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*han14
writes:Me and my boyfriend of a year and a half share a myspace page. He told me a couple amonths ago about one of his ex-girlfriends but I didn't worry about it much, but on myspace he wrote her saying Hi and what she has been up to. I am upset by the fact that she's his ex but he said their friends. Should I be so hurt by this? And oh.... out of revenge I added my ex-boyfriend as a friend,was this wrong?
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reader, iwillhelp +, writes (9 November 2007):
 definitly not you were right girl i am saying WATCH it because what you think they are jus saying hi how wasd your HELL NO my boyfriend did the same thing with his ex and i found out they were talking about how they missed each other and later he told me h still loved her all's im saying dont let him talk to her ex girl friends are sneeky shes probally jelouse of you and is gonna start flirting with him i mean it WATCH if you want to chat email
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (7 November 2007):
 You sound like you're overreacting a little bit. It sounds like he's only being friendly, but he doesn't sound like he's flirting with her or anything. Perhaps you could be angry if he was writing sort of suggestive notes, but these seem like only polite, platonic chit chat.
And I don't think adding your ex boyfriend is "wrong" per se. I think it's a little childish only to add your ex boyfriend for vindictive purposes... I am friends with all of my ex-boyfriends on myspace, it's no big deal. Just because you're myspace friends doesn't mean that you're talking or into each other or anything... just means that you know each other.
I don't think you have anything to worry about, sweetness.
Congratulations on being with a guy for a year and a half at your age! So young, that's such a long time. Awesome!!
xxIndia
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