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writes:I have been with boyfriend for nearly a year but we have been going through a bit of a bad patch, he has been acting really strange so i accused him of cheating, we moved to live apart for a few weeks and started getting on great again. Last night he confessed he had been texting and ringing a girl for nearly a month and sat night they kissed and both had a bit of fumble with each other he says he is really sorry and ashamed and i love him but should i take him back?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2007): He doesn't sound like he's up for commitment- you haven't even been together a year and he's already fooling around on you! Keep things casual if I were you, that or dump him altogether. He could have fessed up at any point in the month he was going behind your back with her but instead he waited until he got what he wanted out of his interaction with her (kissing, fooling around) and then told you what happened. Sounds like a tosser to me.
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reader, sexi  +, writes (6 November 2007):
 Hi
It is hard to say. Everyone deserves a second chance so i would say you should give him one BUT you should first see if he is genuienly sorry and if he really wants to make things work. Make certain that he aint going to be doing that again. You should let him know that if it happens again then you would be gone and there would be no more chances. You should decide if your bf a cheater? Is it likely that he would do it again? It depends whether he is remorseful or not
Regaards,amil me if you wanna talk
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2007): Sorry but i wouldnt give him another minute of my time. He has done that i now he is sorry, well, i wouldnt be able to forgive him. Get rid and get someone who you so rightly deserve.
take care
xx
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reader, TomWilkinson +, writes (6 November 2007):
 The decision is entirely up to you, but personally, I would never take anyone back after doing that, even if they admitted and regretted doing so. With you guys getting on well again while you were apart, this is when he was doing these things, which suggests that possibly, you would work better as friends, as opposed to partners.
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reader, angelblueeyes +, writes (6 November 2007):
 Hi,what a situation you have! I think only you can answer that but in my opinion i would tell him to get knotted but thats only my opinion and its your life, seriously tho do you think you could completly trust him again? will you keep having him back if he does do the dirty on you?Don't let any man use or mess you around there are plenty of better fellas around! maybe its time you said enough is enough and find someone who can give you the respect that we all deserve!!I hope you get it sorted good luck!
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