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anonymous
writes:Im in love with 2people can you please help me???dear cupid...im so so confused i hope u can try and give me some advice becase i dont really have anyone to talk to about i dont think any of my friends would understand.........I'm 18 and going out with my bf nearly 7months now and i love him to bits and i no he loves me loads too and has told me he dosent no wat he would do without me and i no i would miss him alot too if he wasnt there but.......ive worked with this guy for like 2years now and hes like 28 so hes a good bit older than me but hes always been really weird towards me but not really in a bad way jus all my friends have said oh god he actually loves u..but i took no notice of it really....but this summer i was going to america and before i went he gave me his email address and told me to mail him and he had told me he was really going to miss me while i was gone i didnt really believe it....so i mailed him when i was away i dont no why i jus wanted to he replied and everything and when i came home we started talking alot on msn and stuff he was always so nice to me i think thats wat drew him to me he told me how much hes always liked me since i worked there and wanted my number i gave it to him....was i very wrong to do this???i dont know really!then he wanted to meet up with me so i did i did like him but thought nothing wud come of it at all we get on like a house on fire we always have....and now were meeting up alot and not even after a month he told he was falling for me...but havent really done anything sexually. i do believe him would you? he says hes never been this happy with someone and he nos i have a bf too and he totally understands that im confused...but then i feel so so bad doing this to my bf but i also love this guy2 im always thinking about him........please help me.........ahhhh
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reader, sexy momma  +, writes (8 November 2007):
Hey
YOu should pick the guy you think will actually be there for u when you're down and don't pick the guy cuz hes really hot unless he's mad SEXY!!! (lol) But the real question is is does either of them like ya!!
LOve,
SEXY MOMMA
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reader, Kamola  +, writes (6 November 2007):
 I know im only 13, but hers what I can advise you to do.Think through what you have with you and this other 28 year old guy and think deeply if you will have any future with him. Who knows, he might just become like he was to you before and forget about you. Of course its Ok to like someone older than you, but you have to decide. You've been with your boyfriend for a long time. I magine if he had done this to you. You would feel very unappreciated wouldn't you?Just think about who you would last with in long-term and who you bond with better. Maybe this guy tells you he loves you and that all, but has he been there for you when you needed someone?
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