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*riad
writes:My question is related to the way a boyfriend's behavior reflects what the situation will be in a marriage. I have 8 months with my bf, and I have gone through difficult times economically speaking, he has never given me a penny, I talked about the bad times I have, and he changes the topic.He promised me to help me out with some medical expenses he never did, He has used my car to do his business, he has never given a penny for gas. All he has done is bying me cellphone cards for my phone. I am worried if in the future if we marry he will be the same cheap guy. Also we have been to stores bying clothes for himself, he has never offered to buy anything. It is not the materialistic side of me talking, I just wonder if men change.HELP
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reader, ariad +, writes (23 September 2008):
ariad is verified as being by the original poster of the question He knows my problems and he always talk about how much $ he has made in his business, but never takes the initiative to say, oh you break your back working,and barely pay your bills here you have some $. He has no right to do it, but he has never even said ohhh I lend you the $, and the least thing I want is him to think I want his $, I just see he will never help me out in the future when we have something together.
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reader, ariad +, writes (23 September 2008):
ariad is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI understand that, but 8 months I have never asked him for a penny, I have just given him the hint of certain things, to see if he helps me out and not only econmically, just the idea that he could not take my laptop to be fixed, he did not even said Ok you work so hard, I will do that for you. Or do you think the fact that I had a bf that pay almost all my bills has gotten me used to that? Besides my ex is chasing me around and wants me back. HELP
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