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anonymous
writes:i've got all that i've wanted. i got the boy that i wanted so bad and it was my goal. and now i have him. but now i feel like it's a competition. i have to work so hard with him because i don't want him to go with another girl. he asked me out yesterday but he talks to a lot of lets say.. hoes. and i don't like them at all. it worries me so much and it just makes me depressed. i don't want it to feel like i constantly have to compete with these other girls. i just want it to be me and him. and i don't know how he feels.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2008): I understand what you mean, it's natural to worry about stuff like that. But try not to worry - this guy clearly likes you more than them or he would be with one of those girls and not you. You got what you wanted, and that's great! Many people don't get to experience that feeling. It would be nice if you could let yourself enjoy it for a while :) If you can manage not to be jealous/insecure, confidence and the sense that you'd be just fine without this guy will likely be very appealing to him. But just be yourself. You shouldn't have to work hard, and he asked you out... so he should be feeling lucky because YOU said yes. Over-thinking it will just cause you needless misery, when you've probably got a really good thing going despite those other girls.
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