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writes:why can't he understnad that i love him soo much and i will kill for him to get back with me?i would really do anything to get him back if only i knew how!any advice would really help .
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2007): The best way to get his attention is to change your behaviour towards him. I believe it would be a good idea to avoid him for awhile, in your absence he is bound to wonder whats happened. In the situation at the moment he has all the power and it is no good, he knows you want to get back with him and would do anything and hes probably liking it!You need to appear like your moving on and getting over him (even though, inside you are bscreaming out to get back with him) you need to first put some distance between you, dont call him, text him, try to avoid going to places where you think he will be. If you do happen to bump into him acknowledge his presence but dont go out of your way to speak to him. Secondly you need to find yourself and be comfortable with who you are, it seems at the moment your focused totaly on winning him back! Try buying some new outfits, getting a new hair style, getting fit or even a whole make-over. Try to enjoy yourself with friends and family, it is hard when your mind is on other things but try to act positively and the positive thoughts will soon follow!Eventualy your ex will realise that you are not so "avaliable" to him anymore, and that you have changed, he will be very curious and may get in contact with you and you can then take some of the power back.The best advice I can give you is do not get in contact for awhile, it is probably the intensity between you at the moment that is actualy pushing him away. Abandon all contact for awhile and concerntarte on yourself, he may soon come back to you... but on your terms.
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reader, JustaGuy  +, writes (12 November 2007):
Perhaps he doesn't know, talk to him !
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionmy ex knows every thing about me even he knows my behaviour and everything .. he knows how much i love him!
it was really hard to get away from him ,i still can't do it.
he knows that he means everything to me , and in that way he can always do whatever.
thanks everyone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2007): talk to him.. if he doesn't agree with you, either wait a while then ask him on a date (but don't go on about "how much you love him" or "how much you miss him", just ask him out, and go from there) or get over it. those are really your only options..
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reader, kenny +, writes (6 November 2007):
 Does your ex know the extent of your feelings for him, and what you would do to have him back?. I don't know what hapened in the relationship before, or who finished with who. But the only thing i can suggest is talking to him, why don't you ask him out for a drink some where and tell him how you feel. If he reciprocates your feelings then all well and good. But if he does not want to get back with you then at least you will have tried, and you can move on with you life.
Good luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2007): He may understand perfectly, just is deciding to use it against you either playing hard to get or really doesnt have any feelings for you any more.
Sometimes the best thing to do is to give him his space and tell him once that you love him and will be happy to be with him but that you aren't going to wait and you are moving on. Let the decision be his to make and don't dwell on something that has no chance of happening.
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