friends have noticed it too - they say they can just tell from his body language that he likes me, they say he is always gazing at me and that its obvious he has some form of feelings.So we hug and then get on with the job. He's very touchy feely but its only subtle at first. Like brushing against me, giving me more hugs, whenever I need someone to help me with something, he is there within seconds. But then as the day progresses, he gets more obvious and forward. Like when he is handing things to me, letting his fingers slip and touch mine longer than they should. And then I caught him just gazing at me whilst I was speaking to everyone working on the day. Then there was when we were on our own where he quite literally just backed me against a wall and pressed his forehead against mine. I thought he was going to kiss me. Thing is later that evening we all got a bit drunk and we ended up all having a right laugh and boundaries were crossed. We very nearly kissed and in the morning I txt him and said not to worry about last night. He said he was very very drunk, to which I replied, you weren't drunk during the day though. And he replied "Yeah.... that was me."Thoughts? Is he in to me?
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