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writes:My ex boyfriend is in the navy. We have been talking on and off for the past 4 years and he recently told me he is in love with me and has been for a very long time. But he doesnt want a long distance relationship.He gets out in 7 months. I love him and wanna be with him. Ive waited 4 years for him. should i wait 7 more months or move on?
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reader, sexykat6904 +, writes (8 November 2007):
sexykat6904 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for the advice but maybe i should add some more info to the story... I feel like hes been pushing me away. He has told me that he loves me and wishes he could move me and my 2 kids to washington right now and marry me. But he didnt actually ask me... and he has been really mean and reminding me every chance he gets that were not together. I know being in the navy is stressful and time consuming but he doesnt have to be so mean. I feel like if HE really loves ME then he wouldnt be pushing me away... i dont get guys
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2007): I agree with the other posts. If you love him and have waited for him 4 years . . . whats another 7 months?
I hope things work out for you x
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reader, sexi  +, writes (6 November 2007):
 Hi
I agree with the others. You should wait for him. You should know that if he is in the navy, he would be gone again and you have said that he doesnt want a long distance relationship, so if you wait for him then how are you going to have a relationship when he goes back? What is he looking for? Just make sure that you want the same things.
Regards,mail me if you wanna talk
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reader, Peppytoon  +, writes (6 November 2007):
I think that if you love him and haved waited this long already, why stop waiting now? I say wait for him if you know in your heart that you want to be with him. But that's just my opinion, only you know what you should you do :)
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