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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I caught my bf making out with a friend but my friends say he was being faithful. What should I do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5912 days ago

13 September 2008 (?) age 30-35 - My boyfriend and me to a party. Well I caught him making out with a friend. I was so mad slapped him. He keeps tellng me he didnt her let her kiss him. Everyone is telling me (including his best friend) he was being faithful to me. What should I do?... (51 words)

I am more attracted to naked men but want to date girls...will I grow out of this phase??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

13 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 14 and i wanna know why am i attracted to naked men before naked women. I have absolutly now feeling for men at all i just get horny to sum of them, i look at gay porn and masterbate to it but after that gayness takes a left i don't have feelings or seeing myself with a b... (137 words)

Should I date him to prove to my Mum he isn't bad??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5912 days ago

13 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi. So, im a freshman and im fourteen and i like this senior whos seventeen and will be turning eighteen shortly. He likes me back and he wants to start hanging out with me outside of school. We talk alot and we text message non stop. but i brought up the idea of dating a... (108 words)

Got into a fight protecting myself and my girlfriend, who was in the wrong?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5852 days ago

13 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - all im asking is who is in the wrong? and if it happend to you, would you do the same? if not, then what would you do differently? me and my girlfriend was on the front of my house speaking with 2 friends when 2 boys from 2 houses away was stairing at my girlfriend, she ... (323 words)

I hate my dad. Please help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

13 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - hey i really need some help and advice.. im 13 years old and i apsalutly h8 my dad!! my mum is desabled and for instance my mum fell out of her wheel chair when i was younger.. and my dad was drunk on the sofa. so my mum had to crawl her way to her bed and finaly he got... (160 words)

I phoned his ex-wife and things blew up. I don't know what to do now.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5911 days ago

13 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for nearly four years. He was married 15 years ago and got divorced not long after. He has always stayed friends with (lets call her kelly). Anyway i have disliked their contact and i do not see the point as they have no children together. He ... (358 words)

I'm in love with someone older, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5912 days ago

13 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - im in love with a person 15yrs older than me what do i do?... (16 words)

Should I forgive my ex for ruining my relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5911 days ago

13 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - About a month ago, I started talking with my ex-girlfriend again. We drifted apart due to living in different cities and her dealings with her ex-husband and her children. Since our breakup, I started dating my current girlfriend. Unfortunately, over the past few months, I ... (407 words)

How long should I wait before I meet this girl I met online?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5912 days ago

13 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - About three months ago i met this girl online in a chat room we really hit it off. I really liked her the first time we talked. The thing is we live far away from each other. im trying to decide how long i should wait before i decide to meet her. We still talk to each other ... (103 words)

Do you think I am being unrealistic in thinking she will text me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5912 days ago

13 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi I went out with my mates to the pub last night I did not drink as I was driving anyway to my problem we started talking to a group of girls my mates went outside for a smoke and left me to play pool with one of the girls the pub was closing so we went outside to our frie... (177 words)

Planning an evening out for my birthday - would it do any harm to go to the bar "he" frequents? This will make it clearer that I like him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5912 days ago

13 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I need abit of advice with small problem. Well there's this bloke who i know and well we do flirt and he has told me where he goes for a drink well we don't get to spend much time together because he's working a lot well a friend of mine said well in few weeks it's your birt... (184 words)

How can I help my friend that is suffering from anorexia?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5912 days ago

13 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Right, a really good guy friend of mine is suffering anorexia, and i really want to help him, any tips on how to get him to start eating again or any people i could get him to call for advice? I would be very grateful for your help, tasha x... (52 words)

How can I avoid being so clingy? It's annoying to my boyfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5912 days ago

13 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i love my boyfriend so much.. but i cnt stop bein clingy which is kinda annoying him. what can i do to myself to stop me doing tht? HELP SOS!... (34 words)

Is there something wrong with my clitoris? Never experienced pleasure during oral so far.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5912 days ago

13 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - So, I've had sex about 3 times and received oral a couple of times too from different guys. But when i get oral, i never feel anything and my clit gets really big. I know the clit has a lot of nerve endings, so im supposed to feel a lot of stimulation. Is there something wrong ... (58 words)

Should I cut off contact completely and never see my ex again? I realised I missed him terribly while on the phone.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5912 days ago

13 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I split up 7 months ago after 4 years because he didn't want to get married or have children, plus he moved out of my flat so we only saw each other at the weekends which didn't suit me. We have kept in touch and have met up with each others parents (as we were ... (264 words)

Hooked up with an ex after 5 years, I was left with the impression he still loved me and we agreed to contact but now he doesn't return my calls?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5912 days ago

13 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I went home for Labor Day weekend and saw my ex from high school (we dated for 2 1/2 yrs) we were pretty hot and serious then, but then we broke up when we both left for college. We stayed in touch for about 8 months but then I started dating someone else and it broke his heart ... (252 words)

I have lost faith in love....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5912 days ago

13 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm afraid to fall in love. 2 reasons. One, my boyfriend of 3 years passed away last year. But I still can't get over him. I think of him everyday, even when I'm out with other guys. Another reason is that I have no more faith in love anymore. Cos I have seen too man... (160 words)

Why be in this relationship if I just feel single? He never has time...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5912 days ago

13 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, i have been goin out with my boyfriend for 12months. I have known him very well since school so 9 years...Finally we got togther after months of him chasing me cause i had a bf for 4years. He promised he would treat me better than my current ex and would definitely ... (220 words)

How do I lose weight quickly to stop my friends from making hurtful comments?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5907 days ago

13 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 13 and one of my best friends has suddenly gone off with her old best friend. Me and a few of my other friends do something called Body Combat and my old best friend was there watching and taking the mick out of us with her two new best friends. The new best friend is a... (212 words)

He's ignoring me after we made out and I feel horrible! Since he has a girlfriend, is this cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5912 days ago

13 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I did something terribly wrong last night. I went to a club with some friends and a guy last night. This guy and i have a past but i thought it was over since he now has an out-of-province girlfriend. That seems to be a problem tho because i got pretty drunk and went home wit... (172 words)

How do I mend my broken heart after he cheated?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

13 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a 24yr old female and my boyfriend is 26 just recently cheated on me. Trust me the pain just wont go away and I've been going out every weekend to parties to get wasted, cause sitting at home just depresses me more. The other day called to say that he misses me, for some ... (193 words)

Am I a glutton for punishment or just DUMB?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5766 days ago

13 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i think i'm either glutton for punishment or clearly DUMB....i've known this guy since school...we are both 25...a year ago we found each other since graduating..and got back together..it was on and off..as he just ended his marriage and had a baby..he was in the service and ... (559 words)

Do I end it or wait for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5908 days ago

13 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey I really need some help here... Okay about a week n a half ago I broke up with my on off bf of a year. He said he was done working things out but I tried anyways to get him back (I love him and shouldn't have ended it) He stopped talking to me the night before I ended it... (183 words)

Is it really love already?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5912 days ago

13 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hey everyone. i feel like a bit of an idiot here!! anyway i met this amazing guy last week, i ended up staying in a camping site and there we met, he came into our tent and we had a great night having drinks. we ended up kissing and so on, but didn't sleep together. anyway the ... (224 words)

My boyfriend treats me horribly now he's in New Zealand. Should I move out there?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5912 days ago

13 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I need some advice on the actions of my boyfriend. He has gone to New Zealand to work for at least a year (emphasis on 'at least'). I knew he was going off to do this when we got together and about 2 years later he left and said he really wanted me to join him as soon as ... (584 words)

Trapped! If I stay, I'm miserable, but if I leave, he hurts himself. What do I do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5912 days ago

13 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone. Normally I wouldn't put myself out there like this, but I am in a pretty desperate situation, I think. I've been in a serious relationship for almost three years, and my boyfriend is wonderful to me. He is respectful, sweet, and he would do pretty much anything for ... (398 words)

My fears were put to rest once but now I really worried!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5912 days ago

13 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i wrote on here on 1st september called is my perfect boyfriend gay? The thing is you all put my mind at rest as i understood that just because he enjoys sucking a dildo and everything he is just experimenting and having fun. the thing is last night we were both drunk after a ... (119 words)

I can't get over her and now she is dating my work mate!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5912 days ago

13 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - i need some help. me and my girlfriend broke up because she said she didnt love me anymore. but eventhough its been 3 to 4 months now, i'm still hung up over her and i miss her everyday. i got so upset each day over the summer and i just want her back. and recently she got... (225 words)

Have I scared away my long distance boyfriend by going too fast?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5912 days ago

13 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I have been seeing someone for about 2 months now. We have some histoy, we dated a few times in high School. I have been seperated from my husband for a little over a year and it is definately over for us, he is just draging his feet. We have 3 children together. Anywa... (488 words)

Is he playing with me? I'm married but had an affair with him.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

13 September 2008 (F)

age - Please help. 9 years ago I had an affair with a married man. I am also married. It ended after about 3-4 months and I was devastated. It took a few months but I got over him, never contacted him again and got on with my life. Now 9 years later he has contacted me again. ... (226 words)

Why did he invite me at a party at his place when right after our break up he moved on to a new girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5912 days ago

13 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - after breaking up and telling me it wasnt a gud time for me and him,he texted me the other day and said "party at place xxyz,. house xyz at xyz time" the house number he gave me was his,what i dont understand is y couldnt he just say he was inviting me to a party at his place ... (142 words)

We live together but only get to see each other two afternoons per week, I'm so confused and embittered with the hectic life we are living! Any ideas?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

13 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a huge dilemma. My fiance never has time for our relationship. He works nights I work days and on top that he has a crazy mother and an younger brother with a severe disability so he is constrained to spend much of his free time at his mum's place, helping her out. W... (349 words)

I hate my dad! What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5912 days ago

13 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i used to be a daddys girl when i was younger and said id never be lyk my older sister who seemed to hate him so much. but now i understand hwo she felt. when i was 10 my dad hit me and hit me and hit me untill my mum pulled him off me. Recently ive made my decision ... (266 words)

We split one night after a fight when she called the police and... after five years of being together. Now I can't stop thinking how happy she is and how sad I am.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5912 days ago

13 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, Please help me! It all starts five years ago, when I met my newly exgirlfriend. We met at a friends house at a party. I was coming off of a long three year relationship that ended hard on me. I know I think I get too atached. Anyhoo, I was very distant, no... (1000 words)

Should I go back to my old boyfriend, even though he might want sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5912 days ago

13 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok there is this dude "j" i liked alot last year in school bur we never hooked up we were alway sfuck buddys even though i wanted it to be more than that well this school year he asked me out and we were dattinq everythinq was goin well intill he started makin up rules t... (178 words)

After our first date she said she is going through a bad patch and unable to meet anyone at the moment. How can we progress then?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5912 days ago

13 September 2008 (M)

age - Hello, I have been in contact -via e-mail- with a lady for the last 6 months. We have also talked over the phone. After six months I asked her whether she would like to meet for a drink. She accepted. It resulted that we share a lot of common interests. We had quite ... (190 words)

My cousin wants to have sex with me! How can I stop her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5912 days ago

13 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - i am a 23yr old guy.my problem is that my cousin who is 17 loves me very much she wants to have sex with me, i have told her about the consequences of it. But when ever we are alone she trys very hard to have sex, when i refuse she says that she will tell all our family members ... (144 words)

Do you think he doesn't want to know?? Should I text again??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5912 days ago

13 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all, Im 34 have 2 children and have been seperated from my husband for 3 months. i went out last weekend and met this guy there was instant physical attraction between us. We exchanged numbers and spent all evening together. he is 4 years younger than me and has no child... (215 words)

Do I have the right to feel hurt, used and angry or am I just being stupid??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

13 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - To summarise: (1) Met a guy through friends, 18 months ago. Fun, attractive, successful, gift of the gab but some issues as he'd been betrayed after long term relationship. (2) Fell head over heels in love with him and was pleased to hear through friends that apparently ... (1477 words)

Any ideas on initiating intimacy by phone??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5912 days ago

13 September 2008 (F)

- I want to initiate phone sex very gently to see if my male friend responds. I have never done it before and would like advice on what can be said. He told me he was reduced to tears at the extent of the intimacy he reached with his ex and I wondered if anyone here has had the ... (71 words)

Any experience of feelings changing to a friend, from platonic to more??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5912 days ago

13 September 2008 (F)

- Has anyone got any experience of two friends, one in an unrequited love position, where the other eventually feels more back? Have you ever not initially felt that attraction then changed? My friend has just been dumped by his partner. I am 7 years older than he is and she wa... (145 words)

Do you think he will ever realise he has made a mistake and come back??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5910 days ago

13 September 2008 (F)

age - My husband divorced me after 16 years leaving me and the children citing that he wasn't happy and that there must be more to life etc. I was terribly hurt. Since then he hasn't bothered with the children and although he is very well paid it has been difficult to get money out ... (199 words)

He is hurting and wants space but also feels alone. Should I call him more or less??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5912 days ago

13 September 2008 (F)

- I have a friend who I have very strong feelings for and his girlfriend has finished with him. He is devastated and tearful, still wants my company when he is in the country as he works abroad, but I am confused when it is OK to call him, increase the frequency or reduce it. O... (171 words)

Can this work or is this another route to heartbreak??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5912 days ago

13 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i need help... i'm 16 and me and this guy, more than like each other, were in love, we have alreay been together twice but we thought it would be easier now we have left school. were not together yet although we have been seeing allot of each other and the reason is becau... (178 words)

My older boyfriend is very controlling. I can't wear makeup, email guys, or leave the house... he thinks I'm looking for sex. Is the age gap just too much?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5912 days ago

13 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm having an issue....I have been seeing this guy (we'll call him Randy) for a while now, and I'm starting to wonder if the age difference is going to take a toll on our relationship. He's 41 and I'm lets just say younger. Well, heres the problem, he's so much older then I am ... (218 words)

I cry in bed when my boyfriend has fallen asleep. Why does this happen?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5912 days ago

13 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - For the past few months I find myself crying in bed with my boyfriend. He does not know because I wait until he has fallen asleep. It is only when I am in bed with him, not when I'm alone. We have had no problems in our relationship and he has been a perfect boyfriend. Why is ... (67 words)

Since I gave birth, my husband doesn't have sex with me because I'm fat. Doesn't he love me anymore?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5912 days ago

13 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - after i gave birth with my son i became fat and have many stretch mark now my husband doesnt making love with me because im fat. what does it means? he doesnt love me anymore? but he's still sweet with me and have care for me. and im miss him so much i want to make love with ... (61 words)

A male friend of mine told me he likes me, but I don't like him back. Things are weird between us, how do we go about just being friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5913 days ago

13 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hello a boy freind of mine told me he likes me.but i dont like him in that way because i like another.(which he already knew).i feel a bit weird around him now and dont really want to talk to him much because i would feel weird. how can i try and be JUST freinds with him... (62 words)

Guys- If a woman who looked like a porn star propositioned you for sex, could you say no?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5912 days ago

13 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - If a girl who looked like a porn star propositioned you for sex, would you agree? Like if she looked like Briana Banks, a young Pamela Anderson, Jenna Jameson, or Jesse Jane? I was just wondering because I heard that my boyfriend was at a party a few weeks ago (I was unabl... (379 words)

I feel like my boyfriend and I are drifting apart. I don't know what to do, Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5913 days ago

13 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - sometimes i feel as if my boyfriend for a year and i are emotionally drifting apart. i no longer get butterflies when i'm around him and there are other people that i call first when i'm bored. i dont know if it's just because we're growing into different people or if i'm just ... (93 words)

I have a boyfriend but also have strong feelings for my ex. Do I tell him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5913 days ago

13 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i have a boyfriend that i love but i still have strong feelings for my ex.. and i think i still love him too.my ex is leaving the country should i tell him how i feel?and say goodbye? my current boyfriend hates him.... please help me.i feel that i need to see him:(... (54 words)

I have a crush on my best friend, but he told me that he likes a different girl. Do I tell him my true feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5912 days ago

13 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy last year, and we've been best friends since then. Tonight..he suddenly started a conversation about our crushes. He used to say I'm special and cute and all those flirty stuff, and I flirt back, but we both know we're joking. But the thing is though..I like him. ... (130 words)

If she trusts me then why is she all over my cell phone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5912 days ago

13 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - We Need to grow up! Am I Right? my gf and i seem to have trust issues were exactly the same except i show how i feel and what im thinking and she keeps it all in. She tells me she trust me but then she signs into my cell phone account... (not trusting) reason we both decided ... (143 words)

Is he metro or is he gay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5912 days ago

13 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I just recently started dating this guy hes very metro gets his eyebrows done which is fine! has to clean all the time he has ocd with cleaning the hous everyday.. he says hes a virgin and everygirl he dated broke up with him cuz he wouldnt have sex with them..His best friend ... (149 words)

Will my young mistress ever come back? I plan on getting divorced...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5910 days ago

13 September 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - ok so here it goes . We met @ work and still work together. we dated for about a year during the time i was and still am married with 2 kids. just last month she says she can`t do this anymore and the reasons she gave was all over the board, from your married,you didn`t call me ... (175 words)

Does he really want to marry me or is he just joking?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5913 days ago

13 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend recently asked me to move in with him and said "Who knows, we might get married, I'm very spontaneous" We have been together about 10 months if not a little more. The thing is I don't know whether he was being serious or not. Because he didn't laugh a little wh... (127 words)

Is she legal or could I get in trouble?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5912 days ago

13 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - hallo ! i need some advice. so, please help me out here. i am 22 and my girl friend is 17 years and 9 months. she will be 18 next 3 months. we have been going out for 3 years. do you think it is illegal or I could be in trouble for it. just for your info we never had any se... (101 words)

My ex is a completely different person now! What changed him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5913 days ago

13 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - He did a lot of drugs and didn't care about school, politics, or anything else that was occurring outside of his small bubble of burned out friends. I was the exact opposite: overachiever, love to learn, politics buff, don't do drugs, involved in school, good home life. Afte... (119 words)

How can I stop sabotaging my relationships?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5912 days ago

13 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok...I dated this guy for six weeeks but then just broke up with him...i didn't really have a reason and i had been slowly pulling away for about a week. I do this for all my relationships...i date them for a week or two and then i pull away....i act in way that i know will end ... (177 words)

How do I know when to give up on this guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5912 days ago

13 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I like this guy, and we've been in an on and off relationship for the past 4 years. I know the reason it didn'work out is because of how I acted. Now I think he;s moved on and is now dating my friend. Do you think I should just give up and move on? Or try and get him back?... (60 words)

My boyfriend is cheating and got another girl pregnant...what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5912 days ago

13 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I met V when I was 15. At the time hhe told me he had a girlfriend and I had a boyfriend. Eventually I broke up with my boyfriend. He still had his girlfriend and was obviously not ready to be in a relationship with me so I moved on. I got pregnant for a boy in school. V was ... (183 words)

How do birth control pills work and when can I have sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5913 days ago

13 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - so this may be a stupid question but yeah so i never used birth control before and im starting to use it, but how many times can you have sex after you take all the pills?! is it only effective once?! ... (47 words)

Can I be pregnant if he didn't cum inside of me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5912 days ago

13 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - had sex last night the 12 of september he didnt use condom but he didnt cum into my pusssy could i be still pregnant? please help thank you... (28 words)

I'm sexually attracted to my Aunt...what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5911 days ago

13 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i am sexually and emotionally attracted to my aunt. she has a boyfriend. i have no idea if she's into girls or not or even if she thinks being gay is ok. i have tried to forget about it, but have not succeeded. i can't stop thinking about her. what should i do?... (58 words)

I think he doesn't like me any more now that I'm not so shy! Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

13 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok. i REALLLLLY like this guy. he and his g.f broke up and me and him are pretty good friends. i dont really know where to start. he told ppl he likes me. and he told me. heres the problem. hes the touchy kinda guy and im too shy for that. b ut now that im no longer shy arou... (242 words)

I am in love with my married boss!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5897 days ago

13 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help! I am in love with my married ex-boss. He owns a dental practice group. Last summer, I started working for him as a receptionist. After mild flirting with each other for a few months, we had an affair. I quit working for him after we slept with each other and ... (157 words)

How can I meet a girl at a t a club?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5913 days ago

13 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i'm goin clubbing tomorrow night. All my friends always get girls etc. How can i also find a girl have some fun? Any tips. Any experiences you lot had? Good? bad?... (31 words)

I keep having this dream about her! How do I stop the dreams? And do they mean I'm a lesbian?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

13 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am still unable to get over my high school crush, and I am now entering my second year of college. When I was in high school there was this girl who seemed to be flirting with me non-stop. However, as a female myself, I was never sure if she was just being extra friendly (... (390 words)

Met him online and am starting to fall for him, but there's a 23 year age gap!

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13 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Actually I have this problem about age gap. We met only at chat room and we have very similar hobbies and interest. And we find that endearing. Here's the problem we are 23 years apart. That's my big problem. For me its ok if my guy is 5-15 years age gap. I don't know about my ... (66 words)

Should I take my relationship day by day until the end of the school year? And then break up with him? I just don't know if an LDR will work after we graduate.

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13 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating my boyfriend for 6 months now, and he has always displayed great loyalty, care and love for me. The feeling is mutual. We are from different graduating classes of the same college and he will be graduating a year ahead of me. Lately he has begun to serious... (451 words)

My boyfriend of 3 years has responded to multiple ads on Craigslist looking for no strings sex! This is so out of character, what do I do?

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13 September 2008 (F) - I have clam down quite a bit, and now I am trying to put every thing in to perspective. What should be my next step ? I have just came home, and wanted to cheek my email. When I open hotmail it seem like my boyfriend was still singed in . He come over yesterday and was chec... (561 words)

My girlfriend turns off her phone when she goes clubbing with her friends. Should I be worried?

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13 September 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - This is a question for the girls... My g/f likes to go out clubbing with friends. When she does she usually sends me a text message saying that she'll not be home until the morning. Not a problem, but then she switches off her phone... and that drives me nuts!!! I hav... (76 words)

How do I tell my wife I don't want her to get a boob job?

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13 September 2008 (?) age 41-50 - My wife wants a boob job. She really thought bigger is better. I don't like the idea, because they look so fake. How can I tell her I dont want her to get a boob job?... (36 words)

I'm falling for my boss, but I don't want to!! Any suggestions on how to get over him?

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13 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i've been working with my manager for 18 months now...and i've just realised i've fallen for him. At first i didn't like him he was blunt and ill tempered with me, but as time went on we started talking more and i relaised he has an amazing personality. He's funny, kind ... (221 words)

Please help me, my marriage is falling apart.

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13 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and I have known eachother for several years. We have been married about 2. We are busy people and tend to not have sex a lot of the time. Truthfully its gotten boring and he spends more time watching porn (and hiding it from me), then trying to turn me on. I try to ... (143 words)

I need advice on how to get rid of ingrowing hairs.

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13 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This is a bit gross, but I have ingrown hairs on my vagina as I shave down there, they look disgusting and I need to get rid of them. Any ideas?... (32 words)

I'm 18 and have this thing for women much older than me, how would I go about dating one?

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13 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi i am 18 and have found I have a thing for older women in there 50s and 60s. They just appear so sexy to me and would love to date one, but dont have a clue how to go about getting an older woman that age. Thanks, Jack... (50 words)