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writes:im worried!did it happen? me and my bf was fooling last night. im a v and wanna stay one till im married and my bf knows that. but last nite he did put he's thing in me but not in my vagina but the other one. i really dont know what exactly happened he did push and push it into, and the next thing he took it out and he did "come" on my feet but then we saw blood coming also, only a few! i looked at him worried and he said it's because he did force it. what now for a moment i thought i did loose my virginity and i cried but than i realized i'm not the one who was bleeding but he was. tell me what did we do what exactly happened. did he lose his virginity or what??? but he told me that he did had sex before a couple of times! we are really crazy about each other! but what happened did i lose my virginity or did he??????
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2008): he must have damaged your anus perhaps or maybe even worse large intestine i'd recomend you to see a doctor as you can get an infection like that...
good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2007): thank you so much guys it help alot and really made me realize to stay away from these things because it will only be a matter of time before i'll loose my virginity if i'll go on like this. THANKS KEEP WELL
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reader, Sandman  +, writes (6 November 2007):
 Well, at the rate your going you won't be a virgin for very long. Pretty soon you will want to feel his penis inside you. Simply put, if you want to stay a virgin until your married, don't allow yourselves to be in situations that will involve you making decisions in the heat of the moment.
Well, your boyfriend isn't a virgin - he told you that. Technically, you're still a virgin because he didn't penetrate your vagina. The bleeding - it could be that he tore some of the skin on his penis. Or it could be that he tore some areas inside your anus while penetrating you there. The anus is highly vascular (contains lots of blood vessels) and is susceptible to tears more easily than the vagina because it is not as elastic as the vagina. Also, just so you know, HIV (and other STI's) is passed very easily through anal sex because there are lots of blood vessels in the anus. I'm assuming you didn't use a condom since you stated your boyfriend was bleeding. It's very hard to tear the skin of the penis with a condom on.
Hope this helps.
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reader, sexi  +, writes (6 November 2007):
 Hi
You are still a virgin because he did not penetrate your vagina. If your bf had sex then he is not a virgin but can also bleed as he would have forced his penis and may have hurt himself. Relax, everything is ok.
Regards,mail me if you wanna talk
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reader, chlez83  +, writes (6 November 2007):
Daaaaa he just hurt himself down there.It seem he was trying to have anal sex with you and ended up hurting himself.Has happnened to me too.If you are not a pornstar your anus is quite small and isn't flexible like your vegina and da bones there are aligned differently from the vagina and hence if a man keeps forcing himself there two things will happen.You'll feel pain and he'll end up hurting you.But the more you do it the more accustomed your anus will get to the size of his penis and no1 will be bleeding and you'll feel less pain.However,continue like that and he'll surely hit da target soon and you'll lose your virginity.There are many forms of sex that don't involve penetration down there e.g fellatio or just help him musturbate
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reader, peaches83  +, writes (6 November 2007):
 Ok to start with your boyfriend isnt a virgin because you stated that he had sex before.
To stop you been a virgin you would have to have viginal penetration.
The blood may have been that with the force he maybe tore his foreskin or something like that.
Dont worry you are still classed as been a virgin.
If you decide to continue with anal sex i would suggest trying it with less force and maybe some lube.
Peaches
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