A
female
age
41-50,
*heepingly
writes:So I got this Sensei who seems (at least) to me to be treating me better than other students, even better than the ones who are newer or been there longer than me. He'll tease me, give me little nicknames, pick on me...occasionally we'll talk about non martial arts stuff like life and his goals and etc. I ask him about certain classes and he always seems to ask me who I'm asking for. He's brought up a bf that I don't even have. Sometimes I'll catch him glancing at me, he'll touch me here and there...the other day after we all passed belt testing he gave me a big congratulations hug and didn't even do that to anyone else. He may have shook the hand of a couple of male students btu that's it...nothing for the other females and nothing else for the other males. So I figure he's interested. But he hasn't asked me out yet. So then I figure he isn't interested and I'm misreading everything. But then one can notice that he does treat me better. So I don't know what to do. I'm scared to flirt back.And then there are days where he'll be obvious about getting my attention and then other days he'll be completely professional and not really try and socialize with me at all. So what gives?So I'm lost and I don't know what to do. I have this fear if I talk to him about it (he is an understanding guy) that I will realize I misread everything and have made him feel awkward. Please help!
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reader, peaches83  +, writes (7 November 2007):
 Whether you make him feel awkward or not is not the issue.
Its something that needs to be set straight.
If he does like you then i could understand why he hasnt made a move, its the student teacher relationship. Ok so you are not at school but that is still what it is classed and gravely looked upon, so take that into considertion.
Also have you made any signs that you like him also. Yes you can flirt a little or you can ask him straight out, after all you are both adults so may be worth the try.
You will get your answer once and for all and if he does then yippe but if not then you move on.
Peaches
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