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writes:Heres my question Me and My bf broke up and for someone who didn't go out much before (even before we started the relationship) seems to be going to a lot since the split. Is this his way of dealing with the split he says he doesn't want to sit at home and be sad does this mean just that or do you think he's looking for something else so soon?
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reader, kenny + ♥, writes (6 November 2007):
 Personally i think he is doing just what he says he is doing. For whatever reason the relationship finished and instead of moping round the house feeling sorry for himself his going out. Its not nesessarily to meet someone else, although its inevitable that over time he will. Am i right in saying that you have still got feelings for this guy, i say this because i feel you are somewhat concerned that he is going to hook up with someone else?. I don't know the reason why the pair of you split up, or who finished with who, but maybe if you are concerned then you should talk to him.
Good luck x
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reader, hennessy  +, writes (6 November 2007):
 It is very likely that he doesn't want to sit at home and think about what he's missing. It is hard when you are used to being with someone to have to sit at home alone and miss the other person's touch. People often want to fill that void with noise and activity, and sometimes other people. You'll want to focus your attention on moving forward in your own life too. Since you two are broken up, what he does really isn't your business any longer and spending too much time thinking about what he's doing will only make your own healing harder.
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