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writes:I've started a new relationship with a guy a month ago; this is my first romantic relationship with anyone. Over the past few weeks, my boyfriend and I have made time to see each other once a week. The problem is, we've been having so much trouble finding things to do together, without having to spend too much money. Because of this, we'd often end up wandering around aimlessly or lounging at one spot for hours. Both of us are starting to get bored of doing nothing! Please help!
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reader, confused in WVa  +, writes (6 November 2007):
 I agree with Kenny and RNC.
You don't need money. Spending time together should be enough. Fix a dinner at home, light some candles? Pop corn and a movie on tv...watch the sunrise or set..walk around at a nearby park, or through town window shopping...Relax and enjoy the little moments that mean the most. Good Luck.
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reader, amiamuppett  +, writes (6 November 2007):
when me and my boyfriend dont have alot of money we find a dvd to watch, nip down the shop get some goodies, if you want get the quilt cover cuddle up on the sofa and light some candles, its a great romantic night in,
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reader, kenny +, writes (6 November 2007):
 If you both really like each other than just to be in each others company should be enough. What about a nice romantic walk around see some nice scenery, then finish with with watching the sun go down. What about getting a nice bottle of wine and a good DVD and snuggle up on the sofa together. Theme parks could be fun, once you have paid your initial entry then all the rides are free.
take care x
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reader, rcn +, writes (6 November 2007):
 What I would like to say is this may not be the best romantic relationship. What do you have in common. Why do you have to spend money to be together. When I was in love (real love not what most believe is love) I could just sit and talk for hours, staring in her eyes. If I could have frozen time and stayed like that I would have.
My daughter and I this past weekend went to the park. She of course played a little, but then we walked around the lake that's in the park and just sat, talked and watched the ducks for an hour.
If you're getting board just spending time together, then you're relationship requires activity. That can get expensive. You can play cards, play a game, or just watch ducks, none of which costs anything to do.
Take care.
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