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writes:my girlfriend of 2 years is the love of my life, currently i thought everything is still going good. im in the u.s. coast guard and when i met her i was young, and she was young. everything was fine. she was in love with me, she said she would always be there for me and not leave me and was in love with her. but along came a friend, she came into our lives when we started dating. i think that she is trying to break us up for her own selfish wants and needs I think her "best" friend is a bad influence on her. im stationed 3,000 miles away from her because i got a new station. and she said that she was coming for 5 months and then yesterday she said that now she has to think about coming to live with me in miami beach, fl. shes bought stuff for our apartment, told people she was coming and how excited she was. then all of a sudden out of no where she said she needs a break from me. I spent practially 5 months without her so far apart from her for our whole relationship because the hardship the coast guard has put on me and my relationship. i think that her friend convinced her to stay and be there for her friends and family but not her true love which i thought was me. and i dont know why my girlfriend wont follow her heart and be with the one that actually wants to be with her. should i end it with her, or should i continue the pain of not knowing of what she wants to do with our relationship. stay with her and hope for resolution and maybe happiness with her. our relationship was perfect why all a sudden she keeps stabbing my heart and keeps me thinking we can still be together. in desperate need of advice.on the recieving end of pain
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reader, amiamuppett  +, writes (6 November 2007):
are you sure she is not shagging someone else
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reader, rcn +, writes (6 November 2007):
 If I were you I'd be asking her questions. Such as how she feels about the relationship. What are her plans. Why after being apart for 5 months all ready does she feel it's time for a break? etc.
Remember her moving is about her, but it benefits you. You need to tap into her feelings to see what her intentions by all this is.
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