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How do I instigate sex with my boyfriend?

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Question - (6 November 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 6 November 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i want my boyriend to finger me but i think he thinks that i dont want him to do it.. also i would like to toss him off ive been goin out with him for 2 weeks but weve not done anything but kiss..will someone please tell me how to toss him off i dont want to make a fool of myself lol! + how can i let him know that i dont mind him fingering me without saying PUT YA HAND IN MA PANTS lol!! wb xx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2007):

ere mate im 15 not 12

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A female reader, hello1 United Kingdom +, writes (6 November 2007):

hello1 agony auntThis is wrong, don't listen to mistify. You are too young for this, I have no ideal what sort of life you have to make you like this at such a young age, but really think about this. Your only twelve years old

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A female reader, Mistify South Africa +, writes (6 November 2007):

Mistify agony auntWOW - okay.

I will just ignore your age and answer the question best i can. I cannot preach to you, because i became sexually active at the age of 12, so i'm no angel myself.

Okay - to satisfy your man, you need to make sure he is lubricated, else you might cause too much friction, and hurt him. Take your hand, and put it at the base of his penis. Take a firm grasp - and apply some pressure, but don't cut off the blood flow. From there, holding your grasp, start moving your hand up and down his shaft. You will see what he likes by trying out different speeds. Get yourself in a comfy position, because your arm may become tired. Right in front of him is good. He will probably tell you when he's gonna cum, so just keep on going at that speed then. Also, don't be afraid to ask him if he likes it. All people are different.

As for him fingering you, when he fondles you, or touches you in the moment things are steamy, gently take his hand, and move it downwards, directing him to your juicy bits.

He will take it from there.

Please please please, BE SAFE.

2 weeks is also not a long time to be with someone, so relax, and take it slow. Save some for later.

Good luck, let me know how it goes...

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2007):

while your lyin on the bed watchin a film or summet, start kissin him n then slowly slide your hands down his pants, n he will soon copy

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