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anonymous
writes: please help me......im 18 i have a boyfriend bt i love someone else too who also adores me but hes 28 and works with me and im scared to tell anyone or dont no wat to do....should i break up with my bf or not??im so confused Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2007): are u sure he loves u as much as u do, why i ask this is b'cos guys are mean so be careful in choosing lovemate
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reader, RNaunt +, writes (7 November 2007):
Hey!
HMmmm, not an easy situation to be in... I think that a lot of things come into account:
- how long have you been with your bf?
- are you sure that you 'love' this other guy? how do you know it's just b/c it's a new thing that different and kind of forbidden b/c he's so much older than you?
- if you truly love your bf, then i think you should talk to him about how you feel. Essentially, there has to be something wrong in your realtionhsip with him for you to have such strong feelings for someone else. Somehow this 28yr old guy does something for you that ur bf doesnt.
I wish you all the best and take care!
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