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anonymous
writes:I'm lesbian and I'm in a long-term relationship with another girl. We've been together for a year now, and we are in love. I've asked her if she's a lesbian, and my friend has done the same, and she's said no. After, I've asked her if she's bisexual, and she says that she doesn't know. She tells me that she loves me and that she isn't going to leave me, but I can't help but wonder what this means. It scares me to think about losing her.What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2008): Well my girlfriend is kinda the same way b/c when we forst go together she said that she was bi a year later she tells people she is gay, now she tells people she is with me and doesnt know what the hell she is. But She calms to love me and wants to marry me one day...I think that she is just confused...ABOUT IT ALL!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2008): I'll be honest with you. I am in the same damn situation right now. The only difference is that she has become my fiancee, but lately has been questioning her ability to be gay. She doesn't want to pretend to be gay, or for anyone to think that she is gay. Honestly, I think this has a lot to do with maturity. At the end of the day my girlfriend is not mature enough to understand that love is love, and that when you find it, you keep it. She is still stuck on labels, and what they mean. In the end, if your girlfriend loves you, and can say that she is not a lesbian, and has not given you signs that she is cheating or thinking about to - you don't have to worry. Plenty of straight women find love with other women, and they are not gay. They may be ultra attracted to men, but find love in a woman and choose to stay with her. Good luck.
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