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writes: Dear Cupid'sI have a major problem with myself. My left ring finger is shorter and the knuckle seems to be lower and you cant see it. I would like to know will surgery be able to fix this? As i have had enough of people calling me disgusting when seeing it, and now that im in college i keep on dreading the day some one will see it, especially the girls.Plzzz help me and tell me if surgery can fix it or if it cant, and will i be able to get it done for free if it can be fixedYours sincerelyBoy that is sad Reply to this Question
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reader, Blue_Angel0316  +, writes (6 November 2007):
 If people treat you badly because you finger is just a wee bit shorter than it should be you need to avoid those people. They aren't worth your time anyway. They are short more than the lenght of a finger. They don't have a great deal of compassion to start with. It is just plain ill mannered and RUDE and ignorance to be that way toward someone who has a physical or other flaw.
The length of your finger has nothing to do with what kind of person you are. I am sure that you have had your feelings hurt deeply because of being treated like this. You have ever right to be cold and distant to these people. I have a feeling that however you aren't. Don't try to fix anything so that you will be liked better or viewed a *perfect. There is no such thing! If the condition isn't affecting your ability to write and act like a good human being, don't worry about it. Accept yourself the way you are. Be the best you can be and realize that the people who are so ugly to you because you have this problem are probably trying to cover up something they don't like about themselves.
If it ain't broken Don't fix it. and if it gets fixed someone might just find another reason to make you feel bad. If it works for you leave it be. You are the one who matters most of all. Anyone who cares and respects you will accept you the way you are!!!
God bless you and help you to feel the Goodness of whom He had made. Godspeed.
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reader, tux +, writes (6 November 2007):
 Learn to accept your flaws and be less worried about what others think about them. Is anyone worth your time who won't accept you even with your flaws? I wouldn't worry too much about it. Often times, worrying about it is what causes the most pain and draws more negative attention.
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