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anonymous
writes:My boyfriend called me and we met. However he hasn't called me again yet and few days has passed. Although he isn't interested in a serious relationship at least for this time and i has realized it, i like to meet him because he is interested and nice. Now should i wait him to call me or can i call him? I don't want to seem very interested but not that i don't mind at all.
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reader, sexi  +, writes (6 November 2007):
 Hi
You need to understand what your bf wants out of this relationship and then decide if you would be happy with that or do you want something more? The fact that he hasnt called maybe because this is the type of relationship that he wants, you should decided if that is how you would like to continue.If you are not getting what you want then you should leave this relationship.You should text him saying that you wanna meet him. When yourll do meet again then you should discuss yourlls relationship and then decide. Maybe he wants a relationship where you dont call each other too often and meet up once in a while. See what suits YOU and then decide.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2007): If he isn't interested in a serious relationship - can you settle for LESS? This is the question. If you are prepared for a constant [hot-cold relation] you can take it and it won't matter who calls firstly - only be sure you can stand for the changes in temperature... If you can't accept that type of restrictive relationship, it is best to distance yourself now. How did you "realise it"? He wasn't honest to tell you and you! had to conclude this? Make a decision and respect yourself for it. All the best.
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reader, greatest love  +, writes (6 November 2007):
well you can call him if you like his company...that's the only way you would know if he liked your company too. when you call him you can come up with some excuse to call. that way you wouldn't seem very interested.
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reader, carolyne  +, writes (6 November 2007):
I think you should wait for him too call you dont look desperate because if you do the guy will loose intrest in you and he might even disrespect you and take you for granted.Girl if you feel is too much too handle call him and straighten things up and dear let it go and dont go back too him cause what you share is not arelationship cause love is trust honesty and communication matters and since his quite he doesn,t care andf love you and by the way men they dont say its over cause they are afraid of tommorrow they just show you the actions and its up to you to read the between the lines and conclude.Take heart be strong and your true love will come at its own time.
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