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writes:I'm fifteen and in a steady relationship, and I'm scared things are getting too serious for me. He cried on me the other day because he thought I liked my gay friend. Pathetic since he's gay! Anyway I do like another guy.. and I got really close to him yesterday after a bomfire. I got really drunk and he took me into town and waited with me, hugged me and stopped me from freezing to death till my mum came to pick me up. I could stay with my boyfriend, who I do love.. If i know what love is. And always have someone to pick me up when im down.Or I could split up with him, break his heart and live my life more. I'ts so hard:(:(What should I do?
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reader, sexi  +, writes (6 November 2007):
 Hi
You cant stay with someone if you are not entirely happy with them. You would end up hurting him more in the future. You said that you have feelings for someone else so maybe that is the reason that you feel like ending your current relationship. You need to realize that your bf loves you alot to have cried for you(even if it was for a silly reason) He cried because he thought he was going to lose you. I think you should think about this carefully. You cannot stay with your bf if you dont really want to be with him, you should be with someone that you loves and wanna be with. If you decide to break things of withyour bf then you should do so in a calm gentle way (however no matter how gentle you are he would still be hurt) and then you should wait a while before you head into the other relationship.Hope this has helped you.
Regards,mail me if you wanna talk
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reader, peaches83 +, writes (6 November 2007):
 You state that you love your current boyfriend however to ultimatly love him you wouldnt be as "friendly" with another guy.
Breking up with him could break his heart but it will only hurt for a while.
I know it sounds harsh, but you are only 15 and at the age where you should be living your life and not getting to serious and setteling down.
Im not telling you to go man crazy or anything like that. Im suggesting that you discuss with your boyfriend of maybe taking a break, this way you can decide whether its right or you or not.
If you feel that you can not live without im in your life other that a friend then you know your answer.
As for im crying on you because he thinks you fancy your gay friend, hmmm it shows that he has a very sensetive side and doesnt mind showing his feelings.
If this is not something you expect to see from a guy it could be a problem.
Think wise.
Good luck
Peaches x
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