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writes:my girl friend has been dating me and another guy. she told me that she was a virgin. i am a virgin and i found out she was having intercourse with the other guy. she said she thought of it as dating two guys. it's obviously not a level playing field. since when is having intercourse with one guy dating? i took her to movies, dinner;etc. now that's dating. he never did anything for her, didn't spend a dime on her. just recently broke it off with him and is now exclusivley with me. we are having sex now but she is unwilling to do with me what she did with him (he was qiute experienced and rather well endowed).she said that was only for their relationship. why will the girl do that for him but not for me the love of her life, so she says? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2008): She is probably not that much into you. It sounds like you are a fall back choice for her, someone she makes do with when her real love is not there for her. From the way you tell the story, you know that already.
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reader, dapone 1  +, writes (6 November 2007):
 Hello.
when you are in a relationship, it does not matter what that person did with some else,it is wrong of you to want her to be the same with you as she was with him.
you are two different people and should adjust your relationship to suit each others need, dont you want to be your own man and do the things together that you both enjoy, rather than copy the things that some else has done.
if you love each other then you should accept each for what you are and not dragging her back to what she did in a past relationship, if you continue in this manner then you will loose her for good, just accept her the way she is with you, and enjoy the time you have together.
Hope this will help you.
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reader, tux +, writes (6 November 2007):
 I believe she's going to give you more headaches than what you need. I think you need to step back and think what you really want from this relationship and ask yourself if you think she will give it to you. I believe you will be better off without her. At one point she said she was a virgin and you found out she was sleeping with another guy? I have a strange feeling that she may have not been truthful about her status to begin with. She was dating 2 guys..He was the sex part and you were just the spend time and money part. I have my doubts that she actually broke it off with him. or if she did, he just became unavailable to her. I don't think she's going to be worth the heartache I can forsee in the future. It won't be too long before she finds her second guy again.
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