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anonymous
writes:this is just generally a letter spilling how i'm feeling to people, becasue i dont have anyone to really talk o it about...i'll sum it up..i was seeing this guy for bout 2 months, bout 5 weeks into it i found out he was cheating on me with his ex-girlfriend who he went out with for a more then a year. However after he reasured me that he wanted to be with me, and had ended everything with her we slowly got back to how we were...two nights ago i had the best day and night ever with him. we talkd for hours and hours, i felt so comfortable with him, he was also realy passionate and i looked back on that night feeling that he might actualy be the guy that means something to me, and doesn't play me around...the one.but yesterday i got an e-mail from him, which basically confessd that even though we had a great night, and he loved being with me, he had really strong feelings for his ex.i dont believe he ever finishd it with her.it really has crushed me...im so distraught.
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reader, RNaunt  +, writes (7 November 2007):
Hey hun,
Im so sorry that he couldn't figure out his stuff. I've been in the exactly same situation when i was about your age. It sucks. You feel cheated but at the same time you try and understand because a) you're nice and you know that it's hard to control your feelings and b) you really like the guy. So it's easy to excuse his behaviour. But as you get older, thank god, you'll realize that this behaviour is unacceptable. People ahve to figure out their S@#T before they get involved with others. I wish you all the best. I haven't really given you any advice but hope that you just know that someone understands how you feel. Take care and all the best. Things will get better, with or without him.
-RN Aunt
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