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writes:basically i'm starting to dislike how my best friends act. one of them is a girl, lets call her stacy. and the other is a boy, lets call him ryan. (but he's gay.. so he's like a girl). anyways ryan is a mean person in general, loves to criticize people. (especially me) and it really brings me down. stacy, i feel is turning into ryan. she's getting so mean and being so mean to people. and they talk crap about people that they don't even know. it's so annoying and it bothers me so much. i just sit there and get so mad. i guess i used to be a little like this but i'm growing up.. i'm mature now. but it seems like they're getting more immature by the day. i hate it so much. what could i do to stop this? getting new best friends is not an option because we've been friends forever, and i don't want to not be friends anymore. also, if i say something to them about them being mean they'll be like shut up and stuff. so i stop talking cuz i'm sensitive and it hurts when they say that stuff to me. any suggestions would be appreciated. thanks so much!
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reader, daniellexxxx  +, writes (24 September 2008):
 Well i think you should tell them make them listen to you, shout if you have to.
They sound like mean people and need putting in there place go ahead they will relise how mean they have being.
Good luck x
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