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*amola
writes:My ex cheated on my with this very fat girl I used to be mates with. And he dumped me by text while i was away for the half term. I was well upset, and it only was three weeks or a months since we've been dating. Everyone keeps calming me down at school saying that youre too good for him and that fat bitch is waaay uglier than me. of course i know thats true, but i just cant get over it. i always ask myself what ive done wrong. i cant even talk to my parents because they are wwaaay overprotective. they dont even know i have boyfriends. some of my mates are acting weird these days, or is it just me?please helpkamola
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reader, kenny +, writes (6 November 2007):
 I know it hurts, nobody wnats to be cheated on, and espessially not dumped by phone. Look at it this way its better you found out he was a jerk now rather than later. The only one that lost out here is him, you know it, your mates know it, hell everybody knows it. You are young, pick yourself up, dust yourself down and forget about this boy. Forget about boys till you are older and concentrate on having a wicked time with your pals and enjoy the joys of being young free & single, because believe me it won't last forever!!
Good luck x
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reader, amiamuppett +, writes (6 November 2007):
you are only 13 yrs old, you have your whole life ahead of you, someone will come along who will appreachiate you, you should sit down and talk to your mum, she might be over pertected of you, but that only meens she cares for you, if this lad really liked you he wouldnt cheat on you, you should hold your head up high, and let him know that your not bothered, im 21 trust me on this one ok chick.
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reader, rcn  +, writes (6 November 2007):
 Cheating hurts, but I want you need to understand that cheating is generally just a selfish action that has nothing to do with an intent to harm someone else. It does end up hurting, and I'm sure he knew that it would, but he did the action because he wanted to. He's the one that did it, he's the one who chose her, and you get off easy because he left.
It's not you, it has nothing to do with your looks, or who you are as a person. It only has to do with his selfish need to do what he had done.
Take care.
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