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writes:So I dated this guy for a really long time, we broke up and now are kinda friends but I am still in love with him and he says he is still in love with me. Although, unfortunatley I'm still really wrapped around his finger and still let him borrow money from me whenever, so what is he really wanting my money or me???? HELP!!!
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reader, dapone 1  +, writes (6 November 2007):
 Hello.
I think because you are giving him money he is only telling you the things you want to hear, eg i love you, he is more likely to love the money more, if you stop giving him money say for a month then you can see how long he stays around you, by this time you will have your answer.
Hope this will help you.
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reader, sexi  +, writes (6 November 2007):
 Hi
The sad thing about loving someone is you wanna do everything to help them out. The good thing is that you seem to have realized what he is up to. I suggest that the next time he asks you for money say you dont have. If he still hags around then you would know. I think you should out a stop to his borrowing habits by not giving him any more money. I assume that he doesnt repay you so why should you lend him the money? Stop lending him the money and see if he is still there when then money isnt.
Regards,mail me if you wanna talk
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2007): Tell him if he wants some money he should get a job, he is not into you he is using you i say get rid of him and have some respect for yourself!!
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reader, chlez83  +, writes (6 November 2007):
He may be using your love for him just to benefit financially.Stop giving him money for a while and see his reaction.Since you are worried about his interest in the money you give him,remove that element and see what he does.If you really love him try to overcome all that caused you to break up.But if da issues are too big,move on and stop giving him special favours coz you'll never move on like that.
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